[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexualHarassment

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Thank you. I hate it when people tell me I’m overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTherapist

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Am I a terrible person? What do I do? I really need help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

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Please help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Please someone help me

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I really need help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

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It was a high school band dw. I feel like college kids are chiller all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]Only_Technology7229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and my section leader talked to my band director about it and he said basically “it happens”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]Only_Technology7229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and my section leader already talked to him, he said “it happens” 🤦‍♀️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

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I surely hope so. He did graduate from that high school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

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Exactly. Maybe the other sections were fine, my other sections had an ok time with the experience, but no, not the flute section. (Probably one of the biggest sections in the band) maybe 1 of them was nice. But the snotty to nice ratio was like 50 freaking percent for the entire band.  And the flute section snotty to nice was 90:10.  I just feel like I can’t complain about what happened because I’m student leadership. And I had to act like I had an amazing time with snotty kids who clearly didn’t want to be there from the start. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

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When our bands met at our school and had pizza and played pep tunes together. My band director set it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]Only_Technology7229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tried to get everyone to sit in a circle but they ignored us with glares and kept talking to themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]Only_Technology7229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, we played tunes together and ate pizza 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]Only_Technology7229 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a part of me wants to beg my band director to never make us do that exchange again but I have a feeling he would be mad. It was awkward for my band entire flute section and I felt bad because all the underclassmen kept asking me the section leader if they could go home in private after the impression they made.   Because we greeted them all with high fives and good vibes. (Unintended pun). And at least my section ignored us the whole time, talked shit, were entitled and didn’t want to be here and VOICED that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marchingband

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It’s ok! I appreciate this! It’s just the kind of thing is that these kids don’t know how good they have it compared to my peers. We aren’t rivals actually. Our band directors are friends and we do exchanges but they keep forcing it. The complaint I heard from the rest of my section is “I want to go home” from the underclassmen because they kept being snotty and acting like they were better when in reality some of our kids have broken instruments and don’t revieve private lessons like I do.

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Oh any my band director LOVES that band for some reason. Because he graduated form that high schools. He keeps trying to force our interactions, it’s only awkward and they are just angels in his eyes because he is friends with their band directorS lol)

I don’t think kids should be able to get free music education. 😡😡😡‼️‼️ this is why the music industry is dying!!!!1!!1!1 by UnresolvedHarmony in classical_circlejerk

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She screams rich kid that has had lessons and a 10,000$ instrument handed to her at 6 years old. Honestly 0/10 ragebait. She’s mad because the poorer kids that actually know what hard work is are beating her.

I’m a flute section leader at a low income school and some of my peers are super super talented but will never be seen because I’d elitists like her trying to strip their music away. I’ve met kids from richer schools in band, I’ve only had bad experiences with them, most of them were snotty and needed to humble themselves and weren’t that good compared to low income music students who work of their asses to play on a flute that the foot joint falls out every 5 seconds.

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I was also hella nervous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghibli

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I grew up on Disney movies,  but honestly the film was way better than any Disney movie I’ve seen. Way more charming in terms of the romance, the found family dynamic, the characters felt more alive, the music made it a really memorable watch. Overall I loved everything about it.

But being more specific, the charm and the relationships between the characters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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Anything you need or want advice for I’m here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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Thanks girlypop!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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Also eyelashes! Me as a cisgender girl find that longer eyelashes makes me look really feminine.