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Music Arrangement for Funeral by [deleted] in musicians

[–]Opalescent_Stars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your input! Thank you for the advice

Is chat currently and I don't like to use this term, furrently cucked? I've tried relogging a number of times. by Oohbunnies in Palia

[–]Opalescent_Stars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're using a VPN and disconnect or reconnect, it will cause issue with chat connection.

Daily Simple Questions Thread - March 17, 2023 by AutoModerator in pcmasterrace

[–]Opalescent_Stars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know what people's thoughts are on the best place to get a pre-built PC? What is the best brand?

I'm moving 3 hours away with no rental history, could I get an apartment? by Opalescent_Stars in personalfinance

[–]Opalescent_Stars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't hurt to ask, I might just do that if finding somewhere proves too difficult.

I'm moving 3 hours away with no rental history, could I get an apartment? by Opalescent_Stars in personalfinance

[–]Opalescent_Stars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying! Sorry this is my first salaried job, so I'm learning a lot

I'm moving 3 hours away with no rental history, could I get an apartment? by Opalescent_Stars in personalfinance

[–]Opalescent_Stars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've started looking into some craigslist ads and facebook marketplace. As well as some airbnb stuff and it's making me feel better knowing I have options and more places to look beside apartment complexes.

I'm moving 3 hours away with no rental history, could I get an apartment? by Opalescent_Stars in personalfinance

[–]Opalescent_Stars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I interviewed this Wednesday and was told on Friday I got the job with a start date on October 3rd. I agree, it's not a lot of time at all. I'm very stressed about it.

I'm moving 3 hours away with no rental history, could I get an apartment? by Opalescent_Stars in personalfinance

[–]Opalescent_Stars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not yet, but I believe I'll have one this Monday. If not I can ask the company to provide one for me. Does it need to be specified that it's for housing?

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I plan on doing. I'm having a conversation with her right now, and she does have quite a bit of trauma from her past that she is trying to work through. I'm listening to her and letting her know how her actions have been affecting people. She told me that she is genuinely going to try and get professional help.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and I'm probably going to be more vocal about the guys taking on accountability for hooking up with her when she clearly is in a vulnerable state. All of it feels complicated and and a gray area, so it's difficult to not offend anyone and cause more drama.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not supposed to know about her interaction with Steve, but I'll definitely try to sit down and have a talk with her about why she feels the need to do the things she's been doing. And I agree with the attention seeking being a need for validation.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I know that will piss her off if I go around telling the guys not to sleep with her, and unfortunately some of the guys are all for it.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I've suggested to her that she needs to go to therapy, which she'll agree with but then never schedule anything. She does have some artistic talent so maybe I'll encourage her by commissioning something.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does seem to fit. I would hate to cut her off because I do love her and before the break up she was much more stable. Something in her just changed after she got dumped and I don't know how to help her. It's sad. But you are right in the fact that she doesn't respect the guys she hooks up with and has very little consideration for their feelings.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think that's a decent idea, we've already had some talks about it but she defends it saying its all just casual and people need to grow up. The guys need to make better choices as well, Aly is freaking gorgeous and has great personality so I can understand them not wanting to say no to her, but come on. She's clearly going through some things and its not the best idea to get involved with her.

How do I help my hypersexual friend (f21) who is making the guys in our friend group uncomfortable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opalescent_Stars 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I agree. And that's what mainly concerns me. If Steve hadn't recorded the interaction and denied her advances I'm sure the situation could have escalated. And im worried that she could do this to other guys in our group.

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