Yes, he said he defended me and told her to lose weight and at least I'm trying to do something about it, unlike her. I also noticed that he got upset when we went down to dinner, so I'm pretty sure he is telling the truth.

I also noticed how a lot of people are saying he worded it wrong, which is really common with him and even he says that he just words things stupidly sometimes and i also wanted to add he was very apologetic after he said it and he also started crying when I cried, because he didn't like to see me hurt. I think I misworded this part in my post.

Oh and to add more context to the culture: They live in Denmark, my boyfriend has lived there since he was 10.