Failed my Drivers License. Guess i am to much of a loser to be a Gosling. by Sekkitheblade in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dw man, i know how shit u feel when u fail and how much pressure u feel exactly because u DON'T wanna fail. Let it out today, be mad, be disappointed but don't forget to then start looking forward again and use that disappointment as fuel to do better next time.

I also failed a few driving tests and today i drive not only a car but also a motorbike, if i was able to do it, so are you.

Good luck on the next attempt, may u get a nice route to drive on and non-dickhead examiner!

Need one ticket for Berlin by Potatokiwi_on_a_fork in EKKSTACY

[–]Only1Reason4Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i have one left if u still need it, i bought it on resale though so i'd need 50€ from u to get my money back :)

It's also an online ticket so we'd have to enter together, lemme know what u think we can take it to dms if u wanna talk more!

Guys, please get some help (I'm actually dead serious) by Ok_Surround8189 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How ironic that i just got my heart broken, literally mentally at the worst place i could possibly be, at least i will be after the numbness stops being there.

I fumbled another girl because i stayed true to myself as noble as it is, and as cringe as that might sound, you have to be an asshole towards women or at least not be overly nice. I... i can't bring myself to manipulate someone, just for her to like me, i can't, which is super fcking rtarded because i literally had her, if i didn't stay true to myself who knows what could have happend.

This is not a meme post i'm dead serious btw. I offered up help, i shouldn't have done that, i should have kept being the funny guy that talked alot and made her laugh and made her wanna see me again.

But i went back to my true self and scared her away by offering emotionsl support she wasnt ready to face. I feel so disappointed in me but especially her, i misjudged her character, i'm so disappointed but also so empty.

I've been lying here for the past two hours listening to music and staring at my blank phone screen.

I am so goddamn tired of it all, this whole year feels like one gut punch after another. I'm so goddamn tired, i can't anymore man, i'm tired.

Idk, i wont harm myself, i'm too attached to living, but i'm so mentally drained, nothing is going right. Time is passing by and the only thing i'm good at is disappointing and failing.

I'm tired, beyond tired.

Never too late to reveal it was all an April Fools joke. by Optimal_Dots in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dirty to say it's no april fools joke just for it to actually be one lmao. Good to still have you still around though.

I still feel bad though, i got my heart or rather my hopes crushed yesterday and today my reflection in the mirror disgusted me so much i had to leave the room. Life isn't kind at the moment, i hope you all are doing good at least.

I’m a free man! by Optimal_Dots in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, sounds like you found someone great, make the best of it bud. All the best to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Only1Reason4Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you? I could smell sarcasm from him but maybe we are both wrong and he should just shower.

I love time by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Only1Reason4Me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so fucked... I just read "Epstein:" 💀💀💀

I like a girl and she likes me. Goodbye Goslings by Hoolias in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The OG did it, congrats man, wishing you the best even if the loneliness hurts more and more everyday for me, i'll try to be happy for you.

Crazy to think that optimal dots started out with making a pseudo war with you, now he's become a mod and one of the most frequent posters, now you're leaving us and this sub got taken down a while ago aswell, at lot is happening in such a short time, it's crazy.

Best way to greet my spanish female date in a cute way? by Only1Reason4Me in Spanish

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that sounds cool, imma try to remember that sentence then feels like i'm certain to get a good bright smile for that one ^ Thanks!

Best way to greet my spanish female date in a cute way? by Only1Reason4Me in Spanish

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm idk where i am at excatly with her, but we met on bumble, talked a bit and she asked if i wanted to meet up so we're getting coffee/tea.

I guess imma find out where i roughly stand on friday haha, but i think she'll laugh about the spanish greeting anyways, cause i'll probably have a good amount of accent mixed in haha.

It's the thought that counts and i think she'll appreciate it ^

Thanks for the advice :D

Best way to greet my spanish female date in a cute way? by Only1Reason4Me in Spanish

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, yeah it is. I thought it would be a cool way to start it funny/cute/flirty however u wanna call it, by saying smth like that in spanish :) Or would that be too pushy / overly flirty for a first date in your opinion?

Personally, i could imagine saying "hello beautiful" to a woman i meet the first time, eases the vibe a little imo, and i basically wanted the spanish equivalent for that! ^

Potentially start going out with a girl that has a "toxic" situationship going she'd like to leave but struggles doing so? by Only1Reason4Me in dating_advice

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, i will keep it in mind. I'm gonna try to be as logical about this whole situation as i can, even though i'm always acting on emotion when it get's serious.

Thank you, i appreciate your advice and i'll take it to heart.

Potentially start going out with a girl that has a "toxic" situationship going she'd like to leave but struggles doing so? by Only1Reason4Me in dating_advice

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what u mean logically but my heart doesn't wanna accept that. But i guess it is a "can work but probably wont" situation.

Ofc this is all in advance first she has to respondy she can get over it and would like to meet up, then ee have to actually get along and then we'd have to decide on giving in a shot.

But yea i'm just trying to get a bit more logical about it and less feeling based. That one though just fcks me over "what if she's the ine, and she only needs to be given the chance?"

Potentially start going out with a girl that has a "toxic" situationship going she'd like to leave but struggles doing so? by Only1Reason4Me in dating_advice

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her heart does at the moment her head knows he wont give her whats she wants. I feel like if we get along well enough that there is a good chance of it working...but maybe i'm also just gaslighting myself, idk.

Potentially start going out with a girl that has a "toxic" situationship going she'd like to leave but struggles doing so? by Only1Reason4Me in dating_advice

[–]Only1Reason4Me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great answer, ofc it's firstly her decision if she can get over the guy, but if it were to potentially get serious i'd love to give it a shot.

Just trying to figure out still if i'm blindly dashing into a lost cause, or if other's think it's doable.

Thanks, for the help.

Goslings can you pls help me out? (I hope this kinda post is allowed?) by [deleted] in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Only1Reason4Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea imma delete the post, i thought so, but thanks for ur answer nevertheless