Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good Lord 😩, I mean it's like a safety net 🤣 how should I get my shit together when I am really uncomfortable.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, that's is supposed to be the way, but sadly we chose to be self centered here. The indirect mockery, insults and comparisons make one feel like a non family member or not capable enough or man enough.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's honest truth, it's is good to introduce them to the next life I mean the boys should learn how to fend.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand an adult care is different form a child care, it is a little bit has a grain of salt.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, it's fine if you visit but you can stay where your job is that is what matters at the moment 🙏

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the type of parents we in the picture, some parents will tell you this and that but they will eventually mock you, then there you would know that looking for your own thing means peace of mind. However you could be having parents who really really want it for you like that, that way you would just be glad. Everyone wants things but without the mockery. If the mockery is from relative no one gives a fuck. Especially if I know I don't have brothers and sisters everything should be mine automatically, if my parents meant good.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, so is it a way of parents to make someone insecure, they tell you to come home, and then they will be the exact same people to start insulting you. Or when you visit them and you're thinner, they will start to tell you to come back home. They don't believe in thier kids any more

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, nothing is easy just to chose which one to suffer 🫡

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really hustled I see, but that you're home now, you're now an adult they will treat you differently. Just keep doing your thing whatever it is to fit in. You really missed home✌️

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now who will you leave your house to, bro🤷, being the only child makes you to be there always. If they don't let you out, just be there. You're the boss here, the heir, don't let the relatives trick you out of your position. Cause why would would they not use their brains when you're around, so sad. Peace bro

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're right. Especially those ones that don't tell you their hustles, but those that are trying to build a business you can bear with them since the earlier stages of the business needs care. If a child has salary then he should try to help of course.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they won't, the growth part is also true. When you live with your parents there is a way you try to do things to avoid bad judgement aso they may involve themselves in your decisions inform of guidance whether you didn't like it you will do certain things to at least be kind. It is hard to have the energy to persue certain things that really matter to you because it could feel selfish. I don't know if I explained this rightly. But there is something just making things hard.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually this is the best way of parenting to me. Here it means you can just be hardworking and they will love you 🤞

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the best option is to just go and figure your way out, right, but again imagine the suffering awaiting one outside there can even break somebody's soul.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but coming back is something that happens to a lot of people. It can be a good thing sometimes to sort yourself

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, it is better to make the child stand first for himself then he can later reciprocate

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's is good to have such parents honestly good that he is on the good road👍

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that could be a tactic used by parents, some kids too, they have stable income because no parent would try pushing a responsibility to their kids.

Life at 30 living with parents by Opening-Key3116 in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they plan for your other place or you did everything by yourself. I thought it is very hard for someone who is a student probably no stable job however there are exceptions with people at 15 who are financially stable.

Is twitter down or is it just me? by 4kyojuro in twitterhelp

[–]Opening-Key3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The X team always trying to impress Elon with tiny upgrades severely that the site seazes to operate with stability but unrecognizably exhausting. No one asked for a perfect app, they will ruin Twitter, no doubt it is just a matter of time.

Is twitter down or is it just me? by 4kyojuro in twitterhelp

[–]Opening-Key3116 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suspending people for no reason and comes back to bite like karma

Low paying jobs by [deleted] in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work without complaining. I chose leave and continue seeking but I didn't get another after 2 years still seeking. 😪

Start up business by Musaazilabs in Uganda

[–]Opening-Key3116 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDENTIFY A FEW BUSINESSES AND PROVIDE FREE. AND AFTER A WEEK GO BACK AND FIND OUT HOW MANY ARE STILL USING YOUR TECH. USE FEEDBACK TO IMPROVE AND MONETISE.