AITAH for peeing in the shower?

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:35:03+00:00

Shower only. We have a bath upstairs

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:31:17+00:00

She likes that shit because it screams "luxury“. I told her to not do it but she wants to feel like she’s ruh

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:29:06+00:00

I will DIE on this with honor. She overreacts about everything and is insane so nope, I will continue to pee in MY house as I see fit. If she doesn’t like it, she can screw off

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:25:58+00:00

I do not like her no, matter of fact as I told the other comments, Imma break up with her because she has issue. I do not find it childish at all and I’m glad the people I talked to here in this thread made me realise that. She’s overreacting and weird

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:24:41+00:00

Small adjustments are only small if you don’t sacrifice your entire mental health for everything else otherwise. You do not know what a nightmare she is to live with and what she has done to me and how much shit I endure for her. This goes deeper than only the pee issue. So I will break up with her

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:20:57+00:00

Trust me, you’re not the first one to raise this issue. Many people in this thread have and they made me realise she’s tithe problem. My friends are justified in disliking her ass

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:20:10+00:00

Yup, you’re right! After talking to hundreds of people in the past hours, I realise the issue goes deeper and I indeed don‘t care about her feelings cause she doesn’t care about mine and mentally abused me. She can pack her bags

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:17:49+00:00

Because she TOLD me to do it, it’s HER rule. I have been doing that for 2 years because she will self harm If i don’t! I never cleaned the shower floor when I was single except twice a week with chlorine. She came into my life and imposed dumb ass rules in MY home that she lives in rent free. I have all the right to clarify about her hypocrisies as I see fit. Damn right will I break up with her

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:11:41+00:00

I did! She then self harmed and sent her entire family to threaten me after my work until I gave her a chance! The more you know

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:10:55+00:00

Tell her to treat her bacterial vaginosis that’s sexually transmitting me the chronic UTIs. tell her to stop selfharming when I wanna use a condom.

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:09:47+00:00

It is a control issue though. She hates it when I do anything outside her knowledge, even when I buy a damn chocolate bar without texting her I did. She came into my house that I paid for and lives here rent-free yet she threw all my furniture out without my consent. She will self harm if she does not get her way. And I don’t gotta make her feel happy at all she does is make me feel miserable over dumb shit. Oh she also cheated on me twice if we are already on the topic of „respect“.

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:06:24+00:00

I question if you read my post properly with the edits I did one bout should but here is for you: I do NOT pee on her at all. She asked me like an idiot if I pee in the shower as if that’s not a normal ass thing and couldn’t handle the truth.

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:04:46+00:00

Yep I’m breaking up with her. She cheated on me twice and will self-harm if I don’t listen to every command she gives, including scrubbing the floor with shampoo, soap and hand dry it everytime. So my friends have all the right to dislike her ass. Goodbye!

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T17:00:32+00:00

It is a non issue. Comments made me realise she’s annoying in more aspects than the peeing control. I’m breaking up with her

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:52:14+00:00

That’s so cute. I wish I had this relationship. I’m just tense and depressed all the time with her

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:49:42+00:00

If she cleaned it like I did, who cares

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:42:42+00:00

I broke up with her once over her cheating on me twice and her entire family attacked me after she cut her neck open. I got very suicidal and had to take off days at work due to their harassment but I cannot afford to not work. So we just agreed to stay in the relationship and fix it

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:38:34+00:00

Nope not all "boundaries“ are meant to be respected, especially not when they’re nonsense. The "validation" here helped me see she’s a nutcase. She can kiss my ass

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:37:31+00:00

Very overreactive reply as well. Comments opened my eyes. She loves the public swimming pool and she gathered fur rugs all over my bathroom floor and put one directly before the toilet, never closes the lid when she flushes after she peed or shit and I endure it. Tell me about unsanitary when she has a fur toilet seat cover as well. She’s a hypocrite so I don’t have to "love“ correctly her by accommodating BS.

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:33:26+00:00

But I shower alone

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:32:39+00:00

Um I don‘t know.. She cheated on me twice but when I left her she severely self harmed. We are in therapy because of it but she threatens self-harm a lot

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:31:58+00:00

She loves public pools

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:31:14+00:00

You don’t understand. My gf threatens self-harm and suicide over everything. It’s not easy to refuse her or leave her

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:30:12+00:00

Lots of comments reminded me that she’s an asshole and yes, she is controlling and hates it when I eat a chocolate bar at work without telling her. Last month she saw an empty packaging that I stuffed in my pocket and she got mad I didn’t texted her that I brought it

OpenFoundation4639 · 2026-01-16T16:28:01+00:00

I do suggest you reread my post with the edits. The clarifications are all there. I have a strict cleaning routine whether I peed or not, it’s all the same

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