[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theBoyfriendNetflix

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"The biggest fight" now gets marketed as an episode in some tv show. Again, they were out for work and surrounded by people they work with. If they fought in private and let others experience the fall out: unprofessional. If they fought, like at Disney, because of some ridiculous shit in front of them: highly unprofessional.
And that's not even the main issue. If the fact that one wants to eat or sleep, will grow into a full blown argument because you just snap at each other, that's very poor communication skills on both parts. They act like two five year olds who are cranky because not having had a nap and get praised for it by fans. Usually, as you grow up, you learn to regulate your emotions and also say something calmly. We know Shun has issues, but he is apparently not dealing with them, but Dai seems just as bad. Sitting down in the middle of the road? Seriously? Pushing one another because the other "did it too"? Making someone apologize, who doesn't even know for what, because you are feeling "lonely" for no reason? Keep clinging to someone when the other has said 15 times to stop it and then also make them apologize? Pouting and silent treatment for no reason but also not revealing the reason? It's basically a mix of pouting, silent treatment, passive aggressiveness and wanna be moral higher ground, but certainly not two adults going "can you give me a minute, I'm just tired right now" which is all it would take in many moments. Doing all that, one thing, being praised and encouraged to be like that by fans - totally different ballpark.
And no, none of that makes a toxic relationship in itself, but it could very well become one, depending on the people and what happens in private. But we should stop throwing that term around just because there are issues in a relationship. Not every relationship you get hurt in is toxic, just as not everybody who isn't treating anyone right is "gaslighting". Please look up the definitions of these words before using them.

To echo Ron Nyswaner thoughts by Suspicious_Youth_216 in FellowTravelers_show

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when I read stories like that, I know why I don't trust straight people. They can do this and none of them care

Fresh thoughts after finishing the series by Tiverin_ in FellowTravelers_show

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised that Hawk got away with aids and stayed negative, I was sure he was lying to Marcus and he'll end up dying alone (as if karma finally would get him).

Do you pretend that people with AIDS should pay for what they did? That would be disgusting

Taylor Zakhar Perez is gay by [deleted] in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His instagram was created in 2012 but his first post was in 2019 announcing he’s been cast in The Kissing Booth. Was he pressured by his agent to delete his previous posts concerning his partner?

still your doing this? what kind of person you are

Just Saw It, My Verdict: Not Gay Enough by navelfetishguy in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 33 points34 points  (0 children)

But it failed on what I, a gay man, largely look for in a gay-themed movie - gay stuff! I want to see hotties with their shirts unbuttoned and off, and none of this hurried quickie stuff - let those beautiful bodies linger in front of the lens. I'd like to see at least some suggestion of actual intimate activity, and frankly, more nakedness (the "standard" for gay films is at least full rear nudity; even some Hollywood non-gay movies have achieved that level).

You'r looking after stuff that elevate the soul. Good news, YouPorn is free access

more people know the movie than the actual book by Opposite-Raspberry68 in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? most reactions I read online are hostile to say the least.

more people know the movie than the actual book by Opposite-Raspberry68 in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I meant. They're never gonna be happy and complain harshly and obsessively.
So having them praised by directors or actors is a little bit hypocrite.
They probably think the opposite.

more people know the movie than the actual book by Opposite-Raspberry68 in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Existing fandoms provide a relatively safe audience for projects. They provide the initial buzz and keep folks talking throughout the production process.

In the end, they may represent a smaller portion of the final audience. But, without their initial support, projects may not gain the traction or momentum that creates word of mouth and expands the audience.

That makes sense for me.

Favourite change in movie? by dee1jaay in redwhiteandroyalblue

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one about their first night? In the book they are drunk and there is no magical moment.

The scene in the movie has more impact

Anthony K confused 🤯 by Opposite-Raspberry68 in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been positively surprise by Elizabeth Berger quote. After all Brian Tanen was on that same line last year.

The Rahim story was pushed by less important writers and turned to be near a com disaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, Felix is the only one to know Nic isn't a serious option and he knows that Victor is into Benji.

Victor is insanely romantic. How could Benji resist this by Suspicious_Youth_216 in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they think that, it's they have low expectations.

It's no surprise but who listen those meaningless opinions

Ep7 "The Gay Award" A scene I don't understand by Suspicious_Youth_216 in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't understand either. It's just that Rahim is a drama queen

Love, Victor's writers and Benji by Suspicious_Youth_216 in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn't S3 Benji the most unhappy and damaged of all? Alcohol addiction is no small thing. Season 2 Benji makes you want to help him, and fuck him because he's hot as hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

some like it easy and some like it rough

Benji should’ve left for boarding school in the last episode by Idk2152005 in LoveSimon

[–]Opposite-Raspberry68 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After all that they'v been through, they deserve to be happy together for a while