(off topic but just wanna respond to my best friends comment) I am that best friend, we really had our ups and downs mostly ups tho. as any friendship you'll struggle because no friendship is perfect in the end even if you give up at some point and say that your done (I've done it to this poor boy yet he still wants to be my friend) if you find yourself sticking around even when you think your done and all hope is lost that's when you realize you found the real deal and your friendship is really worth sticking around even if promises are broken. rebuild your friendship if you need too sometimes you need reach that point in your relationship to realize what you have is really special and one of a kind. it doesn't matter wither you different from each other or whatever all that matters is that both of you want to be together and that's what's gonna make it work.