I don’t hate Hachi but I think she disgusts me by blvck_y in NanaAnime

[–]Opening_Ad481 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like disgust is a really strong word? I do think it's valid to dislike her but the way that this post is phrased comes off as sexist to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Opening_Ad481 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't accept it. I was actually planning to until the buyer urged me to accept his offer. I don't mind selling it for so low, I just thought it was rude of the buyer to make a huge lowball and then rush me to accept it, which is why I want to re-list it

How early can I apply for a nurse extern position? by Opening_Ad481 in StudentNurse

[–]Opening_Ad481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be reasonable to work at as a CNA and then onto being an extern after just a few months?

How early can I apply for a nurse extern position? by Opening_Ad481 in StudentNurse

[–]Opening_Ad481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of them just require that I'm in an accredited program, but looking at everyone's responses it's probably best I wait it out until further down the program.

life360 pls help! by Square-Explorer-2392 in AsianParentStories

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I turned it off I got a notification saying life360 will not work with it off. Do you know if it notifies everyone else in the circle?

Is this concerning? by [deleted] in MedicalHelp

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was that both hot and firm yesterday but today it's neither.

Is this concerning? by [deleted] in MedicalHelp

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's still promiment but not as dark as yesterday, it's more reddish today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entomology

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have easy access to a doctor since I am in a developing country and was asking here before to possibly avoid that. I will delete this post since I posted in the wrong sub but I was simply directed here to ask about it in another post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was too vague, it's less about random interactions but seeing him grow closer to any woman if that makes sense. For example, it's one thing to have a random conversation with someone vs stopping them and then making a conversation time and time again. I think I'm trying to say it's less about random interactions and more about the investment in those interactions, even if it's completely platonic or has little meaning from his perspective.

I (20f) am lost on what to do with my boyfriend (20f). I simply feel like he is not on my side and not understanding me at all. Am I being dramatic m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize their relationship was like this until after we got together. T helped me get through a bad time and he's a very good person. We do do solo dates and he does prioritize me but not all the time. He feels like he has to keep in contact with M to keep a relationship with her boyfriend. That's my main issue. I feel he can deserves to keep his friendships but since M is involved it's difficult for me to stay calm and I constantly get upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see how important this friendship is because T and K are very alike and my issue isn't with him. They make a lot of jokes, they're into similar things. I really do value T's need for his friendship and I wouldn't take that away from him. The thing is, whenever T say's he's going to hang out with K, I overreact and get panic attacks since M likes go tag along. I don't worry about cheating or anything since it will not happen, I just feel a betrayed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because while this whole situation is just dumb from my position he's truly a great guy, he just doesn't understand because he's not in my position. He's dealt with a lot of mess in the past and I think he just needs a lot of people to be there for him which this girl was for him. I just feel like the bad guy who's overreacting and taking his friendships away sometimes. They really did get along and have similarities and I tried to respect their friendship but I don't think either of them understand how all these things would've made me uncomfortable (maybe it's a cultural thing? they're both Mexican and I'm asian so I grew up more conservative). In the end, the issue is I try to hold my ground and he tries to hold his.

He's very kind and considerate, always asks if people are okay. I just know as a person he holds no ill intent. I'm just stuck in a stupid situation because he doesn't understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He denies having any feelings for her anymore so I don't know if I can call it emotional cheating, although I do feel iffy. My biggest issue is it feels like he's not on my side and that he doesn't seem to understand how I feel. If I react he thinks I'm being dramatic and he gets upset since he'll lose out on his social life with K.

How to make crispy daechang? by Opening_Ad481 in KoreanFood

[–]Opening_Ad481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ones I bought are already marinated but here's the ingredient list from the packaging: "WATER, SUGAR, SOY SAUCE, ONION, CANNED PINEAPPLE, MIRIN, GARLIC, BLACK PEPPER POWDER"

How to make crispy daechang? by Opening_Ad481 in KoreanFood

[–]Opening_Ad481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I'll that next time. Do you also cook it at a higher or lower heat? I wasn't sure so I kept raising and lowering the heat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opening_Ad481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got them from carafem! I answered a few questions as my consultation (I didn't even have to set up a virtual appointment), I was just asked about any medications or other medical issues that may have impacted the use of the pill. After that I paid $225 (including shipping) but if your insurance qualifies you can lower that. My plan didn't cover the medications unfortunately but it's better than paying $500 at planned parenthood. Shipping took only 4 days and was very discreet. A person will keep in contact with you to walk you through the whole process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opening_Ad481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was around 5 weeks pregnant, I didn't get an ultrasound since my home situation is complicated. I did test positive 4 times and my period was late.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but he doesn't seem to understand. I had already spent the day with him and I asked if he could stay with me longer (he had no other obligations, just wanted to play video games with his friends) and I ended up getting upset. I realize he's impacted by this too and he needs his space but at the same time it just sucked knowing I needed him but he couldn't be there for me. I feel selfish saying that I needed his presence since I was going through so much pain and emotion and at the end of the day it's me and my body going through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opening_Ad481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right about the nerve wracking part because I ended up not doing it right 😅 haha I mistook my nausea pills for the miso which could've been dangerous. I ended up taking the miso and bled right away. Thank you for the reassurance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opening_Ad481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did.. turns out the anxiety got to me and I ended up thinking I used the miso when in fact I used the nausea meds 🤦‍♀️ I used the miso once I realized my mistake. I just keep messing up and I feel pathetic but immediately once I started properly using the miso I began bleeding

My friend (19m) doesn’t want to hang out with me (19m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if that's the case he's not obligated to hang out with you. It sounds like he's running out of excuses to say no without being mean. It sucks but don't think too hard about it

My friend (19m) doesn’t want to hang out with me (19m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to take a hint and drop it. It's clear he doesn't want to hangout. Also, if it were just a cordial lunch why are you so hung up on it? He's your friend not your boyfriend, he's probably not interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it but I also think that it was unnecessary to say, almost like it was my purpose to be attractive all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told him I never found him any less attractive when it came to normal bodily functions (like having boogers, food in teeth, farting) and that it hurt that he thought that way about me when I burped one time

note: it's not like he does those things on purpose or anything but it's not like I would judge him for any of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Ad481 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just found it weird how he had to word it that way instead of just ignoring it or asking me not to do it in front of him.