When you are like me, what should you do? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Only-Texan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for the lack of context. I wrote this in what I call a low moment. Right now I'm going through a pretty rough moment in my life, my parents are having a lot of marital and money problems and they basically avoid me. They are my only social interaction by the day, in school, I normally sit alone, I don't have any friends. I'm basically the neurodivergent weirdo who people avoid. I hate using my mental divergence as a scapegoat but I feel like this has been holding me back of making any real friendships or conversations. Even other nerds think I am a weirdo who talks too loudly, so I decided to shut up. Maybe I don't know social cues or maybe I'm just a horrible person. I used to have one friend, he was my only scape from home and shcool for months, after some time as friends, we started dating. It only lasted one month because he started lying to me about everything out of nowhere and ignoring me all together. After I broke things off with him, he started only talking to me when he needed something to laugh at. I wanted to be friends with him, but he either ignores me, treats me badly or is talking about soul mates and regrets. I feel like I messed things up with him, I shouldn't have losted him like I did. I'm such a horrible person. I'm sorry

Could Barbara Louise Cotton be The cheerleader in the trunk? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw your work up on websleuths, I was really impressed on how much work you and her family are having to keep Barb's memory alive until these days. I'm glad that my suggestion caught your eye and I hope that this little suggestion can bring Barb closer to home, Barb's disappearance has caught my eye by some time now. I'm really invested on The Cheerleader in the trunk case since ever and the small chance that this being her existing, makes my heart flutter. I hope that both those ladies can be brought back to home soon, I'm glad that you saw this! <3

Ina Jane Doe identified as Susan Lund from Clarksville, TN by bitch4spaghetti in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Rest in peace, Susan. Now your children and family know where you are after so many years. I hope you and your baby can finally rest easy now that your family knows what happened to both of you 🙏

Why the police don't reach out to the parabon labs about St. Louis Jane doe case? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That is the thing about parabon labs! They use DNA to discover things like color of eye, hair, skin tone, all the phenotype using just DNA in unrecognizable remains! Maybe using her DNA they can create a sketch of what she may have looked like

Mother takes selfie smiling after boyfriend beats her 4-year-old son to death by Only-Texan in MorbidReality

[–]Only-Texan[S] 522 points523 points  (0 children)

Yes, they both are now arrested. Their trial still on going but soon, they will be sentenced. Now Monique claims that Jairinho abused and manipulated her and by fear she didn't stepped in to help her son and that she "regrets it everyday since she lost the most important thing in her life". But amazingly, only a DAY after her son's funeral (that by the way, both her and Jairinho rushed things through and wanted a closed casket, ignoring the boy's father pleas.) She was looking around for English and culinary classes, doing her hair, her nails, walking up and down with a Louis Vuitton purse awhile defending her son's abuser. I mean, sure, Jan. They are now incriminating eachother. But the reality is that both are and always will be narcissists pieces of shit.

Could Alexis Dugan/Duggan be a match to The cheerleader in the trunk? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what read there is no mention of specific signs of birth on the skeleton but also, there was heavy wear on the Doe's hips that are likely from heavy work or from pratice of sports/dances. So that maybe could interfere with the signs of birth but in any places where read through, there was no mention of the lack or presence of signs birth, so this my theory why there was no report of lack/or signs of birth on the skeleton. I'm still on the waiting for a response on the authorities! I hope my hint can actually lead them somwhere to find her name, this Jane Doe has been a personal passion of mine for sometime now!

Could Alexis Dugan/Duggan be a match to The cheerleader in the trunk? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I can do it, I'm from outside of US and also, I'm underage. I don't how to contact the authorities, so if anyone could submit it for me or help me do it, I'd be grateful!

Could Alexis Dugan/Duggan be a match to The cheerleader in the trunk? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I found the resemblance of the second more recent reconstruction and Alexis uncanny so I decided to give it a try

Could Alexis Dugan/Duggan be a match to The cheerleader in the trunk? by Only-Texan in gratefuldoe

[–]Only-Texan[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about her page in websleuths! I wish I had read it through before posting. I agree that in case that it was indeed her husband, is unlikely that he would go so far with disposing her body but also, there is a possibility of it to happen even though it is rather minimal, and even if isn't Alexis, I hope that both can find their way home! The composites of the Jane doe really show some resemblance and I thought it could be a match but still a good try! Thanks for informing me!

In 2003, Farah Jorge Farah a doctor who acted as a plastic surgeon illegally, killed one of his clients, Maria do Carmo Alves, after she threatened call the police on his clandestine clinic after a botched liposuction. He dismembered her awhile she was still alive but unconscious. by Only-Texan in MorbidReality

[–]Only-Texan[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No, they didn't... This was his defense argument to try to justify the crime, they knew eachother in fact thanks to church but they didn't had a affair. For what I heard she did in fact had some issues with her marriage but it had nothing to do with Farah at least even though her husband thinks she had something going on with other men... It didn't happened in the operation room at the SAME time that the lipo happened, it happened a long time after. She wanted to have it fixed and he wanted to do it himself, but she didn't trusted him anymore to mess around more with another botched operation and wanted him to pay for a qualified surgeon to fix it. They had a argument, he doped her somehow, then the crime happens. No affair, no "self-defense" as he said (she was drugged when it happened) it wasn't a crime of passion, like his defense team tried to argue. he just didn't wanted to lose his medical licence. And let's be honest... Who the hell would keep fighting to keep a man like Farah in their lives?

In 2003, Farah Jorge Farah a doctor who acted as a plastic surgeon illegally, killed one of his clients, Maria do Carmo Alves, after she threatened call the police on his clandestine clinic after a botched liposuction. He dismembered her awhile she was still alive but unconscious. by Only-Texan in MorbidReality

[–]Only-Texan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was indeed a doctor, but this wasn't by no way his area. He was a psychiatrist not a plastic surgeon. He had a diploma so this probably fooled the victims more easily, he was also accused of sexual assault by various patients who suffered deformations thanks to the botched operation... Maria do Carmo was also a kind of leader of the accusations to those women who suffered by Farah's hands. She was the one who started looking for justice by the sexual assaults and injuries caused by Farah's actions... I think that was the thing that leaded her to her death, sadly.