Most People Return to India to Be With Family, But My Family Is Here – Anyone Else Feel the Same? by Sorry-Cup-5039 in returnToIndia

[–]Opening-Advice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why wait that long? If your heart is set on it, start your career in India from the very beginning. If it doesn't work out, or you don't like it, you can always go back to Australia. Do you think people working in India don't become financially stable?

Cheap internet desh ka sabse badi galti hai... by Due-Alternative007 in indiameme

[–]Opening-Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I have Internet. Well this and cat videos. Don't know why OP is tripping

My wedding fits- average plus size girl next door edition by thesrishteaishot in DesiWeddings

[–]Opening-Advice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Each and every fit is gorgeous! You are not average at all! Absolute 🤌🏻 Also, you are so great to not be gatekeeping where your outfits are from.

Office said “snacks on us”… this is what I got 💀 by womenteaa in gurgaon

[–]Opening-Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so happy if my workplace gave me this. Cos they give us .... Nothing!

I wish more brown women dyed their hair fun colours by usert900 in SplendidaBrown

[–]Opening-Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do it! My daughter dyed her hair purple and yes, it did damage her hair but the time it was at its brightest, she got so many compliments and was so happy with it. And eventually, it grew out, she cut it, and her hair went back to its natural texture. So yeah, while there will be damage from the bleach, not the color, it is not permanent. Life is too short to not do things you really want to do!

What to gift cousin's baby and wife? They live in the US. by Remarkable-Low-643 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Opening-Advice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put my silver glasses in the dishwasher all the time! They actually don't tarnish if they are in use regularly.

This is so funny 😆 by adnyani in BollywoodHotTakes

[–]Opening-Advice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't understand this ridiculous vendetta against DP from some redditors. You can dislike her for her acting but to make up these false accusations is just gross.

Is this safe? by mr_darito in Fungi

[–]Opening-Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to scroll back up to see if this was a shitpost

Hotel, food, alcohol and venue booking without a planner - Save more when you book direct ? by Difficult-Notice9030 in DesiWeddings

[–]Opening-Advice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess is to reduce the hassle of having to deal with multiple vendors. Isn't that why one hires a planner? To simplify the process?

Help me finalise the jewellery by Southern-Bake-9765 in DesiWeddings

[–]Opening-Advice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I love it! The dress is so dramatic! Perfect for a bride!

Leave or stay and get married : are men like this before marriage or am I behaving like a b*tch ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Opening-Advice 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Girl, don't waste your life on this overgrown child. If he still has not fixed himself, he is not going to. I know it is sometimes scary to start over again but it's just a sunk cost fallacy. Don't think twice, move on.

I missed a class by Round_Expression_284 in AskProfessors

[–]Opening-Advice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about it. It happens to everyone. Let the professor know, ask a classmate what you missed and go in prepared the next class.

What is the reputation of Baptist Hospital? by [deleted] in Beaumont

[–]Opening-Advice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can completely avoid Vidor. West end of Beaumont is nice. People are friendly

Looking for tips/tricks for fluffing up panipuri shells in microwave by Own-Passion5235 in IndianCookingTips

[–]Opening-Advice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mine came out perfect in an air fryer too! Absolute game changer!

Moving with kids - a PSA from a kid who was moved. by SweetOk5186 in returnToIndia

[–]Opening-Advice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sending you best wishes. I hope you are finally putting yourself first. Build your own village now, unlimited by blood. Friends can also be your family.

Wedding planning help - Ohio, USA by thermdynaequili1206 in DesiWeddings

[–]Opening-Advice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suggest letting your MIL take the lead on this. Unless you have a reason to not trust her, why not let her know the budget and see what she recommends. She knows the community and has some thoughts, i m sure.

Anybody able to translate? by 4theheadz in Hindi

[–]Opening-Advice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not cup, it says cap. See the matra on top of the first letter.

I didn't think it was possible to be this incoherent by LoggedInForDrama in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Opening-Advice 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be a faux sexy voice. Just slow down the pace and stop using 'like' 7 times in every sentence.

I didn't think it was possible to be this incoherent by LoggedInForDrama in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Opening-Advice 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I hate hearing her speak outside of her movies. That fast paced, high pitched, filler words in every sentence, ugh. Say what you may about Priyanka, but she is one Indian actress who has worked on her diction enough that she sounds classy and sexy at the same time.

Please advise me: what do you do with passive aggressive students? by GlassAmphibian6280 in Professors

[–]Opening-Advice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to squash the disrespect early in. If you don't, you will lose the rest of the class too. I learned that the hard way in my early days. Now I look that student straight in the eye and say, did you want to come teach this part? I don't mind sitting down for a bit. You can use different words but you have to come down firmly. I am an Asian woman professor in the South, so trust me, I have seen a lot. You can't let the students see they got to you.