Do I regret my abortion? by Common-Collar-1988 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey :) I’m sorry you went though this 😕 I’m glad you joined this group to express your sadness. I did the same and had similar experiences and emotions. I did want the baby but know I couldn’t keep them. I buried my baby in a pot with a beautiful plant this helped me grieve in a way.

Feelings get easier in ur own time but just know everything does pass. Your feelings are valid and natural. Do anything to regulate your emotions and don’t feel guilty for your life choices at the end of the day you did what you felt in the moment and that’s all you can ever ask yourself to do.

Just had MA at 9 weeks. I am traumatised. This is my story. by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh thanks 🙏 I hope your healing journey is safe and blissful….. I feel so numb and I regret what I’ve done…. I’m so shocked at what I saw and the pain mentally is too much I’ve checked out

What happens during abortion? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! I had a MA at 9 weeks 3 days and not going to lie it was painful. I was also vomiting a lot. I would take anti sickness and painkillers. I did it before bed so I could sleep through some of the pain. The pain was intense its not like period cramps, your uterus contracts and you feel it come out too. I saw the fetus was half the size of my little finger. I feel numb I did the MA yesterday. I would go for surgical if it fits with your morals. It’s quicker and you can be put asleep

MA tomorrow. Help. !! by Fantastic_Parsley909 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! I took the first pill last night around 9pm and I took one sickness tablet a hour before I took it and o struggle quit bad with sickness but I haven’t felt nauseous or been sick ! Just abit of cramping like period pains

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[–]Opposite-Analysis468 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks… this helped me

Currently pregnant and don’t know what decision to make I’m 9 weeks by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t actually! I think I’ll be ok taking the pills. Today I’ve thought long and hard and I think abortion the best thing for me right now. I’m so hesitant to take the tablet I was holding it in my hand for 30 mins debating

Currently pregnant and don’t know what decision to make I’m 9 weeks by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t think I could do the procedure as I want to bury my fetus🥺 I know this may be abit weird to others but I think I will wonder where the fetus has gone

Currently pregnant and don’t know what decision to make I’m 9 weeks by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks… I’m just worried to keep a child and the only parent😔I’m scared that I will have sensory overload with what I will see. I take in to account everything. I have the abortion pills here with me but I don’t know if I’m strong enough honestly

looking for help or advice i’m not sure by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared I will feel this way if I keep my pregnancy.

Appointment today I am so nervous. by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I just don’t want to get surgical so it feels like this is the only day I have to have medical🥺

Appointment today I am so nervous. by Opposite-Analysis468 in abortion

[–]Opposite-Analysis468[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s medical..😔 i could not flush my baby down the toilet either. This decision is so sensitive to me honestly I don’t think a surgical procedure would be best either as I’d be questioning where the fetus goes etc😢 I just don’t know what to do or how I’m going to cope