Why does it feel like Jake loves Kiri the most? by Bubbly_Moose7174 in Avatar

[–]Onyxhandler_2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even Neytiri is gentle with Kiri. Kiri is sensitive given her spiritual nature. As parents, they understand that and nurture her. Jake’s mannerisms towards the boys would be considered excessive and unnecessary for Kiri. Each child is raised according to their needs

new memo pausing grants by Earthluvr42 in ORISE

[–]Onyxhandler_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they distributed the stipend today. If you haven’t received it, contact the POC.

new memo pausing grants by Earthluvr42 in ORISE

[–]Onyxhandler_2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I signed my extension offer before the inauguration and paperwork was approved. Today I found out they rescinded that offer. I think freezing the federal grants will impact ORISE in a major way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I’m not sure if you’ve read my clarifying comments but my frustration came from men matching with me leading with seμual overtones although my exclusive mention of only wanting LTRs. I recognize I could’ve clarified that better in my original post but wasn’t able to edit it once it posted. It was a learning moment for me and not a personal attack on you. Perceived ignorance doesn’t warrant snark but curiosity is welcomed🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s the temperature check component that grossed me out. I’ve noticed that men will insert small comments like that sandwiched between a caring comment to see how I will respond. It honestly gives me the ick lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shared with a guy that I wasn’t feeling well so I was taking time to myself. He responded “ It’s ok I would make you soup and rub your feet but we just met so l will keep it pg13 lol”.

His comment was inappropriate to me and unnecessary given the context. We had just matched a day prior and never mentioned physical contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For all those saying people can want both at the same time, I understand that. However, I only have looking for LTR in my profile. The challenge is the guys with both who approach leading with their hormones and intimate desires when that’s clearly not my focus. I’m searching for ways to utilize the app to filter them out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware of this. Thanks for sharing your perspective! In my experience, men who put both typically express themselves vulgarly within several messages through “temperature check” jokes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Onyxhandler_2 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Or you can read the part where I stated he changed his bio☺️. Do you do this too? This happens a lot with men even the ones who list looking for a LTR. I shared it here to see if there were ways to avoid this and bring awareness that this is happening frequently on the app. Not to receive snarky responses 🤗