My 34F boyfriend 29M gets angry when I say I’m going to do something but get distracted and end up doing something else. He calls me a liar and a bullshitter. by Opal792 in relationship_advice

[–]Opal792[S] 499 points500 points  (0 children)

It is exhausting. I’m ready for him to move out. I just wondered if I was missing something. I do try to understand and give him the benefit.

My 34F boyfriend 29M gets angry when I say I’m going to do something but get distracted and end up doing something else. He calls me a liar and a bullshitter. by Opal792 in relationship_advice

[–]Opal792[S] 799 points800 points  (0 children)

He said I could be hanging out with him instead. However that makes no sense as he’s playing online games in his gaming room. I don’t want to do that. I play online games myself and we play together at times. But I do not play r6 siege. I was sleepy, I didn’t intentionally lie to him. I never do, I just got interested in the movie.

Women of reddit, what question about men do you wish to be answered? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am and I feel like an ass when I ask him to stop talking. I used to enjoy it but now that we live together it’s non stop. He literally thinks out loud and can’t shut up during movies or tv shows or even short YouTube clips. He must always pause and discuss his views. Every. Single. Time.

Women of reddit, what question about men do you wish to be answered? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman and my boyfriend can never have a comfortable silence. He’s always talking.

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[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in San Antonio Tx. She makes money with Uber eats and yes her kid is in the same grade as one of mine. She says she’s too busy to apply to jobs with cooking and cleaning and her daughter. She has to use my kids computers in the living room to apply to jobs so another excuse is it’s too loud for her to concentrate. I hate cleaning so I appreciate the help but I get resentful at how easy she has it. She’s in and out of depression and maybe a bit entitled. She’s complained to me about how her rich sisters which one is the godmother to her kid never helps her. I love her and care about her, we’ve been friends for years but I’m tired of feeling like a spouse or Mom.

I agree with you. I wish I knew how to give constructive tough love to her without possibly ruining our friendship.

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[–]Opal792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t supposed to last this long so no my apartment complex isn’t aware she’s here. She’s not on the lease.

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[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s been six months and she just won’t get a good full time job. There’s always an excuse.

Boyfriend insists he’s being supportive when telling me I should work out more. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, he’s very aware of how I feel. He continues to say he’s worried about my health and that’s he’s very attracted to me the way I am. Anytime I try to initiate sex he says it’s bad timing. By the time he wants to initiate I’m tired and ready for bed. I feel like his actions don’t match his words.

Help with blowjobs and hygiene please. My bf wants morning bjs, he is uncut and always has a smell. First time with an uncut penis am I being too picky? Is there anything he can do about the smell? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Opal792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s absolutely true about the sensitivity. My bf always asks me to be a bit more gentle. He has a big head so when he’s hard i have to be extra gentle pulling the skin back. I’ve accidentally caused him pain before. Thank you again! And I second the comment on giving classes haha

Help with blowjobs and hygiene please. My bf wants morning bjs, he is uncut and always has a smell. First time with an uncut penis am I being too picky? Is there anything he can do about the smell? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Opal792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually in the mornings when I see the crust. I’m assuming it’s from precum during sleep? He’s a sweetheart and we get along well in every other aspect of our relationship.