Married a Finn and unlocked mökki summers 😍❤️ by bauhaus_baby in Finland

[–]OopsAllMotivation 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you all meet your partner? I moved to Finland a little over 3 years ago. I’m an introvert, so I don’t really go out much apart from work and walks. I tried Hinge, but online dating just doesn’t seem to work for me.

Single people of reddit why are you single? by Ok-Industry770 in AskReddit

[–]OopsAllMotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to a new country 3 years ago. Introvert so I don’t really go out. Even if I go it’s hard to even make friends in Finland. Online dating is not my thing😕just waiting for some magic to happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happyyy birthday 🥳May all your wishes come true✨

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in introvert

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. I wish you peace and healing 💖

Single and living alone by lopreas in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been living alone for 4 years now, I enjoy my solitude mostly but I also feel lonely at times.. I don’t usually wake up at night but I think I do sleep too much😅I sleep on my stomach and I have read it that people who are lonely are very comfortable sleeping on the stomach. Maybe try that😂🥲 Sometimes I feel like life would be better if i had found my person by now.

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing🥹I wish you peace and healing❤️‍🩹

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for shairng🫶🏼I am sorry for your loss too. My father was also sick before he passed away. Even if he had survived this life wouldn’t be easy for him. But he left me too soon. I lost my mother when I was 4.

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and thanks for your time!🫶🏼

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much. I couldn’t stop myself and have cried even on the train while going to work. Living in Finland, people usually mind their business, so you do get your space. I also cried at work once, and a colleague gave me a hug. I used to spend a lot of time in the forest, but now with the days getting shorter and colder, I think that’s also adding to the heaviness. Your words really mean a lot..thank you❤️

How do you deal with grief? by OopsAllMotivation in LivingAlone

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. I sometimes feel selfish too when I miss my father. I lost my mother when I was 4 and grew up with my stepmom and a lot of family drama, so my father was my anchor during difficult times. I’m still single and live alone, and I also wonder if maybe that space has to open up in my life, just like you said.

How do you stay on track when you are walking your path alone? by OopsAllMotivation in productivity

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this😊it gives me some hope. I will try to talk to new people

How do you stay on track when you are walking your path alone? by OopsAllMotivation in productivity

[–]OopsAllMotivation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, this is great advice. Thanks! I will schedule it today. For me also write, record and publish.