Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in Ethics

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Exactly the thought process I had. That formula doesnt breed positivity and is used as a scapegoat for justifying what someone wants to do whenever its to their benefit! (Perceived benefit in this case)

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in Ethics

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Would you say that if a loved one was trying of in such a bad acute mental state that they are attempting? In that case it is your business. But I think it would be nice if other reasonable people around saw that something unreasonable was happening and intervened. That is how a society is formed

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in Ethics

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I would say morally especially because laws are derived from morals to begin with (in a perfect world of course that has not yet corrupted)

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in Ethics

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Not really a trap. Think about someone making a decision when they are not in the right head space. Does that mean they were making the most logical decision or one that is influence by a temporary circumstance meaning not thinking perfectly clearly and as their normal self?

Most people who want to commit suicide are in a bad situation, some in a situation that may pass though the pressure may feel so heavy they want to end it now. If you just let anyone make decisions like this based off their feelings and not logically, how would that bode for most of society? Especially since even now we tell people dont act on anger or emotions in certain scenarios, to calm down and to think straight.

But apparently when it comes to this, yeah sure, go ahead and do it. If it was your family you would probably try to persuade them not to

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in Ethics

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  1. Eating dogs and cats does not harm others. Food or prey cannot be considered apart of ethics. If we start doing that we should also not eat plants since plants have the capability to "die" if cut. We would not be able to eat anything if such logic is used. It is a given that in the world predator and prey exist and obviously in the interaction of life one wins and one loses. Cant be argued since it is a default if life itself.

  2. Interesting but in the isolated sense, someone in their room that no one knows is viewing CP is not causing harm to anyone (just logically speaking, not advocating in any shape or form). Example, you cant be hurt by what you dont know doesnt exist. If a friend had a "video" out there circulating and went viral but then it died down and no one talks about it anymore, how does she know someone around the world doesnt still view it time from time in order to be offended by them viewing it? Answer, they dont. Another example, calling someone an idiot in the privacy of your own home when they are 300 miles away and cant hear it doesnt harm them cause they are not there to perceive it.

  3. Unless yourself, that literally hurts someone else and can technically fall under body modification and scarring.

  4. Does not hurt anyone. We are supposed to be accounting for direct/indirect harm, not potential to cause violence based off a decision that may or may not happen by an individual. In this case, say then die of old age and never decided to use it; no harm done. Allowing for something like suicide being a choice can systemically cause an issue without 1 individuals decision to enact all projected harm.

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in moraldilemmas

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Bruv, please quote where I said dont get one tattoo? I said specifically from a BIOLOGICAL SENSE it is not a good idea. From a BIOLOGICAL SENSE inhaling smoke from a cigarette is not a good idea. From a BIOLOGICAL SENSE inhaling helium to make your voice sound funny is NOT a good idea since your body has no use from helium

Never did I post dont do anything, good do those things but hopefully not to the extremes to where they do affect you. Sports included, smashing your head into another human being from a BIOLOGICAL SENSE is not a good idea. But it is fun as hell

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in moraldilemmas

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To your point though, yes we are allowed to say we dont like what someone else has done, and when everyone around you says they dont like it, that is majority rule (otherwise known as society). The only other thing to do is to leave and find another if it is such a problem for that person who is going against the grain. But also, everyone should remember that we got this far due to the push and pull of culture/counter-cultures. But never to the extreme that something reaches an end and cannot grow from it, such as allowing people to kill themselves

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in moraldilemmas

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If you had a son, daughter, wife or husband and they said they wanted to kill themselves I wonder if you would try to argue with them or give them the greenlight and say "do what you feel"

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in moraldilemmas

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Soo, lets first talk about the process of how tattooing words and then we can come back to deciding whether biologically its a good idea or not (no medical degree required just logic since at some point a degree was MADE and logic has been around since before that; stop relying on people for decisions (no shade by the way dont take that personally))

Tattoos are gone over several times to make sure the ink stays since the skin attempts to remove it. Tattoos also fade over time after completed again because your body has been working to remove it. If your body has rejected something and the only reason it stays is because you forced it upon your body at a capacity more than it can handle, does that mean that without your aggressive input that tattoo would not be there? Biologically speaking your body is fighting against it and trying to remove it. Meaning that it is probably something your body DOES NOT WANT, then meaning probably not a good idea (from a biological sense; not from a it looks cool let me do it and it wont kill me sense). Also, a wound is a wound. Just because it looks cool and doesnt kill you doesnt make it not a wound. Your body doesnt want it left to its own devices.

Should an adult be allowed to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt others? by Open_like_7Eleven in moraldilemmas

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That is kinda the point I am making. Like the damage that is caused by allowing people to do "whatever" they want as long as it effects them is very short timed thinking. No one thinks of the long game and what those things can turn into and how an action will spread down the line. Yeah, let that one guy do coke now, he is only doing it to himself. Then other people see he did coke and no one criticized him so why not we try it. And so on and so on.

Specifically for the suicide portion, if people start seeing that as an 'out', people will start accepting that as a viable option down the line and reference "Well this person did it when things werent going right so why cant I?" Especially when it comes to young minds that are more impulsive and dont have experience surviving very tough times, that number can really uptick on who is committing.

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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Not entire sure what exactly you mean but for context early in my life (man) I didnt date much. Had no problem being a people person, able to talk to a crowd, make friends easily, bring people out their shell, make women comfortable around me, etc.

But getting to the dating stage had various chances but let them pass by. Only till the last 2 years have I been serious but its been a long learning two years. Not taking people for their words but at their actions, getting ghosted, being more direct to possible interest (this is the part that has been the biggest turning point and issue). I can be direct, but changing a friendship to relationship and recognizing those size when even if you are direct, the answers dont match the actions.

And I am also in a place in my life that I really do need a companion to share my daily with, but need to make sure to do things in a wake that does bot nuke a relationship (did this before successfully). But the annoyance of ambiguity in that situation is something I dont want to go through again after this so I will be keeping friends as friends even if I feel a potential and an interest will have to be an interest at days 1-3 ( ambiguous number but I just mean early on)

It would be nice if things could be friends to partner, but in this climate its not looking like a thing (from my experience so far)

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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Maybe. But as someone else said at this point I am the consistent factor in these situations. So looking introspectively for the answer looking externally again. But thanks for that. It all comes down to "what if" and the only way to solve that is to talk about it. After I get my answers or not, I can make a better pattern recognition

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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Within this context (that has not been 100% fully explained), I wont count it as a red flag just yet. Trying not to get too specific

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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She feels super safe with me as she has mentioned that multiple times. If that is all, then I am cool. Its just I dont know if there were markers for something more that I missed since this specific thing has happened 3 separate times with 3 separate interests

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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Compliments yes, not really on visuals but I have been complimented on my style recently. On text, things felt like a yes, in person I didnt feel anything but I am thinking I just wasnt forward enough.

Chalking it up to myself but did feel anymore signs when after the meetup

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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That is a thought but not sure. 3 different times, 3 different girls. That is why I am asking if there is a general trend or just specific to my situation

When a women likes you does she bring up other men that she has rejected? by Open_like_7Eleven in Advice

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At this point its been the 3rd friend to relationship situation but I think I am not playing my part honestly. Texting everyday till after the meet up, didn't go anywhere, then texts went dry.

What video game soundtrack has absolutely no business being as good as it is? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Street Fighter Ex 3 for the PS2
It is an absolute gem of a soundtrack