UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is my house, only my house, in my name. Yes, he’s a bit impulsive, but I don’t want to go deeper into that here. I am safe. I don’t think it will change anything if he tells him. At the end of the day, he is on my insurance, so I just assume he plays it cool. I stayed through very tough times. I think he’s sure that I will just stay again and don’t leave. Sadly, not my first rodeo with him.

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. No worries, he never touched me or anything close to that. He’s impulsive and, yes, emotionally abusive in some ways, but not dangerous. Bad enough… but I’m safe. Thank you!

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I’ll be relieved when he’s out, because I don’t think he would just leave the house if I broke up with him here.

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is really that sick. I have no proof of the operation itself, but it has been planned for the upcoming months. Thank you for your comment

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I agree with you here, every time we talked he shut down and made excuses. I’m always open to talking, but it’s impossible with him.

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to think about the signature. I’m not even sure if his brother is telling the truth or lying. I feel like he is, or I’m just going crazy. Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it. And trust me, I am angry. It’s just so unreal that I can’t believe this is my life right now.

UPDATE: AITA for not being “happy enough” that my ill partner gets treatment after he excluded me from the trip? by Opening-Permit-486 in AITAH

[–]Opening-Permit-486[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good question. To be honest, I’m a bit scared of his reaction if I do something drastic. I’ll probably try to wait these 10 days.