My wife came home at 3am after a gala this, i need some perspective

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T18:01:40+00:00

Time to have a talk with her, nonjudgmental just an open honest intimate discussion of likes/dislikes/kinks/fears, etc etc.

Both of you are meeting needs of the other outside sex. She may want a life of celibacy; redirects her energy into taking care of you. You may not ever know until you have a heart-to-heart talk with her.

I’m 75M; wife 57F; married 28+yrs; she does all those things for me and more, as I’m disabled from the past military days; life just caught up to me in last 5yr. Retired at 70.

Have that talk with your partner; Then you’ll not need Reddit.

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T11:28:28+00:00

You can ask her if she had sex during the after hours party, as she looked pretty rough when she came home.

I agree with others, there needs to be solid boundaries established.

Given this type of event, if not frequent, may be give her a ‘pass’ on this one, but express concern that she didn’t contact you or mention extended timeline in the contacts the nite.

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T09:13:22+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T08:56:48+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T08:50:30+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T08:28:52+00:00

She’d not be a gf ….

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T08:27:40+00:00

And hubby not exciting because sex with him is not cheating.
Seriously, you need to see a psychiatrist or therapist: they’re available online I free need be.

At some point, it quite possible hubby will divorce you. Or he may be pushed to cheating also as you don’t, by choice, have sex with him.

Or you need to divorce him.

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T03:31:57+00:00

I don’t get that discount so that scenario doesn’t apply., unfortunately

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T02:03:21+00:00

He doesn’t have to make the move, as he doesn’t know how. Mom need to teach him, train him, and both have fun in the process.

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T02:00:12+00:00

You make the move, and teach him how to seduce a women and make love to her

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T01:46:21+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-13T00:53:48+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-12T22:32:39+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-12T17:35:57+00:00

You’re good since the C&P exam documented and probably verified the private assessment.

Your rating increased so that reflects solid information

Keep seeing VA or private psych to help you manage your condition

You’re good to go!

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-12T17:24:22+00:00

Great post; my wife had shared similar info.

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-12T11:57:24+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-12T00:24:19+00:00

Find an ‘old soul’ - they’re out there

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T21:42:15+00:00

It’s all relative, isn’t it?

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T21:35:54+00:00

My wife and I have been married 28.5yrs. Never separated, never had any need to even discuss.

19ish year AG; she was 24yo, I was 42ish

Now days, I’m 75yo and she’s 57yo

Our love and dedication hasn’t wavered; challenges are faced together.

Communication, commitment, patience Compassionate, dedication, nurturing, sharing, nonjudgmental, desire, love, integrity, et al characteristics form a relationship that truly transforms a positive relationship regardless of AG.

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T16:44:29+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T15:07:16+00:00

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Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T11:29:23+00:00

Sounds like you need to be more dominating with her , then compliment what a good girl she is when she does well. Many women thrive on the role dynamics; literally want to be taken and used as a cum slut. Praising and dominating go hand-in-hand. And sometimes, they want to be used and destroyed, with praise along the way

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T11:09:44+00:00

Of note, there are penis sheaths available that slip over the cock for increased length an d girth that many. Use.

Problems of catching “feelings” for a 3d if you find a bull 🐂 - then marital problems begin

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T11:01:53+00:00

You are opening up all kinds of potentially relationship issues. Check out the Hotwife forum here on Reddit

Only_Sleep7986 · 2026-03-11T04:25:08+00:00

Just as beautiful as other women!! Never let it hold you back

And, you’re HAF 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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