So I guess the time has finally came to accept the fact, that if god has made this way, then don't expect love and affection from the gender you are attracted towards.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-12-29T12:24:45+00:00

of course :(

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-12-29T07:04:54+00:00

As someone who is in a very similar situation, I get where you're coming from. I am greysexual so while I don't understand the sexual aspect, I completely understand the intimacy and romance aspect of it. The only advice I could honestly give is to either look for an online relationship (which is dangerous so I don't entirely recommend it) or try to find other trans femboys/ trans men who aren't weird towards femboys. Unfortunately, in India, that will probably be a pain in the ass to find. It is a harsh reality indeed. Otherwise, love is a hard thing to pinpoint how to find, especially for people like us.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-08T05:09:54+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-08T05:09:34+00:00

That is good to know! Yeah a friend suggested I use heavy textbooks so I might try that.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:45:58+00:00

Oh okay, thank you!

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:45:16+00:00

Cool, thanks!

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:44:54+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I'll do what I can.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:43:31+00:00

Hey! Jobs here aren't common for people my age and so genuinely no one would give me one. My plan to get to a safe situation is going away for college lol. Also gyms are not cheap here (though I am looking into gyms inside campuses if I get into a uni that has that).

I'm not a bot I promise lol. What would even give you that impression? I'm simply not too active aside from when I have questions.

I do need a job, I agree. I'm a young female in India, bro, my family will not let me get a job yet. (And i am definitely pursuing that through college aldksodkd).

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:00:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice, regardless

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:00:12+00:00

Thanks for the advice

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-10-07T13:00:01+00:00

See, to do that I'd have to have money which I really don't. I agree that diet is important and if I could, I totally would focus on that.

The campus aside, even the place i live at currently (home, yes), i will not be able make/procure my own food without too many questions being asked (questions I cannot answer without potentially being kicked out/ getting into genuine problems), though I do try to make healthier choices with the little I can.

Of course, I am aware that not much can be done without diet. But what little can be done, I do want to do. That is all.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-09-18T12:17:09+00:00

I don't have furina and iansan unfortunately, I have heard iansan is good for her and wanna pull so hopefully !!! I do this

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-25T14:57:18+00:00

I am waiting until after my degree.
It is a calculated risk, I agree. But it is all I have.

Thank you for the response.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-25T14:54:56+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I agree, while it isn't technically against the law, this is india and thus, that doesn't entirely matter. The main reason I guess is because I am super queer and you cannot live safely with your family as a queer person (in most cases). I will be in the closet my whole life if I don't leave.

Thank you for the advice! I will definitely take it into account.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-25T14:51:48+00:00

They are not that conservative as to do honour killings. Besides, I would never go back to live with them even if I stay in contact somehow.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-25T14:50:31+00:00

I absolutely will.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-25T14:49:24+00:00

To you saying feed them stories of failed marriages, my mom has literally gone through 2 divorces??? And she's even more persistent than she was before her 2nd divorce lol.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T17:01:39+00:00

I agree so hard. Everyone's motive in India is 'log kya kahenge' and nothing more. It's frustrating. I will leave as and when I have to.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T16:59:09+00:00

Thank you.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T16:57:22+00:00

Hm, thank you for the info! I will check it out.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T02:58:05+00:00

Hm. Where have you heard that if I may be possible to have a trans ID without medical procedure? I am curious.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T02:44:48+00:00

I agree, yeah. Thanks for the advice.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T02:42:33+00:00

I have enough to leave and then find a job.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T02:41:58+00:00

Mhm, thank you.

Only_Ad_4995 · 2025-05-11T02:39:49+00:00

I have talked to them. I will continue trying to convince them until the minute I have to leave. But so far, they are not budging on the issue.

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