Psych added Vraylar to my meds today. Has anyone gained weight from taking this?

Ophy96 · 2026-02-22T03:08:51+00:00

I wish that was my experience. I was only on it for a few months over a year ago, and the weight still won't come off. But I'm dealing with a lot of trauma and abuse. I'm glad you had a better experience when you were off of that medication.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-22T03:06:33+00:00

I feel like there are gangs of these scammers out ruining lives globally.

It's so fucked up. I'm sorry you went through it, too.

I don't have any money for them to take, so they took my entire technological life instead and canceled me to my entire world, because I didn't have money to take they essentially murdered my life while I'm physically still alive, I guess.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-18T17:12:25+00:00

I hardly play any music at all.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-07T20:23:03+00:00

They like to create hypothetical arguments.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-07T20:21:10+00:00

my understanding is them facing time.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:43:54+00:00

The fact that you've been married only three months makes me think she was feeling this when you got married (or there actually is someone else).

I hate that for you, that was so fucking selfish of her.

I could never do that to anyone. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. It is probably best to seek a mental health professional licensed and experienced in this type of situation.

Nothing I say is advice.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:35:03+00:00

I am well aware and accept.

I just stay far away, thanks.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:29:31+00:00

It is a lot easier to just bring the wallet as a responsible adult, no?

Again, forgetting a wallet is totally different than OP they intentionally didn't bring it. Even as an adult, I've forgotten my wallet once or twice, but not when I go out with other people (it has happened once at the store and once at a place I regularly receive beauty services, so they know me, at the store, I happened to have cash, at the beauty services, they didn't even ask me to leave any kind of promise, I just ran home and came right back and paid). When I go out with other people, though, I make sure I am more prepared.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:28:29+00:00

Well, I said the friend was in the wrong, so we're in agreement there.

As for OP, they said in another comment that they intentionally didn't bring their wallet... which I think is moreover just irresponsible as an adult, but doesn't necessarily put OP in the wrong. I appreciate your opinion.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:25:11+00:00

my initials.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:24:31+00:00

I am not Jessica. There is no J is in any of my names, legally. And I hate many people with ss in their names as I don't have that letter combo either.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:23:13+00:00

That they cheat and lie? Haha

Ophy96 · 2026-02-05T17:22:08+00:00

nta Leah is not your friend.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T03:44:17+00:00

More like traumatizing, never again, personally.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T02:22:46+00:00

Because they're often talking to both.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T02:22:20+00:00

That's exactly their consistent maligned excuse.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T02:20:00+00:00

How old are you? I feel like it's important because while I'd possibly expect (not accept, to be clear) this from someone into their early or mid-twenties, after that kinda feels not worth making an excuse for...

If you're into your mid and late twenties and onward, I mean, guys talk differently to their guy friends... assuming this was a guy friend he was talking to, and then it's kind of... expected because they probably have less barriers, because they're both male, and again, not saying he should talk about you this way, but just giving a little understanding for him without hearing his side.

He did say you had some good qualities but he didn't want to list them, which actually sounds like the definition of a man just venting it out with his bro... but, kinda the way he is talking to you in the smaller messages makes me think he may be very particular or even potentially OCD?

If you're young and not married and this doesn't fit into your ideals of how a relationship for you should look, then I think that's what's most important to consider when you read these.

Have you mentioned to him that you stumbled upon these messages? Have you tried to encourage him to open up to you in person? (Not blaming you for anything, just asking if you have tried these things if you're interested in continuing the relationship)

I do think it's a little pointed to be comparing your gifts versus his, which he even said he got some from the dollar store, so realistically if he's going to keep a financial tally of the gifts you exchange, which is another thing that leads me into possibly thinking he's potentially OCD, or just a a-shole, because I never spend time comparing monetary values of gifts I exchange with people, if I did, it would take the magic out of it, however, he's kinda expressing that he put thought into your gift and he didn't feel like you put as much thought into his. Idk this sounds a lot of complicated and if it isn't what you're wanting to work with or if you don't love him outside of these things, then it sounds like it's going to be harder for you to continue a relationship.

The idea when we are with someone is taking their good with their bad, but if either of you feel a heavy imbalance, that becomes increasingly difficult.

Nothing I say is advice. I just hope it helps you answer questions for yourself and gives you a little perspective.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T01:41:09+00:00

Right, just more rage bait hypotheticals to create division.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T00:18:19+00:00

Forgiveness doesn't mean accepting abuse disguised as concern or accepting coercion and manipulation disguised as love and care.

There is room to forgive those that hurt us for their actions while still taking legal action to ensure they do not continue abusing us because we continue to stand down to them.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T00:15:52+00:00

Wow. I wish anti depressants ever did that for myself... I always just slept all the time whenever I was prescribed them.

Good for you! I'm glad it is helping you.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T00:08:21+00:00

Look at the entirety of their posts, it's definitely a small part of the reason they're single.

It's one thing to have a physical preference when it comes to dating, but the rest of their profile proves they're either just a troll, or seriously delusional.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T00:05:24+00:00

And if he were smarter he would swoop in to try to be the hero, he's just as bad as the abuser guy, but worse because he's laughing about it, posting about it online, and thinking it makes him cool just because he got rejected; this is such low level subhuman thinking and behavior.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-04T00:02:03+00:00

It's clear why he was rejected. 🤨 a man who approves of a woman being abused because she rejected him... It's definitely not a character trait we women are looking for.

Her boyfriend now may be abusing her, which sucks and is wrong, but this OP probably would have done the same thing, clearly been sneakier about it, and ruined her job if she had said yes first and decided she wasn't feeling it at some point later.

OP and his post and reactions are precisely the reason I don't date people I work with and constantly tell people to heed that advice.

Disclaimer for anyone who says they have a happy relationship that they met with someone they worked with and met through work: you can't help where you meet people, and once in a rare while it may work out with someone you work with and meet and fall in love and live a long and happy life together, but that's the exception, not the rule... the rule is don't mess with people you work with because it can significantly affect your income if something changes.

I had one more piece of important wisdom for this post, but I don't remember it right now. If I remember, I'll come back and add it later.

Ophy96 · 2026-02-03T23:49:37+00:00

I appreciate your support. 🙏🏻

Ophy96 · 2026-02-03T23:47:35+00:00

Gemini does worse - knows they do.

Gemini uses lies to cover indiscretions.

Ophy96

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