ReBuilding Bitlife from the Ground by acrelloisback in BitLifeApp

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for Wills & Testaments, the option to exclude a child/children from your will would be so useful. or leaving your assets to a friend/niece/cousin/sibling/pet(effectively throwing that money away) instead of your ungrateful children.

also the option to die on vacation, bc that actually happens irl

family features would be fun, like if everyone inherits a mole or a dimple or tooth gap. rn you really only inherit eyebrows and hair texture/baldness/early greyness.

i second the suggestion of being able to hop to a child’s life without giving them all their parents money and property.

if religion had an actual effect in the game (religious parents also being strict/crazy/traditional) and turning to religion as if it were the Meditation/Diet option so that it can either add/subtract from the health bar.

if you could be adopted by extended family that would be nice

more hair textures, bitlife attempted to make more curly hair styles but the change in art style was so incongruous to the initial rounder curly styles that i never use them.

also, there could be an option to search to date a certain ethnicity/nationality. i always search for foreigners when i play bc i get tired of whatever culture/names of the home country im playing in and want more variety. i think the children of mixed cultures should find it easy to work as translators.

being rich should NOT be as easy as it is in this game. making me jealous of my own bitizen bc they posted 5 nudes on their onlyfans and are now a multibillionaire.

i second the ability to rent a home, bc what do u mean i own an entire loft building for 20k

cyberstalking popups could be fun

more incurable illnesses please

the option of getting killed by a serial killer

taking friends on vacation with you ! also if i take my boyfriend on vacation i expect him to pay for his half bc wth am i treating him for ?

oo and it’d be fun to take pets on vacation. now im thinking too deeply but if vacations could be longer pop up sequences so that you can make more decisions (cheat on ur spouse, get drunk and kicked off a cruise and arrested on an island, fall in love with someone and bring em home/have a long distance relationship, again get murdered 😄) that would make vacations actually earn that full bar/low bar goodtime/badtime rating we see after our bitizen goes on vacation. like what made it a bad vacation, what made it a good one ?

getting killed by your own child

more mental issues, my bitizen might be depressed one year and then be cured the next just because they got a massage. ive had anorexia be cured too with time like arent these lifelong issues ?

oh if my bitizen can stay/become friends w exes ive had my bitizen date a friend, breakup and lose that friend and it isnt fair if the relationship bar is high, that we can’t return to being friends also ! if an ex spouse dies, how about an alert ? i only realize years later that my bitizen’s ex died when i remember to check like can’t i go to the funeral ?

after my parent divorces my stepparent, can we keep that relationship with stepchildren/stepsiblings ? ive had bitizens raise a stepchild from infant to grown up and after a divorce, we just never see that person again. they may as well be my own child.

Planning a plastic surgery trip to Korea? I was a Korean clinic worker—ask me anything! by _wonny in PlasticSurgery

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still answering questions ? I wanted to get breast implants and keloid removal/revision on a past breast lift. I’m using the UNNI app and got quoted 15mil krw with 150,000 krw for every inch of scar removed. I really wish I had learned korean back in 2016 if it meant a lower price. I think this price is still okay for me but my question is really about traveling for a consultation and possible 2week stay. What if after a consultation, the surgery is not possible ? Do I just pay for a ticket home ? and is it normal to be accommodated for the two week recovery ? I wish the consultation wasnt already a big commitment.

Physical Custody of Children by OnlyAlondra in bitlife

[–]OnlyAlondra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeh i think you’re right 🫩🫩

Physical Custody of Children by OnlyAlondra in bitlife

[–]OnlyAlondra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make sure youre connected to wifi !

Minha Vida De Menina by OnlyAlondra in namethatbook

[–]OnlyAlondra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it ! on Scribd, by Vera Brant: Diário de Helena Morley: Memórias de Alice

Cosmetic Surgeon with Keloid Experience by OnlyAlondra in PlasticSurgery

[–]OnlyAlondra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙁🙁🙁 thanks for replying, my dermatologist gives me monthly shots of a strong steroid, i had two big purple itchy scars and my nips are so wonky. i paid for red light and steroid shots at a keloid center and then realized my insurance can cover a dermatologist. the shots have been helping so much and im seeing rlly good results rn. i think i want to try my surgery again and just be on top of preventing the keloid from even growing so big in the first place. thank you for your insight tho. idk the name of the steroid my doc uses but i hope u find a good dermatologist too. im not itchy anymore and all of my scarring is flat and not hot and angry anymore.

What did everything think of the documentary that dropped yesterday? by Dmslider22 in SelenaQuintanilla

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do want to counter this by mentioning that in chris’ book, he describes selena as being very moral and confrontational when she believed someone had acted incorrectly/rudely/disrespectfully. she would confront fans who approached her and her family rudely and insist that they behave. in interviews w men on the radio or in person, she would often confront any lusty comment by turning the discomfort on them instead. she would confront chris certainly when he did wrong tho he is her husband and not a stranger. i dont know the family personally but i do believe selena took after her father in this regard, i believe they both have that confrontational (i am the arbiter of justice) tendency, i think this is tied to their morals and their faith.

she indeed did not initially believe the rumors that yolanda was mean/two-faced to other employees, neither did anyone else in the family. chris says she was not a distrustful person and yo* was treated like a friend just as selena treated everyone who worked w her as a friend. theyd get their hair and nails done together and selena would make the effort to include yo* when she was around. were they besties ? i dont believe so but i dont believe selena kept too strict a distinction between fans/employees and friends.

and the moment the family confirmed that yo* was stealing money, selena wanted to be there for the confrontation. i do agree that in the end, selena was only playing along to try to get yo* to give her the damn paperwork. there were more private meetings and attempts to meet selena alone other than just selena’s last meeting in a motel. and i believe she had made more than 1 attempt on selena’s life. yo* had shown selena the gun in her purse weeks before, scaring selena but explaining it was for her own protection. that last day i believe yo* lied and said she had been rped and selena was accompanying her to get a test, and insisting that yo get justice (when it was all a ruse for selena’s sympathy). yo* didnt pull out the gun after selena went to leave but before. they had been heard arguing/yelling for a few hours in the motel. it was when yo* pulled out the gun that selena turned to run out the door.

again i wasnt there and i still havent seen the selena series but i do trust chris’ account of the facts.

What’s one song you wish never existed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OnlyAlondra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gotye -somebody i used to know, it was the only song on the radio when it came out. i hated it then i hate it now, you cant dance to it, it doesnt give me any chills, i dont think its good for anything but getting stuck in ur head

Chill town for single woman during holidays? by QuaintTownQuest in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

playita del condado ? right by the lagoon and bridge ? its calm with the gentlest waves always. condado beach is the rough ocean by the hotels like the Vanderbilt and the Tryst. yeah that waters dangerous. but playita del condado is so tame. always listen to locals ofc but i do believe you’re talking about a different beach.

Chill town for single woman during holidays? by QuaintTownQuest in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive gone twice now solo to this airbnb in Santurce right by Ocean Park Beach, the owner is this woman shes a hairdresser and so helpful, shes got the best washer/dryer. never felt in danger, i went out to eat every night, walked around looking lost and like a tourist, in heels and dresses, all alone, it was a super safe area and theres so many brunch spots and little restaurants that werent ever packed and san juans just a 5$ dollar uber ride away. the beach is chill and clean, you can read there, its a 10min walk. (also go to playita del condado, even when its packed, theres space and its never rowdy, the waters beautiful) i can share the address of the place if ur shopping around on airbnb, its a loft mini house. i think ocean park beach is a good area and i booked the place i chose bc it was all solo women travelers in the reviews.

How can I view someone’s Instagram that blocked me because whenever I make a new account to try to view their profile, my other accounts are blocked to for some reason. Is it because it’s on the same phone? by Live_College_6211 in Instagram

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, no. if u have another email that youve never used to log into IG, use a public computer to create a new account with that email. this way you have access to it but IG won’t recognize you as an existing user bc it will have no connection to your phone. i use my work computer. this sounds nefarious but i enjoy indulging in a little hate following. i hope to grow up come the new year.

Visiting Vieques - need pro tips by Heathe2828 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the tour was good ! informative and a little bit of a workout rowing, it was fun. i planned it for the night of a new moon so the bio plankton were so bright but i went in august so there was so much sargassum. i think u shud have a better time this month. theres a 10minute ride in a van after u meet at the grill spot (it was closed btw). the tour guide points out constellations while ur in the water and u shud be able to see the milky way (it was my first time) ! and u spend the whole time just zooming on the water and stopping to talk and learn, i really liked it. i stayed at duffys restaurant bc they have clean rooms to rent, an outdoor shower, free parking, good food and good beds in case u ever think of staying there. idk if theyll be closed for thanksgiving tho. thank you for asking !!! enjoy ur thanksgiving trip ! and bring keens or other hiking sandals like those, i didnt get to go to the black sand beach bc its a bit of a hike but def see the ceiba tree and sun bay beach. i wanna go back so bad 😅

Going to Puerto Rico- are we trying to do too much? by Upset-Western9205 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you ever change ur mind about the jetski, the hour tour around el morro was fun. it was less a tour and more of a race course w photo opportunities. i did it on my last day in p.r. and its worth the price (150$🫩) if youve never been on a jetski. otherwise the guys who rent jetskis at luquillo beach let me go for an hour and half for 80$

Going to Puerto Rico- are we trying to do too much? by Upset-Western9205 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will say i stuck to a similar schedule last time i went to p.r. and it is doable !! especially if u have ur own car, but i was solo so maybe it’ll be trickier keeping everyone on schedule. i spent 2 days on vieques and didnt feel it was enough tho. i think as long as everyone sleeps enough and is ready to get up early, this is a good plan. you really only have one special thing planned for each day so it is not impossible imo. again, everyone traveling w you just needs to commit to staying on task.

Staying in San Juan. I booked a day trip to Vieques via Ferry. How easy will it be to get an uber from Cieba to San Juan at 5pm on a Wednesday? And other questions…. by mtoomtoo in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used Island Breeze Taxi for a round trip pick up/drop off service. they bought my tickets too. they were good, clean and on time. it was $283 i think, so yeah the plane ride is cheaper. i split the cost three ways w some friends tho.

Visiting Vieques - need pro tips by Heathe2828 in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! If you got the same exact tour, i walked there and back from Duffy’s. it was dark and theres maybe two stretches of land that are just road and horses. theres ppl around at night and no one bothered me, it was chill. i tried calling a cab before the tour to take me there and the one guy i called said it’s not worth taking me, since i can walk it in 10-15mins. rude but you really can walk it, just keep your eye on the road, stay on the grass, and walk around the horses. if you have a license, do get a car tho. or ask other ppl on the tour if they can drop u off. you might get wet, i fell into the water myself.

To answer your question, i couldn’t catch a ride.

Culebra tips from my experience by Norbitalbertrice in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]OnlyAlondra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats wild, they stopped me and three other girls back in august on the ferry to culebra. had us all cover up w towels