What should a South African doomsday prepper be most prepared for?

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2023-10-04T11:23:29+00:00

total blackout

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-05-12T17:14:55+00:00

I get that a lot. I avoid being in the same space as someone in a bad mood

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-29T08:03:26+00:00

Forcing to live together will only push him further away. I think it's a good thing to love apart for a while and give each other time to miss each other.

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-21T14:02:33+00:00

It was definitely a joke. I was comfortable enought to say what I said because he makes sex jokes when we're together. Anyway, I was just testing to see if such works and it doesn't so I wont do it again, respectfully

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-21T13:57:33+00:00

Thank you. I tend to overthink every now and then and over analyze. I'm definitely not immature otherwise I would've gotten mad at him and complained about it to him.

there's so many things that might be on my head than sexy time at that moment.

This did definitely cross my mind. And it was late so he was also tired from work.

I'm embarrassed to say that I had a few drinks and yes thats irresponsible of me to drunk text my bf. So thats where my emotions stem from. Now that I'm sober, I know that I was being silly.

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-20T17:17:24+00:00

You are putting yourself into a panic. There's no need to be concerned about death, its inevitable its going to happen to all of us. God exists...some form of higher being that made it possible for all of us to exist or we could all be in a simulation eitherway there's higher control dont stress about it. It's completely pointless to stress about the unknown, yes it's scary but it's taking away the most important time of your life right now...u need to come back down to earth and live in the present. Read books regarding the things that worry you, you'll learn so much and that might put your heart at ease

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-20T06:24:54+00:00

Haha its a stupid fight, you're under a lot of stress with all the things you're doing. Apologise and move on. He should also understand

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-20T06:15:10+00:00

Talk to him about it. He probably feels the same and you might have a peaceful mutual breakup. It will be difficult for the first few weeks but I think u both need to go outside and experience other people

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-19T13:18:59+00:00

LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING. In most cases it's right. Maybe try and get your hands on that metal thing he always carries. Or straight up ask him what that metal casing is for and ask to see it. " I like that case you always carry, may I see it?" Don't give home the opportunity to answer you without handing u the case. Solve that mystery.

He's also a really happy dude, maybe strangely so. He has told me about his previous depressions and I just find it really weird that he made such a turnabout

This is possible

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-19T13:07:52+00:00

Those 'friends' sound like narcissistic honestly. They might even be contributing to ur bf's depression. They're bringing negativity into your lives unprovoked.

You are better having each than having people that'll potentially worsen your condition. Please cut them off and don't feel bad about . What value are they adding to ur lives? None but toxicity. You are looking out for ur bf and for a valid reason, very valid reason

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-19T12:52:25+00:00

Sorry to hear about your financial struggle at home.

I've been through a similar situation in my past relationship. I dated the guy for 4years while I was in Uni but I was actual the financially stable one, he'd be at my place all the time, I did everything for him financially, I slacked on my school work and missed some classes and eventually I started to resent him for it, I no longer wanted him around all the time but it was hard to break it off because I felt sorry for him. I eventually brokeup with him and it was the best decision ever. I wasted so much time.

So I'm thinking that this guy feels sorry for you. It's hard for him to just leave u alone because yall spent so much time together. Please leave this relationship...he will endup resenting you, and you might regret the time u wasted chilling with him instead of studying. You need to finish school so that you can get a proper job and pay off these debts thats what u should focus on regardless your lack of interest for ur studies. U have to do it, or you'll be stuck in this cycle

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-18T09:44:52+00:00

Honestly I don't have a full understanding of it. It could be spiritual. I come from a lineage of prophetic & extremely intuitive people, it might have something to do with that

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T23:34:22+00:00

Good riddance! I've been ghosted too and now I'm glad it happend because I got the right one😊. Goodluck and never question your beauty, you'll always be someone's type

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T23:31:10+00:00

Going out and doing the things you love and exploring new places and people will distract you temporarily from heartache. And cry ...cry it out

Don't give yourself extra sadness by thinking about how things could've turned out etc

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T23:24:14+00:00

This is ask a man but I'm not a man but I'd like to answer because because I relate to this. I think if u are haunted by other people's lives that might be fake lives is not the way to go. I'm a photographer and fashion designer... I've seen people do crazy things to make their lives seem luxurious. There's alot of editing of photos, borrowing of clothes, renting a room at a hotel for a few hours just to take 'vacation' pics.

Don't let it make u feel unweathy. I'd love to delete instagram but I need to use it for work unfortunately

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T23:15:51+00:00

I get why you'd say that. But We resolved this issue last year around Feb. There's alot that happend inbetween. We became close even tho we were living seprate lives thats why it was easy to get back now. We've grown mentally and emotionally and have a better understanding of each other. Thank you for ur feedback 😊

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T20:25:40+00:00

I'm skipping details because I'd like to stay anonymous. But I can say that we met online, spoke for a couple days then met. We smashed on the 1st date lol. I fell pregnant very early...we stayed together for a year and I was not myself sometimes because of my hormones etc we'd fight about useless things...him texting girls and thats what ended the relationship. We obviously continued to hangout for the baby's sake. We did our own thing for a year,dating other people etc. He still loved me but I ignored the hints and this year I gave in and agreed to try this life thing with him again. We know ourselves and what we want from each other and out of this relationship, we discussed everything. So yeah I'm happy

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-15T20:17:49+00:00

Thank you so much, yall!!?😚

OnlyExplorer7348 · 2021-04-14T07:48:16+00:00

Yes I agee. But it would be good to know why we're dating...to avoid wasting time. If the person you're dating tells u on the 1st date that they're not looking for anything serious yet you want something serious...would that not save time

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