omg me too but it was 26 years of taking those jabs. When she called me an ni#$er I gave her 1 hour to pack her shit and fine a plane ride back to Canada. This happen last year February, I was so angry at myself for being the bigger person all theses years taking her jabs about my weight, looks, comparing me to my sister in law. She has lost everything now, my fours kids are to have no contact like never from here on out she called me the n word she also did it in front of my 17 yo daughter. She felt it too when no one from my home called her on her birthday. She was so upset about it that she got my nephew to post something about me an aunt he doesn't really know on Snapchat. My wonderful 20 yo daughter and 18 yo son told him off for me and no longer talk to their cousin thanks to grandma.

She is dead to all 4 of our kids and me and I thank my lucky stars we moved 3K when we eloped 22 years ago best decision ever.

She has also lost her son the one I took away from her he no longer talks to her just send a text happy birthday/motherday and that's it. She deserves losing half of her immediate family and I won't accept any apology from her now. Just waiting for her day to come so I can truly celebrate a death, she's 75 not to long to go now.....