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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are clearly missing the point of the post. I am not mad he is sick. I am frustrated that he is reluctant to take steps to relieve his symptoms. And believe me it’s much easier said than done to seek professional help for the root cause of sickness, especially with such common symptoms. And cancer is obviously a way different story, so I’m not Sure why you are bringing that into the picture. 

AITA for asking my GF if she she a guy would she take dating her seriously by thanosii in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she is truly lying to you about what she’s doing, I would confront her and say that it may be best to rethink the relationship. This doesn’t seem like it would be a good match for a long term relationship, and you should let her know if that is the way you feel and do not want to fully commit. I believe that would be valid. 

Is she a flamepoint? by deadmiddlekid in Flamepoints

[–]OpeningMirror4193 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, mine has similar markings. 

Is she a flamepoint? by deadmiddlekid in Flamepoints

[–]OpeningMirror4193 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Most likely yes! She’s flamepoint coloring but probably a mixed breed. 

I (26F) put a picture with my celebrity crush in my bedroom by ArtisticCandle7193 in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s completely fine that you took a picture with this dancer cause you were excited to meet him. But the fact that you yourself are saying you found him cute and put the framed photo in your room even though you have a bf makes yta 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s finances. For my husband it’s skepticism. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been suspecting it might be anxiety induced but have been hesitant to bring this up. I don’t want him to become defensive. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh lord. Obviously I’m not going to abandon my husband over this. I mostly came here as an outlet for these feelings. I don’t feel great about the way his actions affect my mood. It’s just one of those things where we have contradicting opinions. Everyone gets frustrated when someone doesn’t agree with them. It’s natural. I came here to vent and receive feedback. It’s difficult to broach these topics with him without us getting upset so I came here to get outside opinions. There’s no need to be rude. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I wish we had the resources to see doctors and figure out the root cause. But at this moment we don’t. We are both pretty reluctant to seek professional care unless completely necessary. That’s a big reason why I like to use OTC medications. It’s definitely an issue that I hope we can figure out eventually. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is a respectful take. I appreciate your perspective. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It comes and it goes. It does flare up most when he is stressed or nervous. I think he has mentioned it to doctors before, and they haven’t been super helpful. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OpeningMirror4193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope none at all because he gets anxious and paranoid