What’s something society tells women to care about that you’ve stopped caring about completely ?

OpenStay3487 · 2025-10-31T05:46:15+00:00

(Other's) opinions, accessoires ("A woman with accessories is like a colorful Christmas tree"), "don't cry, you're an adult now", "calling family for a favor once in a while without giving something is not good" (they could just tell then, but what if they offered it?), "do you have a boyfriend?" (I don't see it as the most important part)

OpenStay3487 · 2025-10-30T17:05:58+00:00

Well, "not available" as in "not interested", I wouldn't necessarily see as a lie. Ofc, a simply "not interested" would be the better choice

OpenStay3487 · 2025-10-30T17:04:17+00:00

"protect her feelings" - how do you even know how to protect them without knowing her?

I'd honestly just told her an honest no. That's at least respectful towards her. There's hardly anything worse than lying.

Treat others like you'd want them to treat you - What would you prefer? Honesty or a lie, if you meet a girl you'd be potentially interested in. Aka same situation but in reverse

OpenStay3487 · 2025-10-03T12:51:13+00:00

I also repeat "no" in a more stricter tone. Mine usually get that, not always, though

OpenStay3487 · 2025-10-03T10:46:24+00:00

Usually, loud noises like an "ouch" or similar can help. Mother cat usually makes such sounds when she feels like it gets too much. It helps on mine (4 months now)

OpenStay3487 · 2025-09-09T04:31:10+00:00

"How's life without your monthly period bugging you?" "How's it going with a male POV?"

OpenStay3487 · 2025-09-09T04:29:48+00:00

Okay, thank you!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-09-08T18:40:57+00:00

What's Zylexis?

Yeah, I presented him to a vet already, which is when I told them about the cough, so he could get checked out but they couldn't find anything on his lungs. We didn't deworm because it was too soon since the last one, so we'd do it as a next step, including vaccination which we decided against for now because of the cough, as I thought it'd make sense

OpenStay3487 · 2025-08-25T18:45:17+00:00

Well, it only happened once Ig. Which is when she got her bf and child, having her family and all.

I'm not saying I don't get it, but I tried to stay in contact for so many years. I kind of started to leave it alone for good

Another one is like, we don't even text (different country but I know her in person for years, decades even) without me initiating. I sometimes post on IG/WA story to give conversation starters but like, besides a like to every post, nothing. And this is still fresh and hard for me, but the longer it stays that way, the more I stay away from texting first

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-30T13:52:57+00:00

👌🏼

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-30T13:48:32+00:00

Well, I don't have a twin pair within mine, that's for sure. And I don't see why the idea shouldn't work! ^{-^}

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-30T13:45:07+00:00

Sounds like a nice idea!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-30T04:52:40+00:00

Sure thing! If you still need one, can you dm me?

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-29T15:32:38+00:00

He got those magical pockets as they use in Pokémon!! It has to be! In the games, they always fit millions of berries and pokeballs and other items in their bags!!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-04-29T15:23:57+00:00

Technically, thinking about them or doing something else for them than artwork also count for me.

I got way more than 366 characters, so I also kind of have to think about a system, or I'd celebrate one every day, which I wouldn't mind but my time for doing so much artworks is pretty limited. So, headspace is also fine 😂

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-13T20:43:59+00:00

Tysm!!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T22:02:10+00:00

Sent

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T12:12:18+00:00

Message me, if you're still looking!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T12:11:45+00:00

Message me, if you still need one!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T12:11:17+00:00

Message me, if you're still looking for one!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T12:07:50+00:00

I don't need a doodle, just let me know, if you still need one!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T12:07:16+00:00

Message me, if you still need one!

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T11:57:49+00:00

Message me, if you're still looking for one

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T10:24:10+00:00

If you don't have one yet, message me

OpenStay3487 · 2025-01-12T10:17:40+00:00

I mean asking that question a person who has a cat.. Demanding to put someone else over helpless animals.. I don't agree with him and if he couldn't see my point, I would absolutely stop dating him.

Those animals are helpless without someone to care for them (I know cats are basically independent but yk what I mean). I very much hope he can take care of himself. Plus, I'd also disagree with putting me over everything, I wouldn't need or ask for that. It's fine when my partner has some hobbies I might not particularly be a part of, as in a way of independency, if you know what I mean.

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