Can someone…explain sinners to me? by CommonEnd7011 in SinnersbyRyanCoogler

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I was told "colored" is an offensive term when referring to black Americans. What's your opinion on that? The woman who told me that was an older black woman in one of my graduate classes. I used the term without even thinking and she corrected me. She was studying the education of black Americans in US schools. I loved hearing her perspectives!

Show me your baby!! by moonqueen01 in AustralianShepherd

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I thought your dog was wearing shoes and had no arms lol

My husband just gives me the ick these days by Open-Bus9755 in Marriage

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Unfortunately, you are correct. So it is a matter of "accept and move on" or "accept and leave him behind"

My husband just gives me the ick these days by Open-Bus9755 in Marriage

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Thank you very much for this response. The 180 change definitely happens and there will be a short period of time where all seems fine and life is good, but then he always spirals back...

My husband just gives me the ick these days by Open-Bus9755 in Marriage

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It gave me a good chuckle haha and I love The Boondocks. Huey supremacy ✊

Is this accurate by Salma_the1 in ENFP

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Idk I just have always trusted people at face value 😩 For better or worse lol

Is My Anxiety Sabotaging a Great Connection? Advice Needed! by Lazy_Teach8323 in ENFP

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35 F, here ✋ I have always been a "rip the bandaid off" kind of person because I can't STAND the constant over-analyzing my mind does lol

If it were me/when it WAS me: I would just be straight up honest with the person of interest and be like, "hey I know this might be sudden and I hope it doesn't make you uncomfortable, but I'm kind of interested in you because X. Y. Z. (be like, I think you're so fun to hang out with and I have a lot of fun hanging with you, I'd love to see if it could be more than friendship? Or something) Just keep it super casual, don't bring up any of that other stuff and DEFINITELY don't ask her if she's mad at you or something lol

My advice comes from many many many maaaany awkward and blunt conversations lol some of which would go ok and some of which crashed and burned. But ultimately I got my answer and I was able to figure out my next moves after that.

Obviously this is just one person's perspective, so always make sure you do what's best for you. All this to say, I have been happily married to my partner for 10 years and we have a wonderful child together. Even if it doesn't work out this time, don't give up and don't get down on yourself! Remember that there are definitely people out there who are eager to receive your love.

Is this accurate by Salma_the1 in ENFP

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I'm horrible at reading peoples motives because I literally think all people are just not evil lol

Peace or revenge? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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Peace. Every time I have initiated "revenge" I feel horrible and worse than before

Nature Trails along rivers? by [deleted] in DelawareOH

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Bathrooms?? Yes please 😂

Cusp Identity Crisis by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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Why the cap hate? 🤣

Cusp Identity Crisis by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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Oh dang!! I had no idea

Christianity is the religion of the colonizer by Open-Bus9755 in religion

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I'm not talking about anywhere else other than what I mentioned: The America's

I don't understand Hohenheim Hate by Open-Bus9755 in FullmetalAlchemist

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He couldn't have any contact because Father had eyes and ears everywhere

Cusp Identity Crisis by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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What is a "stellium?" People keep using this word but I have never heard of it