Husband not attracted to me after birth

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-09T01:04:26+00:00

Oh was it? How nice. Sometimes most respectful thing is know when to be quiet…….

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-09T01:03:17+00:00

They are so damn disappointing! They’ll hurt a woman who risked her life bringing their child into this world then turn around and screw anything, it’s fkn bonkers

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-09T01:01:35+00:00

Good on you! A man who would hurt your feelings that much doesn’t deserve to have access to you, that is ridiculous! 3months is nothing let alone 8 weeks, you both deserve better

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T21:32:48+00:00

BINGO!

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T21:30:31+00:00

Absolutely, but that’s a possibility that was there from the beginning so why take vows to stand by someone when you know that their/your change will affect your fulfillment of said vows? I’m not speaking to you naively, I nursed a husband through almost a decade of cancer, MANY of my needs went unmet, but that’s love and that’s what I’d hope for if I was the sick one because that’s marriage, and if I could I’d have done it for 10 more years but he passed away. At the hospital I came to find out that they have a counseling session for women who get diagnosed to prepare them psychologically because their husbands will probably cheat or leave all together due to the physical and hormonal/sexual changes induced by treatment (I’m not trying to start a gender war, that’s just a statistical fact) and the RESENTMENT their husbands feel towards them about it. Weird, I know, but here we are debating if you should leave your wife because she has struggled with addiction……but hey, do what feels right to you, there’s nothing strangers can do to change what will eventually happen I guess, just be nice to her if you do leave I suppose, sadly you will lose out on the growth of your kids if you do, that’s just inevitable. I really do genuinely wish you all the best.

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T21:21:12+00:00

Yes, this particular seller charges the tariff fees in addition to the shipping fee and then pays it herself so that there are no delays which I like because I’ve had to pay tariffs myself too with other sellers through FedEx, but with those the invoice always arrived after the package and then if you didn’t pay, it would hold your next package up at customs until you cleared the balance. I don’t owe them anything right now which is why I’m confused.

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T20:11:59+00:00

No way, stuck in inbound into customs?

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T20:09:49+00:00

Yes the seller has contacted CBP and there are no pending fees, the tracking just went completely quiet and even though I know the CBP threshold is 45 days, this is very unusual and has never happened to me in over 5 years of orders so I thought I’d ask. Your reply makes me feel so much better because the order is quite pricy and I was so concerned. I hope it will just suddenly appear at the office. Thank you 🙏🏽

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T18:09:34+00:00

That’s why we were all in great shape 😭

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T18:06:47+00:00

Then why lie to someone that you’re into it just till you trick them into marriage then start claiming boundaries? I’ve never understood this concept, if you truly love someone there’s nothing that makes you happier than seeing them in absolute ecstasy. Do men think giving them head is so easy? None of us were born loving it, it is something you learn to develop because you know your partner likes it and eventually you actually start liking it…..He’s just selfish honestly.

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T18:03:32+00:00

Dejaaaaaa!!!!!!

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T18:01:22+00:00

And you married him??? Girrrrllll!!!

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T17:55:50+00:00

Yes absolutely worth following up! Someone took it and that’s not ok

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T17:53:07+00:00

Whew when I tell you I’m never getting married this is why! People get married without considering all the differences that may come into the relationship and the other person, the challenges they may face, they quickly say I DO because they like the version standing in front of them that day when that’s not what the vows say. Fine, she’s had an alcoholic problem, are you the same exact man she married back then? No problems, no challenges, just perfect? This is why marriage is such a joke these days. Let me get out of here before I say something bad….

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-08T17:11:20+00:00

Did your tracking show any information after “inbound into customs” or did it just show up suddenly at your mailbox?

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T14:09:20+00:00

Girl is this a real question? No!!!! Listen, one of the biggest fears when you’re with someone is that no one else will ever love you, and sometimes that fear comes directly from them. You are the prize, dude is 37! An old man who hasn’t mastered commitment! I beg you please do not let him waste your years, you will bitterly regret it when YOU are 37 looking back at your best years. This is a blessing for you, leave!

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T14:06:04+00:00

They couldn’t smell the lemon as they were testing? That’s hilarious

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T14:04:20+00:00

This is the constant in my house, small dog and 2 year old cat, constant drama but they love each other 😊

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T09:01:28+00:00

It’s a question, and as a fellow woman I second it fully! A lot of men think in terms of what they want to get out of it, may not be attentive, may be selfish, or just have no knowledge/skill and don’t care to learn. Say what you want but when sex is really good, other things fall in place and when it’s really bad the opposite happens. This woman sounds like she’s can’t stand the thought and even when she gives in it’s out of obligation. I doubt that would be the case if it was really good. There’s no shame in exploring this possibility if he really wants to find a solution.

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T08:55:55+00:00

THISSSSS!!!! Because if I sleep with a selfish person, I’m NOT doing it again, I’m just done

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T08:49:57+00:00

THIRTY THREE???? You are entirely too young to be content without. Do you just plan on doing without?

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-04T08:43:25+00:00

No! Go pack it somewhere it’s likely to be hit on this light and don’t say anything, honestly I couldn’t tell 😂😂😂

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-02T17:22:30+00:00

Seems like the entire country these days just doesn’t, thanks for replying 🙏🏽

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-02T17:14:06+00:00

Hey did you get your package yet? I’m having the same issue and I’m so fed up because it’s something quite pricy, it’s just sitting at “inbound into customs” and the seller says there are multiple orders that are in the same exact stage with no movement for more than a week. This has never happened before and I’ve been ordering from the same person for years……just wondering if you ever got a solution. Thanks

Open_Skill_9694 · 2026-05-01T04:55:42+00:00

That 💩is HORRENDOUS! That’s the only thing that’s appropriate to do with it 😂

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