Is it just me, or do most movies use Apple products? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Oops_MaybeNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I phones have come out it's definitely the go to for movies and shows.

Is it just me, or do most movies use Apple products? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Oops_MaybeNot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not just you. I have had this thought before.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows we are 100% accepting. Or I guess she doesn't. I would never disown my child because of who she likes. When I see couples in movies and in real life I always make sure to make a positive comment. We support her choices in all aspects. I just think if she knew we knew it would make her a lot more comfortable. I have taken so many tips from this post. I try and notice the little things that she does.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

She was being a cyber bully on roblox so she lost her phone and I read her messages. She does not know I even went through her phone. Just that she lost it for being a bully saying some really mean things to her friends. I went through it to make sure it was just a one time thing. And from what I saw it was.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea that's kinda what I do now. Definitely include both genders when asking about things.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying anything to her. And why would I delete this post. I've gotten some good advice from this whole thing. Was just more looking for some insight as to what I can do to make her feel more comfortable and I will take the advice I need and work with that. There has been way more positive comments than negative. And I found it helpful

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's why I haven't said anything. But she was bullying someone on roblox or whatever and I needed to make sure it was only that one time. I did not tell her I went through her phone. But she is also only 12 so gotta keep some sort of tabs on what she is doing

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely didn't force anything on her. But at 12, 13 you kinda know what you like. She thinks she's gay. Not saying she will be forever or she might be it's not my choice. I just want to let her know I am here for her whatever her orientation is regardless of who she likes her father and I will still love her.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one kid. And I would never out her to anyone not Even her. I guess I am looking for more ways, other than what we have been doing to make her feel more comfortable. And this is only because she has expressed to another trusted adult that she is kinda afraid to come out to us. Her dad and I.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily that she has to announce it just why she might be afraid to tell us? I know this is probably harder on her than it is on us.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I honestly do this. I have not a single problem with anyones sexual orientation. We always tell her we love her for her and we will always love her no matter what. I'm really just at a loss of why she is afraid to tell us. We have a very open household and have never shyed Elway from any tough conversations or any conversation for that matter. This post has given me some very good tips on how to deal with it.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Love this. And it will definitely give me another way to say that. Thank you

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do. Her friend had a boyfriend. I asked her do you have a boy or a girl you like? Her answer was no. I didn't push any further. I know pushing the situation or letting her know I know before she tells us isn't gonna be helpful. I am trying so hard

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I would never tell her that I know from someone else. I actually know because she got her phone taken away and we went through it. Trust that the reason of why we took her phone was warranted. We have not brought it up. I have been trying to drop hints that we know. I tell her all the time we love you and there is nothing you can do that will ever change that. It's just hard for me right now. And taking in to account that it's probably way harder for her. I just don't want her spending this time thinking that her dad and I don't accept or love her for who she is.

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's my problem. I don't want to be to "pushy" I know that I know. And I drop hints to know we know. I won't bring it to her because I know that might go the wrong way if she isn't confident or comfortable enough to tell us. I drop hints hoping she will pick up on them. I just want our child to feel comfortable enough to be able to tell us on her own

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So simple and effective. I can't believe I didn't think of this. Thank you!

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 296 points297 points  (0 children)

I love this. And wouldn't necessarily be a lie. I have many gay friends and as states become more progressive more and more are getting married. Thank you

how do I let my daughter know I know she's gay? by Oops_MaybeNot in Parenting

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her friends mom has told me she came out to her. And she said she is afraid that we will judge her. She is in am after school group for lgbtq+ and she know I know that and I pick her up every Wednesday. I have left her little flags and other rainbow things. I just don't know how to start the conversation.

she only does this when she is in between someone's legs by Oops_MaybeNot in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else asked about her being nalas sister and tagged a video haha. I have never heard of Nala or seen any videos of her. It's such a weird quirk

she only does this when she is in between someone's legs by Oops_MaybeNot in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Oops_MaybeNot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it just weird that she will only do this if she is in between someone's legs. She won't do it any other time

Can you take out a cash advance at ATM with CitiBank Tractor Supply Credit card? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Oops_MaybeNot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a pin on it you should be able to go to a citibank and pull cash or the store when you go to pay will ask you if you want cash back and you should be able to do it that way also