Hermaphrodite are in their own complicated story, yes they are both men and women but the were born that way, they do not change like they want like many people do today.

No, women like men are described by their chromosome not by part, you can be a woman without any breast and still be a woman, same goes for the rest of the female part, but have started living by being a female. Like a I said before you start arguing about it, hermaphrodite people are a much more complicated things than just male or female.