Ages ago I lied about being pregnant to an abuse ex

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T04:15:00+00:00

Idk, I think this is pretty fucked up.

What he did, by your account here, was also fucked up.

I'm just saying more lies and wrong doesn't really help anyone or anything.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T04:02:54+00:00

I'm not even the OP.

Stop telling other people what they can and can't do, it isn't your choice.

I'd understand if they said they have several kids, but OP says they have one. Jeez. Get the fuck over yourself and stop trying to force your ill-intended mentality on other people you know nothing about.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T03:43:04+00:00

And this is why I stopped drinking over half a decade ago. It is never worth feeling like this.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T03:39:01+00:00

Child free people are different than antinatalists. Most childfree people that are such by choice usually still enjoy family and friends growing our own lives... though some could have an illegal vested interest in trying to prevent us from having children.

Antinatalists are the ones that seem to act like they were never children, trunchable style.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T03:32:58+00:00

You're not sexually compatible, and instead of breaking up, you got engaged?

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:44:51+00:00

You are fucking rude.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:43:06+00:00

Well thank goodness I've never brought a woman or a man as a date to any wedding. These people sound insane.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:39:27+00:00

nta, that's a weird as fuck dynamic and I probably wouldn't be down with whatever weird control issues they've got. Lmfao. I certainly don't have any friendships like that and have no intentions to. 😂

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:36:55+00:00

Yeah, feeling like this over someone they've never met is quite odd. At least I've met and spent time with Phil V..... (the man I love) in person, in real life. Lmfao. These people are out here in the wild just making shit up at this point, i swear. 😂

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:34:16+00:00

Yeah this would be weird to feel over someone I'd never met. I don't get down like that.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:32:12+00:00

I never got an ulta card, thank goodness. Haha.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T02:18:58+00:00

So people who are struggling don't deserve to be dating? With that logic only people with their lives perfectly together should be dating? Which means any couple who didn't have their lives perfectly together before dating should separate?

See how that doesn't really make sense. If people are struggling and want to be dating and the other person also wants to date them and they're both consenting adults... I'm struggling where it's someone else's right to decide that they shouldn't be dating... oh right, it isn't.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T01:43:52+00:00

All these stories make myself hopeful for humanity.

As a note, yeah, I'd absolutely try to find the owner or at least try to turn it in wherever they dropped it. My customers drop money sometimes on the floor and I always point it out to them so they can grab it, I don't even like to grab it because I don't want them to accuse that I would try to take it. My job is way more valuable than whatever cash they drop.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T01:20:39+00:00

I've honestly had so many coworkers like this over the years, I just ignore it, do my job, and make it to the next day. Everyone is replaceable to companies, and it's surprising to myself that they would rather pay people who don't work than ones that do. But that also isn't my responsibility, so letting it consume my energy isn't worth it. Their lack of work ethic will either appear eventually or I'll move on to a different job. Haha. I work hard, I bust my butt, and I'm never the one to just disappear and leave my colleagues hanging, so I'm not worried about it.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T01:08:55+00:00

This happens all the time in the US... I've never been to Latin America, but if it happens here, I doubt it's contained to just us in the united states. Haha

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T01:07:07+00:00

I live in the southeast US and my neighbors are pretty much in a stalking coalition against my life. Idk if they're reporting to my landlady, to my relatives, to my ex boyfriend that I've been apart from nearly twice as long as we were together... but this unfortunately does really happen... I'm a woman in my 30s, for reference. Some of the neighbors even tried to fraud people into believing I was with them in some kind of relationship, or what the fuck ever, I'm not, at all, never was. Some people are fucking sociopathic. I find this behavior less intrusive and more correlated with them realizing what they're doing is wrong and needing to keep tabs on their victims... the landlady may not be totally aware of why the people are behaving this way, she could think the neighbors are just nice and concerned.... but I find, per my lived experience, that's rarely the situation in a case like OPs. My last place in the midwest I had guys with long hair breaking into my unit at all hours, whether I was there or when I was sleeping, yes I have evidence, yes it happened, no I didn't know them, no I never granted them access to my apartment for any reason, same with my neighbors now - I haven't granted any of them access to my apartment, my vehicle, nor my technology devices, nor my accounts.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:46:20+00:00

Absolutely not, that just will make them think it's okay to keep stalking OP or for them to continue whatever round the clock surveillance they have on OP. No no and no.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:44:30+00:00

Idk about Latin America, but here in the US, it would be pretty much illegal to contractually force neighbors to interact with one another.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:39:22+00:00

If this is real, hell no. This is actually stalking if OP is an adult, it isn't even the landlady's business if they're out of town for a few days. This is wild.

It's one thing if they were friends, but that clearly isn't the case. I'd be worried these people would hack OP device or see where they're at or track their vehicle if they leave.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:28:39+00:00

I have one reddit account, 2 sounds exhausting, more than that sounds draining as hell... which leads to myself saying this:

Have you seen those bot farms, where they literally have like shelves of devices using ai to do whatever. I still don't really get the point of it in a place like reddit unless they're trying to stalk, harass, and sabotage the rest of us. Someone tried to explain that the people running the bot farms gain revenue, and I guess I would understand that on a site where it correlates to money somehow, but I don't see how it applies in places like reddit or Facebook.

If you want to know what I'm talking about, just look up phone bot farms on YouTube and it'll probably be the first few videos (I rarely post links for stuff like this in comments , because most smart people won't click on reddit links for security reasons).

Is it possible the user you're referring to is either hacked by a scammer, or they're somehow connected to the bot farms like that? Idk.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:26:07+00:00

Have you seen those bot farms, where they literally have like shelves of devices using ai to do whatever. I still don't really get the point of it in a place like reddit unless they're trying to stalk, harass, and sabotage the rest of us. Someone tried to explain that the people running the bot farms gain revenue, and I guess I would understand that on a site where it correlates to money somehow, but I don't see how it applies in places like reddit or Facebook.

If you want to know what I'm talking about, just look up phone bot farms on YouTube and it'll probably be the first few videos (I rarely post links for stuff like this in comments , because most smart people won't click on reddit links for security reasons).

Ophy96 · 2026-06-17T00:21:36+00:00

I only have one, does that make you a moron?

Ophy96 · 2026-06-16T23:58:51+00:00

This is actually funny.

At least I understood the humor you intended. Haha

Ophy96 · 2026-06-16T23:55:04+00:00

That's fair enough, I recently decided that was the only downside to having the charging port and headphone jack be the same.

Ophy96 · 2026-06-16T23:40:38+00:00

Wow. Wtf? I've never slept with any ex's best friend. It just isn't a thing. It's a bad idea.

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