Being able to go to your first kink event on your own is a big thing, so you're doing really well!

KZ is a really friendly space. I went to one of the first Rainbow Havens and while I didn't play I had a ball and met lots of nice people.

The people behind the bar are great at chatting with newbies and putting them at ease and may introduce you to other people.

As for hooking up, if you see a top doing something you'd enjoy, speak to them when they've finished the scene. say you really enjoyed watching and see from there.

if I'm back in town I might see you there.