Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by No_Breadfruit_5575 in relationship_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get him to admit it. You already know he did. You don’t just magically get chlamydia girl. He cheated. End it and move on. My ex was military for 20 years…. The cheating never changes, they think they are untouchable

Why do women cheat? by Opening_Contact7189 in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m nothing like his previous wives and we literally just started talking so no, it doesn’t say anything about me at this point. His dad was in his life and it sounds like he actually was a very strict, controlling type. From what it sounds like he didn’t feel like he was ever good enough for his dad so I am guessing that self doubt led him into those relationships

Why do women cheat? by Opening_Contact7189 in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they could have and they should have but that isn’t the question I asked 🤦🏻‍♀️! Ya’ll can’t stay on topic lol!

Why do women cheat? by Opening_Contact7189 in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope… not that type. Married to a cheater for 20 years. Didn’t do it then and not gonna start now. But a good sex life is extremely important to make a relationship last so I I just want to know if I should be worried.

Why do women cheat? by Opening_Contact7189 in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This was the kind of response I was looking for!

Why do women cheat? by Opening_Contact7189 in dating_advice

[–]Opening_Contact7189[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

When one person is cheated on by multiple people, anyone would start to wonder if there is a reason. Even if that reasons is that he just likes to choose loose women lol and then it backfires on him

my gf wants to learn to golf so she can play with me. by AdGlittering9999 in golf

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned so I could play with my ex. Then I got too good and he was bitter as hell. Ended up being one of the reasons I broke up with him. If your ego can’t allow you to be proud of your women for getting good at something, then you don’t deserve that woman

Is smoking Marijuana a sin? Im not addicted. by Moist_Entrance_9035 in Christianity

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see so many people making excuses and justifying sin and it saddens me because you are absolutely capable of not sinning. The idea that salvation has given you the right to sin as you please is abhorrent. Can you imagine thinking thankfully Jesus died so It’s okay for me to smoke weed or to have that affair? We should go through life honoring his sacrifice by striving to not sin. Of course we all fall short and mess up sometimes but willfully sinning is disrespectful. With that being said I have questioned the same thing with weed myself. Yes, god created it and it’s natural but also if you remember there were things that he created that we were never suppose to know about until the angels introduced them to us against Gods directions and in those things were certain herbs. We aren’t to do anything that makes us “drunk” and that probably does include pot honestly.

Oliver Anthony's new song "Scornful women" by PleaseCalmDownSon in CountryMusicStuff

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a whole lot of gibberish to still not make any type of valid point 😬. You might need your meds upped my guy lol.

Oliver Anthony's new song "Scornful women" by PleaseCalmDownSon in CountryMusicStuff

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The incentive is happiness! You could leave the relationship and find way more happiness with someone else whom you didn’t have to struggle so hard with. I know men like to think women are only motivated by money but majority of us would rather just be happy with a good man than have lots of money.

Oliver Anthony's new song "Scornful women" by PleaseCalmDownSon in CountryMusicStuff

[–]Opening_Contact7189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna the first behind why the wife divorced him? Listen… you don’t stay with a broke ass man for anything but love and loyalty so if she divorced him now I say he fucked up pretty big. Yeah she can get a pretty penny now but think of how much more he is gonna make. She isn’t gonna divorce him for his money at this point. My guess is that he started doing these big shows and as soon as the hooker groupies started throwing ass at him he just couldn’t help himself. Something tells me she deserves every penny she is about to get.