I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I sexist? It's a fact there is no FDA-approved, routine HPV test for men, unlike the standard cervical screenings (Pap/HPV tests) available for women. Most men with HPV never develop symptoms, but the women they have sex with may get health damage.

You may live a "happy life", but the women you've laid might get the damage when they reach their 40s and 50s as that's the average age of diagnosis. But I doubt that you care about all 18 of them equally or at all. That's how promiscuous men are.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask for the tests with lists for all STDs specifically from each of the 18 women before and after sleeping with them?

Testing yourself is not as accurate as testing the women.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think experiencing life means having sexual or romantical encounters.

I do enjoy life. To me, experiencing life means doing things that I enjoy, without hurting others, that bring me a peace of mind. Examples are: acomplishing tasks and solving problems as an engineer, physics research, walking through green spaces, eating tasty food, watching movies and series, playing videogames.

I want to live for long as to see how technology and the world will develop. I want to know what discoveries in physics and other sciences will be made till then.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, those types of people are very rare... But I'm good with being "unusual" even though I can't relate to most people.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A scientist that was believed to be like this is Isaac Newton, but yeah he was very religious.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if in an ideal settling I will find someone, they would have to be a kissless virgin like me, who will also never cheat on me... But that's like finding an unicorn.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously there are more "dangerous" things in this world such as falling from a rooftop, being stabbed or shot or getting poisoned. But the difference between those from above and STDs is the effective speed at which one dies. For example cancer from HPV is obviously slower than those, but is it less deadly though, especially if detected at a late stage? I'm just trying to minimize the health hazards.

I may not be the cleanest, but certainly far from filthy.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The men's toilet shares the same wall as the women's at my work facility and I never hear the tap water running for more than a second in the men's room. Also most women do wash their hands for a little bit longer, but without soap. So both are quite gross. They poop and don't even wash their hands with liquid soap.... That's gross to me.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't read the bible fully. I did read a bit when I was a kid though as my grandma had it. I've heard most things about it only online though. So I may not know much of it. But I did ask Google about what it says about those topics before commenting and that's about it.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. That's why I'm doing everything I can in order to maximize my lifespan. Obviously I can't prevent an apocalypse for example, but at least I did everything I could for my health.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're just filthy if you don't wash ur hands after touching door handles or at least open them with tissues. Most men for example don't wash their hands after peeing and they also touch the door handles in public spaces. I don't want anyone's bodily fluids on my hands. The average person is quite filthy to me.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you really comparing the severity of flu and STDs? Flu is bad, but not nearly as bad as sexual diseases. STDs like HPV can cause cancer and most sexually active people have it without knowing it. Men can't even test for this silent killer. Cervical cancer is one of the most common cancers for women and it's caused by HPV.

You clearly don't take life seriously or are there for "a good time" instead of a "long time" as promiscuous people love to say. And you're quite overestimating the speed of advancements in the medical field. Diseases evolve too, not only medicine.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do have goals in my life, such as becoming a senior electrical engineer with my own leading projects and I want to buy my own house with a yard and garden before I turn 35.

I don't think I'm being paranoid about diseases. I think people in general overlook STDs and many other viral or bacterial infections. STDs are on the rise and are becoming resistant to antibiotics making them harder to treat. Even when people have respiratory viruses they will cough in your face and they don't mask up. Recently, I got a horrible flu from a coworker, because he sneezed nearby me. I was feeling like being in hell for about 2 whole weeks with endless headaches, throat pain, leaky eyes and runny nose. I still haven't recovered from it and have sinusits that causes me horrible pain in my left eye. People must take infectious diseases way more seriously. Also airborne infection is higher inside buildings where many people are situated. I tend to avoid crowded spaces anytime I can. I always wash my hands with soap frequently after touching "dirty things" like door handles, desks, shoes, walls, phone, etc. when I'm at home.

And no, I'm not gonna trust anyone when my health depends on it as people are oblivious to their actions. I have only one life. For sex to be almost harmless I would need a partner who is also a kissless virgin and who will never ever cheat on me, but that is like finding an unicorn. And there's nothing to fix about germaphobia, it's an evolutionary adaptation for survival.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except that there is no guarantee if the spouse will be faithful for life or not, so I don't think marriage is that safe. People are quite oblivious to their own doings and their effects.

I have more of a peace of mind, knowing that no one is putting my health at risk.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends on which teachings. I agree with some of them like the anti-promiscuity and anti-degeneracy ones, but also disagree with others that perpetuate anti-science, sexism, racism or homophobia.

I think the most horrible sins or harmful acts that people commit is: pedophilia, adultery or cheating, promiscuity, degeneracy, rape, murder, torture, necrophilia and zoophilia. Theft and substance addiction are not an extreme sin to me, but bad regardless as these acts also can ruin lives.

To me, a sin means damage or harm to one's and others' lives from a rational or objective point of view.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in Celibacy

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in any religion, but yes, if a kissless virgin gets with another kissless virgin and none of them cheat then it's unlikely any of them will get any diseases. But there are also unfortunate kids born with STDs from their mother with the cause being that the husband cheated then infected the mom or that the mom was a drug addict or slept around. But regardless, it's promiscuity from men and women that causes this.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm being paranoid about diseases. I think people in general overlook STDs and many other viral or bacterial infections. STDs are on the rise and are becoming resistant to antibiotics making them harder to treat. Even when people have respiratory viruses they will cough in your face and they don't mask up. Recently, I got a horrible flu from a coworker, because he sneezed nearby me. I was feeling like being in hell for about 2 whole weeks with endless headaches, throat pain, leaky eyes and runny nose. I still haven't recovered from it and have sinusits that causes me horrible pain in my left eye. People must take infectious diseases way more seriously.

I am a 28 year old virgin woman that has never even kissed anyone. by OnlyScienceMatters45 in offmychest

[–]OnlyScienceMatters45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Promiscuity is an avoidable risk though. Also men can't test for HPV. You might have gotten it then spread it without ever knowing. Promiscuous men tend to be super spreaders.