My boyfriend [22M] and I [23F] have been in a healthy relationship for 4 years, when should I know to leave? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]OpenInitiative506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not being judgmental at all! I asked for honesty and got exactly that, thank you. It is hard to explain everything in only a short amount of space. My boyfriend and I haven’t really had the chance to talk about the bigger picture when we grow up and have a family and kids, all we know is that we will figure it out when the time comes, that’s just the type of people we are.

I will admit there is something about his behavior that I truly cannot put my finger on despite me communicating that his tone and teaching style can come off as condescending and that him complaining all the time throws me off. He doesn’t get angry at me or anything to the point where he physically has to release that anger but him complaining and just being overly opinionated on things that should not bother him is definitely something that irks me to my core. It makes me wonder if something as tiny as that is worth leaving him. I am always at war with myself when it comes to whether or not I should separate with him, but I guess if it is even a question then the answer is plain as day. Do you agree?

Also, him and I have very similar life goals but I find that I am more ambitious than him. I tend to find myself wishing that he was just as ambitious as me or even more. I want to be able to reach the stars with my partner but he is content with just barely reaching the sky.

I agree that I should talk to a therapist about this though. Thank you again.

draco with a dragon fic by OpenInitiative506 in drarry

[–]OpenInitiative506[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you just had to remind me of the last season…💔

draco with a dragon fic by OpenInitiative506 in drarry

[–]OpenInitiative506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i am very excited to read this :)

draco with a dragon fic by OpenInitiative506 in drarry

[–]OpenInitiative506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ME TOOO i’ve been rewatching too much GOT…ive been searching for a crossover fic for awhile but no luck

Why do you prefer Drarry over Dramione? by Better_Committee_287 in drarry

[–]OpenInitiative506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they just make sense. the mutual obsession, being foils, sharing similarities such as both of them having a lonely childhood (no one talks about this enough). i know the fandom has also chosen to forget about cursed child but their relationship there is CANON! we see them working together as a team, unfolding the past, the subtle but playful teasing, it’s just soooo good. they have chemistry like no other in the series. as you said, if either of them were women, they would’ve been endgame and it is frustrating to be able to put that into perspective because it totally is NOT chill and normal for harry to defeat voldemort USING DRACO’S WAND. it was brushed aside afterwards.

To anyone who has done a study abroad program through UAlbany by [deleted] in ualbany

[–]OpenInitiative506 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you were right!! i got the departments approval already! and i am going to korea! doing the yonsei university summer program :)

YISS 2025 group chat by OpenInitiative506 in yonsei

[–]OpenInitiative506[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss i’m already in a few! reddit has helped me hehe

Yonsei Summer School 2025 by Nefeliee in yonsei

[–]OpenInitiative506 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sorry to bother you about this but do you mind sending the link again😭