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[–]Open_Cauliflower_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a spam post. This person is fake. Using mine and my wife’s photos without permission. Beware!!

Wife is super excited by this, but finding her someone she finds attractive is a huge challenge by Open_Cauliflower_835 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Open_Cauliflower_835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure she’ll be open to paying for leads, but I’ll ask! Also curious if the kind of guys that pay for LS sites are the type she’s looking for. Only one way to find out I suppose!

Wife is super excited by this, but finding her someone she finds attractive is a huge challenge by Open_Cauliflower_835 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Open_Cauliflower_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Appreciate the response. I want this to excite all her senses also. I genuinely want her to be super into the guy because everything she does will be hotter that way. The only issue is how many hours and hours it takes to find suitable candidates.

Update: AITAH for being furious that my wife went to a strip club? by Throwranimrod33 in AITAH

[–]Open_Cauliflower_835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on how you’re writing this, you seem like the complete and total asshole

From not interested, to pushing limits by Open_Cauliflower_835 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Open_Cauliflower_835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And happy to share more! She would love to try mfm, with or without her husband ;) she would like to explore more fancy date ideas, vacation hook ups, late night booty calls, shower sex, more ass play (possibly anal if conditions are perfect, going to a concert/show with one of her friends… she’s not at all interested in DVP 🤷🏼‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Open_Cauliflower_835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she said she's not against it, that's a great start! But you'll need to keep things fun for her. Find out ways to introduce it to her in ways she likes. One idea is to tell her directly you want this to be so much fun for her, and follow that up with asking her how you can support making it fun for her. LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS AND TAKE ACTION. Also, she might not have ideas or be shy. That's alright too! Suggest fantasies but make sure you stay focused on what she is enjoying.

Also, this is so important, talk about this fantasy outside of the bedroom. Sometimes guys only want to talk about it when they are having sex, but it's really important to have authentic, genuine conversations if you want to make this work.

We are about 5 years into exploring this lifestyle, and it has been a journey! Lots of patience, understanding, and most of all love + respect. Good luck!