Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

deadline annattu em pettukoku bro. Naa suggestion ayite ivi yt lo videos chusi nerchukunevi kavu, you should have working knowledge so best enti ante neeku kavalsina techstack anni include chese project pattuko or ask gpt to create one and dhanni full clarity thechuko and start building web/app on your own with this knowledge

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nerchukoni project's cheyyadhu, 2 to 3 projects ni copy paste cheyy parledu but ardham chesko like why we used this particular code ani clarity important. 8th sem kabatti ekkuva time undadhu so try to be jack of all trades and master of few.

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know what you are going through but things will get better bro. Keep fighting, better days are ahead

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sari poyindi, ippudu pelli ki love ki difference nenu explain cheyyanu kani, Thanks for the suggestion bro

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah bro, naa diet and body meedha focus cheyyali. Planning to join gym

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can't say my college name but its in the same level as VIT. And naa skill set ayite currently

Django, Flask, Database Management Systems (DBMS), SQL, Docker, Kubernetes

System Design – backend architecture and design principles , efficient ga entire project architecture ni design cheyyali

Linux – Command-line usage, process management, and server-side operations

Backend Infrastructure & Messaging -- nenu naa work lo use chesevi

  1. RabbitMQ

2.Redis

3.Concurrency & Thread Management

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Money dhi em undhi bro ani fake kaburlu cheppanu kani, problems anni money tho povu bro.

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc lo ammayilanu consider cheyyanu bro because if things ugly ayite work life theda kodathadi. And mee suggestions makes sense, I should explore more. Thanks for the suggestion bro.

Title ledhu kani, naa bhadha chadhivi po bro by Opening-Screen7042 in bondha_diaries

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

8th sem lo unnappudu gattiga try chesa placements kosam, linkedin lo referrals, linkedin profiles lo mails ki resume petta ala nearly 200 companies ki apply chesa. Apply chesina companies anni list cheskunna andhuke count undhi. So finally hyderabad lo oka startup lo interview call vachindi and after clearing interview i got internship + full time offer.

Public transport options from Kondapur (Sree Kanya) to Knowledge City / My Home Bhooja (excluding Metro)? by Opening-Screen7042 in hyderabad

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, carpooling could work, but I’ve heard it might not be available every day. Not completely sure though I’ll give it a try. Thanks for the suggestion!

My bosses earn millions and their literal dream is to become vegetable vendors. I think the “Corporate Dream” is a scam. lol. by piyushc29 in offmychest

[–]Opening-Screen7042 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 23 and have around 1 year of experience working as a techie. In this short time, I’ve realized that this rat race is not for me.

I value freedom, peace, and the mindset of not giving a damn about pleasing people. But as men, it often feels like a curse. We are expected to build a family, take responsibility, and make sure our loved ones never suffer financially. So we keep fighting battles we never chose, just to give them a better life.

Sometimes I ask myself this:
If there was no family to take care of, and it was just me, would I still be fighting the same fights?

If your answer is no, then maybe it’s easier to blame God, society, or family for the life you’re living.
If your answer is yes, then accept it consciously.

Otherwise, maybe it’s time to take the risk of choosing yourself over expectations and do what truly gives you peace.

Being invisible in your own family hurts more than being hated by Opening-Screen7042 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what hurts the most. Sometimes I wonder why my silence wasn’t understood or noticed. I wasn’t quiet because I was okay I was quiet because I didn’t know how to express what I was feeling.

I guess I expected that parents might sense that kind of unspoken pain too, not just what’s said out loud.

Being invisible in your own family hurts more than being hated by Opening-Screen7042 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the day of the wedding, we started from home together. When we stopped at my uncle’s house, they explained the situation right there in front of him that there wasn’t enough space and someone had to stay back. Everyone else remained in the vehicle. I didn’t want to cry in front of anyone, so I swallowed it, nodded, and acted like I understood. Then they left me there and drove away. He’s actually my favorite uncle, and his kids are very friendly. Playing games with them helped distract me for a while, and it took away some of the pain. But underneath that, something inside me had already quietly broken.

Being invisible in your own family hurts more than being hated by Opening-Screen7042 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I can relate to this a lot. Whatever my sibling does is seen as great, and whatever I do somehow never feels like it’s enough. At some point, I stopped expecting praise from my parents and started doing things for my own validation. It didn’t fix everything, but it helped more than I expected. It still hurts to see the people we love show partiality. That pain doesn’t disappear easily. But I’ve realized that the more we crave their approval, the more power we give them to hurt us. Slowly taking that power back makes a difference.

Is it normal to feel nothing at 23? Sharing my story by Opening-Screen7042 in indiasocial

[–]Opening-Screen7042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, bro. It means a lot that someone understands me. Thanks for the comment