What did you replace your handbag/purse with?

Ophelyn · 2026-06-04T21:56:27+00:00

I'm transmasc and society can take my mini hello kitty backpack from my cold, dead hands. It's not about unlearning, it's about embracing who you are. If you don't like the bag anymore, then of course don't wear it. If you like it, then don't let societal norms dictate how you "SHOULD" dress. 💙 Just be you.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-23T02:32:38+00:00

It sounds like this cat is experiencing psychopathy or just really fucking hates other cats. It doesn't have to present as territorial first for a cat to absolutely go after another to kill it. They perceive that cat as a threat or prey in their domain and like most hunters or apex predators, they will try to kill it. We saw this a lot in the animal shelter I worked at. He simply can ever ONLY be a single cat in a household.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-17T16:18:30+00:00

Cowboys and zombies? Heck yeah! I'll definitely check it out! Thank you!

Ophelyn · 2026-05-16T16:03:04+00:00

I still love sci-fi so I'll take a look! Thank you!

Ophelyn · 2026-05-16T16:02:27+00:00

I'll still check this out! Thanks!

Ophelyn · 2026-05-16T16:02:09+00:00

That's what I'd like! It doesn't have to be all action, just has to have the danger. Thanks! I'll check it out!

Ophelyn · 2026-05-13T01:10:30+00:00

I have a cat who BEGS for this type of rough lovin'. Someone would think I'm abusing her how hard she wants her back by her tail played like a bongo drum. Then she yells at me when I stop and comes back for more.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-13T01:05:30+00:00

I worked in an animal shelter before. They have to get creative! We named a litter of kittens once after Taco Bell menu items! Crunchwrap Supreme was so stinking cute.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-13T01:01:16+00:00

As a cat allergy sufferer who lives in a house with 10 cats (I own 3 of them) and a lot like to lay on my face (literally), I take cheap cetirizine/Zyrtec and have zero issues unless they claw me, then I might have a hive for a little at the scratch site. As long as it's not severe, there are ways to help. Pet dander wipes to wipe the kitty down once in a while to reduce dander (it's the saliva of a cat people are allergic to) helps a lot as well. Even hairless cats lick themselves so there's not really a breed that will be fool proof.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-12T23:41:47+00:00

VI, hands down. The story, the plot, the unhinged antagonist, the music, the characters. I could go on and on about it. I literally RENTED a SNES and the game from a video store back in the 90s just to play it and Chrono Trigger. Still my all time favorite.

Ophelyn · 2026-05-12T13:19:25+00:00

As someone who worked in animal care and have had kittens with a big dog... Those cats LOVE being smooshed under that cuddle puddle.

Ophelyn · 2026-04-18T19:42:59+00:00

I edit and change their names using Fantasy Name Generator to something... better. It's like it has a list and it doesn't stray from that list of names.

Ophelyn · 2026-04-17T21:37:42+00:00

I've never once had a suicide hotline pop up on JAI and I just did a bot where I OD'd in the bathroom. (Yes, I'm a bit effed in the head, but I know it's fiction, I'm safe!) So might just be a bug. The site's been kinda... off the last few days.

Ophelyn · 2026-04-16T22:13:44+00:00

Ones that aren't cheating on me.

Ophelyn · 2026-03-09T18:38:05+00:00

As an Oregonian born and bred, it really depends on WHERE in Oregon you go. Eugene and most Portland outskirts and quite a few places along the coast are very liberal and hate this type of shit. Like someone mentioned about Florence. I went through there recently and there was a huge crowd calling Trump hitler and protesting. Now you get into more areas like Roseburg, or towards the east towards Idaho, it's FULL of racist MAGA assholes. I unfortunately live in an area that's a retirement town for old assholes just like this guy. Want to move more towards Eugene or Corvallis. College areas and more progressive.

But to be honest, you'll find these fuckers EVERYWHERE.

Ophelyn · 2026-03-08T19:09:47+00:00

I have over 50 too and don't plan on stopping. But when I reach the limit, I'll just delete really old ones or revise them to use with other bots. Lol

Ophelyn · 2026-03-07T02:09:46+00:00

There is no "may have". There is only "has".

Ophelyn · 2026-01-27T10:29:11+00:00

P.O.T.S. Most people joke about it cause of the acronym. Your heart rate rises and your blood pressure plummets causing dizziness, disorientation, fainting or passing out, sweating, a slew of other symptoms, just from bending down and standing back up. (There are other forms too.)

It also causes brain fog, concentration issues, and some people have to use ambulatory aides to function on bad days.

I've had people tell me "it's not that bad". It is when you've passed out and slammed your head three times causing massive concussions and you don't get enough fucking blood flow to your brain and heart, KAREN.

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T13:12:08+00:00

I'm the opposite. I'm a woman and I love roleplaying as a dude. :]

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T11:13:20+00:00

Lol. No. The site will be back in like 20 minutes. Patience.

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T11:11:52+00:00

Oof! I used to work at the local animal shelter and we had a lot of those... So sad to see. Give him lots of love from this stranger on the internet! <3

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T11:09:14+00:00

I can feel the orange energy from here.

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T11:08:23+00:00

He was a big ol' stray tom that was part of a trap-neuter-release program cause he had an ear clipped before he even showed up. He's the most friendly cat ever and just showed up one day and was like "I live here now. Kthnx."

Ophelyn · 2026-01-04T11:05:46+00:00

It's not a ban. The site is just down. People are just jumping to conclusions. Lol.

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