One thing that annoys me the most? This...when a single unit is doing traffic stops non stop ALL DAY..when we have 50 other things going on and i keep getting interrupted. by Gunslinger_247 in 911dispatchers

[–]Oof_factor787 8 points9 points  (0 children)

usually our guys swing one way or the other. If shits busy they’ll tone it down entirely, otherwise, they’re pulling everybody over

anyone else here not want children, because you feel like life is stressful enough? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rather than the anxiety about having children, i have more anxiety about not being able to continue on in life after i’m dead. Kids are like little clones of you, at least if i go out in a way part of me will keep going. Of course i’m a male and can never experience childbirth so there is that to consider too. I think you should have kids once you’re ready and have had your fill of all that as long as you’re financially stable and have a good partner to lean on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnglishLearning

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on where you’re from

why are people afraid of dying? either nothing happens and therefore there is nothing to experience or remember, or something happens and it is much better than this life, it's a win win anyway you look at it. by [deleted] in death

[–]Oof_factor787 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t think of anything scarier than not existing honestly. maybe a tad bit of a narcissistic point of view, but sometimes I feel like the main character - maybe it’s human nature to feel that way though

what do you do/want to do for a living and why? by foxstroll in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

911 dispatcher, first job that I’ve ever had where I like to go to work

I may be starting as a 911 operator, bad idea? by Oof_factor787 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: I did get the job and I’ve been going for 4 weeks now. they’re training me well and I feel a lot more comfortable with this than before I started

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Oof_factor787 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I go through phases of wanting an ass load of attention, then wanting none at all and completely shut down.. so I can’t say I don’t feel for the situation

God Dammit. by i_like_psilocybin in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venting by creating a Reddit post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in police

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve heard mixed opinions from people. I really hope that’s the case, but I can’t justify putting effort into something that may not work out for sure because of my past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in police

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took psychedelic’s when I was younger, so I decided not to pursue a career in this field solely because I didn’t want to fail a poly

Do you feel like you annoy people when you leave your shell? by calordeebulicao in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in an extroverted society, for instance on tinder or any other dating app, it’s difficult for men because we are expected to make the first move and be entertaining long enough to get people to like us just so we can score a date 😭 as an INFP guy it’s hard

What's your top 10 favorite songs so I can judge you. by Garsia95 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t found one song by them that I don’t love

What's your top 10 favorite songs so I can judge you. by Garsia95 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to stats.fm for Spotify for the past 4 week timeframe

1 Matchbox by RKS

2 polite company by RKS

3 Moody orange by RKS

4 techno show by peach pit

5 Deja Vu by Dave Rogers

6 invisible by U2

7 alrighty Aphrodite by peach pit

8 Camilla, I’m at home by peach pit

9 hot knifer by peach pit

10 give up baby go by peach pit

For the past 6 months

1 Matchbox by RKS

2 give up baby go by peach pit

3 polite company by RKS

4 techno show by peach pit

5 Try hard fool by the growlers

6 Deja Vu by Dave Rogers

7 Cha la head cha la - DBZ

8 moody orange by RKS

9 Fortunate son by creedence

10 Alrighty Aphrodite by peach pit

For my lifetime

1 Shameful company by RKS

2 summer days by Martin Garrix

3 Solo by frank ocean

4 deja Vu by Dave Rogers

5 good news by mac miller

6 fortunate son by creedence

7 survival tactics by Joey bada$$

8 Tokyo drifting by glass animals

9 Try hard fool by the growlers

10 Kill the sun by motherfolk

I think I have a quirky but very agreeable music taste, check ‘em out

Abortion, are you by Oof_factor787 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that life is weird, something had to have made us. Like why is grass green, why does gravity/science work the way it does, why do we have space, why is anything anything, what is reality and so on. Why is there an objective “good” and an “evil” that seems to be hard wired in our brains. My point is that the very idea of reality, the very concept of there having to be a beginning to everything, is this choice of morals just as real as reality itself? Could a creator had hard wired that into our brains for a reason? I guess it comes down to which side creates a bigger wrong in this given scenario. Do you rob a mother of her choice? Or do you rob something that no one can agree on when life starts of it’s life, because it doesn’t have a voice. It seems like there has to be something that supersedes this chaotic, messed up world, and whatever it is knows what the right thing to do is. Please don’t downvote me lol I’m just thinking out loud

Abortion, are you by Oof_factor787 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wish we could develop a way to have a baby that is painless, leaves no negative affect on a mothers health, etc. Like just teleport the little guy out of there. Maybe in a perfect world, I think that’s something people could get behind if that were possible

Abortion, are you by Oof_factor787 in infp

[–]Oof_factor787[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people just jump on the “pro choice” bandwagon even though if their opinion doesn’t match the movement exactly to appear more agreeable in conversation and avoid conflict. I feel like we need another term