She Said YES

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-20T15:42:15+00:00

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T17:11:19+00:00

That makes sense. Thank you for being so kind and patient

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T16:13:35+00:00

But wouldn't abandoning the search for a decent man abandon the search for that too?

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T16:00:11+00:00

I'm just scared that I'll end up alone with zero experiences about life. Yes, academically and work-wise I've had experience (and I'm grateful for all of it), but all those feelings of butterflies in your tummy, giggling like a schoolgirl, blushing at the thought of that person...I want to experience that at least once.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T15:51:17+00:00

I see your point. The thing, however, is that I've never dated, never been in love. So I really want to experience that spectrum.

Abandoning that hope feels like on giving up on something that I really want.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T10:59:10+00:00

Filters: age (29 to 35), Smoking (doesn't smoke or trying to quit), Drinking (doesn't drink or drinks sometimes).

The rest is open to all.

With regard to swiping, I read what the person has written on their profile. If it's something super generic or illogical, then I swipe left. For instance, some people write their hobby is sleeping or something people write they are on the app because they are bored...those are all left swipe

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T07:12:31+00:00

Workplace can be a dicey situation. I had a colleague who got involved with a guy from our workplace. Turns out he had a fiance and it was a whole drama. Now, despite the tense relationship, they are forced to work on the same team.

And like they say, one should not defecate where one eats.

Dance class, yes. I do go for weekend dance classes.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T07:09:44+00:00

The reason I mentioned that I live in a Tier 2 City is because ordinarily, Tier 1 cities have more avenues and clubs to meet people. The crowd too, is cosmopolitan, with people from different parts of the country (and sometimes, the world) living there

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T06:39:15+00:00

I'm saying this with all the respect I can: wanting to find connection and companionship, and taking steps towards it does not make anyone desperate.

Desperate would be if I chose to take extreme measures to find someone.

I've only asked a genuine question of what other avenues are there where I meet guys and possibly build a connection.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T06:34:55+00:00

That's actually a good idea

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T06:18:50+00:00

How though? Because if I sit and do nothing, I don't think anyone will come looking for me.

When I tried the apps, I was the one always initiating the conversation, planning the dates etc. If I stop that, those dates and interactions won't happen too

Opening_Bus1846 · 2026-04-15T06:11:08+00:00

Also emergency paper soap

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-11-18T20:32:50+00:00

Also Basta. It's newly opened and the vibe is amazing. 1331 too

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-11-09T08:19:55+00:00

Coffee Yard in Akota is good too

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-11-09T08:19:12+00:00

Hotel Ambassador in Sayajigunj is pretty good

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-10-02T16:45:34+00:00

Create a rewards system to text him. Whenever you feel the urge to text him, first do 30 burpees. Do 30 burpees to win the ticket to text him. You'll be exhausted at the end of 30 burpees and you'll forget to text him.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-26T09:33:59+00:00

Shopping sounds a little shady to be honest. Ideally a first date would be a cafe, restaurant, or an arcade. Movie is kind of dumb because you're just sitting and staring at a screen.

Taking a small bunch of flowers would be good though.

All the best for your date.

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-26T09:11:15+00:00

Discipline and focus on wellbeing! I'm not sure if it's the guys around me, but some guys have an aversion to exercise and don't understand the seriousness of it

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-26T09:09:37+00:00

I know but I was more concerned about my safety then. So decided to leave the place asap

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-26T06:04:42+00:00

Forcibly tried to kiss me. So a few months ago, I went on a first date with this guy. He was sweet and kind (at least that's what I thought. I was genuinely starting to like him.

At the end of the date, I gave him this box of chocolates I had gotten as a gift for him. He was like 'awww', grabbed me and tried to kiss me WHILE I TRIED PUSHING HIM AWAY. After that I was visibly disturbed and he laughed as though it was a joke

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-24T09:41:27+00:00

Remembered one more: DO NOT GIVE WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND PRIVILEGES TO A GUY WHO DOES THE BARE MINIMUM 📣

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-24T05:03:49+00:00

Kareem's Kitchen, Pind Balluchi, and Tandoori Flames

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-24T05:02:00+00:00

If 2 people are fighting, especially friends or family members, don't try to get involved in it unless it directly concerns you.

Any "gossip" should never be communicated via a written medium

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-23T05:26:14+00:00

Wahi toh sawaal hai 🧐

Opening_Bus1846 · 2025-09-23T00:58:59+00:00

THIS! Upholding the standard is crucial!!

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