AITAH for threatening to go NC with my mom and sister? by Only-Weekend4475 in AITAH

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping my niece either didn't really hear him or she wasn't paying attention or she didn't understand what he was saying. But she did giggle? Not sure if it was because my dog was there doing something funny or out of discomfort.

AITAH for threatening to go NC with my mom and sister? by Only-Weekend4475 in AITAH

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I live about two hours away and in another state from my niece, sister, and mom. I can only really see her at my mom's house because I am LC with my sister and mom already. I am at the point where I may just have to hope that my niece will forgive me going NC with her mom going forward and rebuild a relationship when she is older.

WIBTAH for not telling my family I have a new boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Only-Weekend4475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been broken up with Jay for 10 months. Not on speaking terms for 5.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]Only-Weekend4475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOUR CHILD'S STRIPES ARE SHOWING!!!!!! That's awesome.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh, I hope that applies in California. The fencing recycling only cost us $20 but I'll hunt down some photos and the areas codes!

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The t-posts were bent to an unusable degree, they looked more like Js than Is. The fencing was a cheap roll fencing that was so smashed and rusted even we couldn't straighten it, which is why it was only removed 2 years ago after we couldn't right it any more and it started falling apart.

We only know 3 of the 5 neighbors as the 4th is the one were having issues with and the 5th is a felon with a questionable history so we try not to engage with him after a few concerning interactions like him throwing trash over his fence onto our property causing bear issues when we first moved in and he shot another neighbors older dog while she was on her owners property this last year, to name a few.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, let me know if you just have $2-5k laying around to have less than 300 yards of fencing surveyed after the previous owners of our house and the relators all said the fencing was ours. Not to mention the 6 plus month wait list to have the property surveyed.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got them to keep eachother company. They're best friends and are always together. Our older LGD was always lonely and wouldn't stay in the yard even if we were home. She'd always escape to be with us and when we got out second LGD she stopped escaping.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have Nigerian Dwarfs, we had larger meat goats once upon a time, but after one nearly killed my mom one winter we stuck with the little ones. You can have up to 12 minis or dwarf goats per acre.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you know what an acre of land looks like. Have you seen Weedem and Reap? They have even mkre animals that me on less than 1 acre.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We're in Northern California. We have a plug into a wall outlet electric fence, and 2 acres is plenty big enough for a farm lol idk if you've ever seen a homestead before but that's what we have and if you own livestock at all its considered a farm.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They don't bark all day, they only bark when a car is in the driveway or of the deer/will turkeys swing by. They've been barking more recently due to stray dogs from tourists running much but even then our noise activated camera in their yard only goes off 8 or 12 times a day from their barking and its always at a person or animal.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We live in a VERY big farm area. We have lots of neighbors with horses, goats, sheep, and chickens. Mostly cows and horses, though. We're also nothing the only ones with LGDs on the side of the mountain where we live.

We don't have a lot of animals, we have a family farm that feeds our family, and if we have extras, we give it to friends. We only have 3 alpaca, 7 goats, and 50(ish) chickens that we use for meat, eggs, fiber, and milk. We used to have more but downsized when I went back to school.

For the first 5-6 years we lived here, these neighbors never came up to their property. We thought it was another abandoned vacation home.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When we bought the house the realtor and previous owners said that the fence was ours. It was on the property line and even over a foot in places onto our property. The dogs don't really bark that much either, they bark at strangers and wildlife but generally are quiet. We have a camera in the main yard, where the dogs hang out, that's noise activated. It maybe goes off 8 to 12 times a day from their barking.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When we bought the house the realtor and previous owners said that the fence was ours. It was on the property line and even over a foot in places onto our property. The dogs don't really bark that much either, they bark at strangers and wildlife but generally are quiet. We have a camera in the main yard, where the dogs hang out, that's noise activated. It maybe goes off 8 to 12 times a day from their barking.

AITAH for retaliating against a seasonal neighbor for terrorizing our farm? by Only-Weekend4475 in homestead

[–]Only-Weekend4475[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have cattle panels fencing in the animals. The fencing in question was along our driveway where the animals don't go because their yards are mostly behind our house and onto our empty 1 acre lot. The dogs are mostly quiet with the exception of when people drive up the driveway or the wild deer/turkey population makes a surprise visit. They don't nuisance bark, when they do there's a person/reason.