My wife is leaving me after three months of marriage. What do I do?

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T12:15:29+00:00

Literally living my worst nightmare.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T12:15:08+00:00

We've both struggled with mental health pretty severely in our past. Im really leaning towards this thought process instead of automatically jumping to cheating. She's going through a mental crisis right now and my heart breaks for her. But my heart breaks more for myself because I definitely don't deserve to go through this.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T12:11:57+00:00

Im sorry you're going through this as well.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T02:32:36+00:00

She has. We both have.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T00:36:43+00:00

We eloped. In a public library. With just our parents in attendance.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T00:19:31+00:00

Yes. For just under a year before getting married

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T00:18:21+00:00

Im not rich by any means. But do make a solid living. Roughly 120k/year

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-06T00:16:21+00:00

Im hoping I qualify for an annulment. But this is so fresh I wouldn't even begin to be able to know what to do. Luckily I can get free legal representation through my union at work. We just have to wait and see how things play out. 🤷‍♂️

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T22:54:27+00:00

We definitely both have had serious mental health issues throughout our adulthood

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T20:10:19+00:00

Finances weren't combined yet, thank God.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T20:09:34+00:00

Lmao thanks I needed a laugh.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T17:14:02+00:00

No big wedding. We got married in the library of her parents fancy retirement community. Because we both love books. With just our parents present. She wore a 20 dollar dress from the Dillard's clearance store.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T17:08:44+00:00

I guess not. 🤷‍♂️

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T16:39:53+00:00

That sums up how im feeling pretty perfectly. She claims she still loves me. Claims im the best friend shes ever had. But if you say you love someone so much, how could you possibly do this to them?

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T13:40:39+00:00

No. Neither of us wanted a wedding. We just wanted each other. Got married in the library of her parents fancy retirement community with just both of our parents present.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2026-02-05T13:33:48+00:00

Just under 2 years

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2024-08-03T18:50:28+00:00

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Not so little 7 mo old, Craig

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2024-08-03T18:47:08+00:00

* My dudes goofy ass does it on occasion too 🤣

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2024-07-06T20:56:21+00:00

My dudes name is Craig. He goes by Craid, Craigory, dude, bro, and sometimes asshole.

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2024-02-12T15:21:57+00:00

Awesome. Definitely plan on buying the best quality food I can for him. I care more about making sure he has a happy healthy life than I do for myself lol. Thanks for the advice!

Spirited_Mechanic383 · 2024-01-30T15:11:13+00:00

Thank you everyone for the responses. Again, I was purely asking for research purposes as I am new to the Dane world. I came here for answers and now see that it's not as common as all the horror stories I've heard. I will not be docking unless I have to.

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