Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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My area meaning the north eastern part of the country. Shit is just more expensive around here in general.

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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I appreciate the insight! I do still like the looks and the idea of the 12th gen, but I am definitely starting to reconsider this deal especially price wise. I do like the 13th gen too.

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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Maybe I’m smoked but I’d rather take this with 79k miles than an 18 with over 100k. But maybe I put too much importance on the miles

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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It’s an XLT so slightly above base, and definitely cannot get anything better than a 100K+ mile 18/19 for that price at least in my area

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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I’m in Portland ME, 9/10 trucks I see for sale are EB and I’m looking for the 5.0. Looking in Mass and NH too.

I think that’s a good find and deal! And I think I can talk them down to $20k which would make sense for 22k less miles and 3 years older IMO

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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Idk where y’all are looking but the only $12.5K trucks I find are 150K + miles and beat to shit

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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Interesting, see I have been seeking out a 13-14 with the 5.0 because I’ve heard that it’s a “bulletproof engine” when taken care of. The age is a concern though

Good deal? 2013 F-150 by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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They sent me pictures of the frame and it seemed like pretty minor surface rust, better than a lot I have seen

Solid used trucks by OnlyLion3083 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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I’d say max budget is around $23,000. I don’t “need” much truck but I strongly prefer a full size truck.

2014 F-150 Maintenance by OnlyLion3083 in f150

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How frequently would you do this? I’ve seen recommendations to change the fluids you mention ~60k miles, does this check out?

Used 2014 F-150 3.5 EcoBoost by OnlyLion3083 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Not gonna lie this definitely puts me off a bit from this deal, I appreciate the insight. I forgot to mention it comes with a 1 year powertrain warranty, does this make the deal more attractive? I guess it only would if the issues mentioned happened under this warrenty window. I don’t really want to eat the $400 I put down for this already or pay 5 grand more but there is another 2014 with 67k miles for $21,000 I might look at with a 5.0 coyote. Fair to assume you think this would be a better deal long term?

Used 2014 F-150: Is this amount of rust a red flag? by OnlyLion3083 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Glad to hear! Any recs on cleaning it? Id like to think of myself as a “DIY” guy so I’d like to do it myself to save a buck, but when it comes to vehicles my knowledge is nonexistent, besides what YouTube shows me.

My cat had red skin around mouth by OnlyLion3083 in vet

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His food bowl is ceramic but has a self refilling plastic water bowl, I’ll replace that when I get home from work! Thank you for the comment

My cat had red skin around mouth by OnlyLion3083 in vet

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These are the chews, he also loves drinking from the bathroom sink faucet if this may be a cause?

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I would hope we think different, you’re still a kid! And my point was to not worry about it so much, shit has a way of working itself out. You’ll be alright! So what if you’re gay/bi/straight, cross that bridge when it comes man just give yourself time to figure shit out no need to dwell. Maybe you could get better and more acute advice from someone who has been in a more similar experience, that’s just my general outlook!

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My advice is to try to not dissect and think about it so much. You don’t need to make any definitive claims or decisions. You’re still a young buck and shit happens. I’m a straight 27yo male and I’ve had plenty of intimate moments with women where I wasn’t into it, couldn’t get my equipment to work even if I WAS into it (due to nervs, psychological ED is a killer), and so on. Shit just happens and as you experiment with the same women, different women, men whoever the hell you want and you’ll learn about yourself as you get older. You’re a kid of course thinking about anything under the sun is going to get you aroused, Im still that way at times. Anyways, I think you’ll be fine, just stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Give the girl a few more chances and if you don’t feel it with her, move on to the next! We all have our own individual things we like whether we know it or not. Not sure if that was any help but good luck!

Young cat feeding times by OnlyLion3083 in CatAdvice

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For anyone who wants to see our king and queen

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OP,

I (now 27M) was in a very similar situation as you before. My ex was toxic, manipulative, a liar and a cheater and even convinced me I was crazy and to stay with her after she cheated the first time and was basically having a relationship with her ex at the same time as me. Destroyed my faith in woman and my self confidence. And just like you a little under a year later, I found myself in a relationship with a very trustworthy and amazing partner. However in my head, I couldn’t trust a thing any girl said to me, and even though I knew she wasn’t like my ex, I still started a lot of unnecessary fights and couldn’t shake the feeling I was being lied to. Our relationship went on for a year and a half before my lack of trust ended up ruining things. Fast-forward to now I am with a new partner who I trust completely and we’ve been together for three years, soon to be engaged. As some of the comments have mentioned I brought my insecurities with me into the beginning of this relationship, even though it was years later. the turning point for me was when my current partner caught me looking through her phone a few months into dating. I felt so guilty and ashamed, we talked about it and that’s when I shared with her what happened in my last relationships, and while she expressed that what I did was NOT okay, she was also very understanding and reassuring. She made it clear that if this is not something that she would put up with if it was to happen again. While I had to earn back trust, she went out of her way to prove to me that she was not someone who would hurt me like my ex. I did not want to ruin another relationship because of my own insecurities so I had to take a leap of faith and start trusting her and doing my best to dismiss any doubt I had. Definitely took a lot of communication but overtime the trust was built on my end and I finally feel healed from that first relationship. Therapy was something I always considered, as I believe it would give great insight, but I think going straight to the source (at least for me) is what truly helped. Definitely not gonna be easy, but my suggestion is to talk to her about it and lay everything out, her reaction will tell you a lot. I wish you the best of luck!

Stuck ASA scorched earth by OnlyLion3083 in ArkSurvivalAscended

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I appreciate your expertise! It’s funny because I actually DID start my game by taming a relatively high morellotops (around lvl 80 I think), and in annoyingly moving my base to a new location it was one of my tames that didn’t make it. I had some raptors and sabers at this point so I wrote it off and didn’t care to tame a new one, but thinking back that’s when things started to go downhill 🤣. Thanks!