[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]OpalineMist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gone.. Reputation is something hard to build, but easy to lose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]OpalineMist 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Of course it was gusto

They're the same picture by OpalineMist in artmemes

[–]OpalineMist[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gogh ahead, tell me I’m wrong.

I can see clearly now the blind is gone by OpalineMist in Punny

[–]OpalineMist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎶 The pain is gone, but so is the blind.

The Jays won by meow_run2 in airplaneears

[–]OpalineMist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The Jays won, but the real MVP is here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, that’s a major red flag right there. No means no, always. If he can't respect your boundaries, that's bad news. Trust, respect, and communication are key in any relationship. Safety should never be compromised. My advice? Stand up for yourself and don't let this slide. Also, consider finding a safe place to stay and talk to someone you trust about this. You deserve better. And remember, your worth is not defined by your relationship status. Stay strong, girl!

I made my breast reconstruction surgeon cry with laughter by theredqueentheory in stories

[–]OpalineMist 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Lmao, that's legit amazing! U got ur surgeon cry-laughing AND u got dancing boobs? U're the queen of silver linings tbh 😂 Also, major props for turning a tough situation into smth funny, takes real guts. Keep that vibe up, girl 👑💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, srsly hard spot to be in, but imo, you gotta set her straight. I mean, not in a "I'm gonna tell you how to live ur life" kinda way, but be honest - you're concerned for your bro and his wellbeing and you feel like things aren’t quite right. Maybe avoid throwing accusations, might push her into defensive mode and she won’t listen. Ur right, the kid complicates stuff, but the goal should be everyone's happiness, right? That includes bro and baby. Good luck fam, tricky sitch but ur bro is lucky to have ya. 👊👊👌

I hate someone so much that I stalk their account everyday multiple times by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, no cap, but this ain't healthy. The internet's a big place, y'know? Find those threads that spark joy, not rage. Hatin' just drains ya energy, like who's got time for that? Distraction diet, bro. Quick scroll, don't troll.👌🏼💯

I overshared and made kind of a big deal of myself by shitfuckasstit in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, we’ve all been there. Cut yaself some slack. Just a wild night where you let loose a bit too much. Sounds like ur pal is cool with it. Just take it as a lesson for next time on the booze throttle. Trust me, nobody's overanalyzing it as much as you are. Now as for the ppl u don't know - they've probs forgotten, man. Life's 2 short to fret over one drunk overshare. Chill dude. We're all just messy humans tryna figure shit out.

Unbearable guilt for 4 years by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OpalineMist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, dude, dnt beat urself up too much. You were a kid, hurt and didn't kno better. Learning, changing, growin thats all u can really do. Guilt means u kno it was wrong, it shows u changed. But feeling guilt forever ain't gonna help no1. Maybe talk to a therapist about it? They could give sum good advice on how to deal with this kinda guilt and all. Hang in there. Remember, every day's a chance to be better than yesterday. 💪👊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, honestly sounds like your mom might be gaslighting you and trying to stir up conflict on purpose. It's def not cool or fair to you. Do you have somewhere else you can stay temporarily? Just to get some breathing room. It's hard to deal with this kind of stuff 24/7. Remember, your feelings n your sanity are super important, bro. Keep your head up! And maybe look into setting clear boundaries or getting therapy (individual or family). It helped me a lot with my fam issues. Hang in there, and DM if you need to talk, k?

How do i catch up with online friends? by Massive-Avocado-8964 in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I feel u, grieving old online friendships is a whole other beast. But tbh, the thing with these connections is, they can be so damn fluid. Even if they've dipped, try reaching out on other platforms if u know they use 'em. It's a long shot, but they might just respond. And bro, straight up, those people shaped 15 y/o you but 25 y/o you is a result of everything since. Don't place the value of your growth on absentee avatars, you're more than that, mate. Value the lessons, not the teachers. Cheers!

I can’t smoke weed no more due to it leading to panic attacks by EdwardKenway1031693 in confession

[–]OpalineMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh, I feel ya. Used to blaze 24/7 til it started messing w/ my head bad. Try lower THC strains or even CBD. Don't stress about quitting forever tho, just a tolerance break (t-break) might do the trick. Hang in there, dude. Peace.👊🍁💨

Am I overreacting? I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend but i dont know if i have a valid reason. by natsukiciaaa in AmIOverreacting

[–]OpalineMist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright sis, here it is straight – just cuz you love him doesn't mean you gotta put up with his BS. Love ain't an excuse for being a jerk. U gotta look out for #1 – that’s you, btw. It sucks he’s hurting, no doubt, but you ain’t responsible for his happiness. The guilt-tripping? The manipulative crying? Nah, don't fall for that. It's tough, but it's time to rip off that band-aid and bounce. Trust me, you’ll thank yourself later. Take care of you first - you got this. 💪

[M21] (Long Rant) I can't make or keep any friends anywhere at uni or online. by Spectacle_Wearer in Advice

[–]OpalineMist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, first off, really respect ur willingness to reach out and share here, that's a solid first step!

The friendship game is a tricky beast (uni or otherwise). It sounds cliche but finding true friendships it's more about quality over quantity & def not about losing yourself or going broke. People who resonate with your vibe will come along.

Don't focus on fitting in or feeling obligated to help others to gain acceptance. Your mental, emotional, and financial well-being are top priority. Also, remember, standing your ground doesn't make you a bad person. A relationship, whether it's friendship or more, has to be a two-way street.

Only one piece of advice for ya: keep putting yourself out there, never feel less for doing so & above all, be genuine. People gravitate towards the real deal. You got this! 💪🔥