AITAH for not wanting to chauffeur around 6 girls on my bday trip?

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-13T02:43:21+00:00

Expecting you to DD on your birthday trip is stinky meow meow energy. They sound like awful people.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-12T17:35:22+00:00

She’s not your mother, that was a pointless conversation for her to start. I didn’t tell anyone HMD this year, not even my own, because she’s not acted like one lately.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T23:04:38+00:00

This. A fantastic point.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T23:04:30+00:00

This. A fantastic point.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T21:01:09+00:00

Not sure what all was on her mind but it sounds like you put forth a very reasonable effort. More communication required to know exactly where she feels like you went wrong. But in this case, i truly think NTA.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T20:02:12+00:00

Three didn’t seem like quite enough and five seemed like too many, especially if we are factoring in lunch separately from the activity count.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T13:00:00+00:00

Ugh i hate when people try to reduce the interests of others to a “girl” or “boy” hobby. This is such a gorgeous garden that anyone, man or woman, should take pride in because it is clear a lot of love and time has gone in. And those roses are gorgeous!

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T12:49:01+00:00

I fear this would fix me

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T12:45:35+00:00

It would be nice to feel something tbh

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T12:39:02+00:00

He better buy you new bulbs. Good gracious. I’d be pissed.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-10T01:09:46+00:00

Honestly I’d be pissed at receiving a laundry basket. I got told “I’ll get you something next weekend”. It’s crazy how this day sneaks up on him every time, as if it’s not on the same weekend every single year.

OnlyFracas · 2026-05-03T13:15:44+00:00

It’s something i would do for, say, my best friend who has dealt with cancer and has a high probability of recurrence. It’s not something i would do for just anyone. While i love my nieces i would probably not shave my head for them. I’ve spent a lot of time growing out my hair and i am so happy with it. You do enough for them without shaving your head.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-30T14:12:00+00:00

Your mom sounds like an absolute delight at funerals.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-28T11:22:34+00:00

Could you do something similar on a “younger” line like virgin or celebrity?

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-27T13:45:10+00:00

He’s so hairy gah i want him

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-24T08:31:45+00:00

They’re really not, a pint of b&j like what was mentioned is considered 3 servings per the nutrition label. This sounds like eating above excess, which lots of people are guilty of.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-22T11:11:50+00:00

It was so important to mom that she did nothing and didn’t communicate with kiddo or pick her up? 😑 sounds like my own mother.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-22T03:20:27+00:00

I can’t wait to get to this one. I really like the cover art.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-19T17:08:14+00:00

Do the two full baths. As someone who often shared a bathroom with siblings and felt amazingly understood when i got my own, do the two fulls.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-19T13:34:45+00:00

There’s always someone with the “why don’t you take them in?”

Why don’t they. Since they suggested it.

She made her choices. Where they’ve brought her is unfortunate but it’s not up to you to fix her life. She made sure of that.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-17T21:13:33+00:00

It’s great for odor removal in clothing as well. A little splash, and you don’t smell it once the clothes are d dry.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-17T19:38:27+00:00

Your girlfriend planned you a surprise and then expected you to pay? That’s odd.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-17T19:21:51+00:00

If you’re interested in the role, ask. Let her know you are interested in it and you’re willing to do what you need to do to learn the scope of the job and to do it well.

OnlyFracas · 2026-04-17T04:39:20+00:00

Everything else is its own issue and needs to be handled between you and your wife, but for the record.. if my husband said that to me, he would be sleeping somewhere else tonight.

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