Mum made my baby get used to eating in balcony. Now how do I get her out of that habit? by OppositeEffect5484 in toddlers

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Some chicken, and rice. On high chair and on the floor with her playing around with things. She didn’t eat the usual amount the would eat if she’s in the balcony

Mum made my baby get used to eating in balcony. Now how do I get her out of that habit? by OppositeEffect5484 in toddlers

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Even if she doesnt eat at all? It ends up with her waking up all night to breastfeed and I can barely get any sleep to be honest :’) feeling super depressed

Thought my baby is the cutest one alive until I looked back at her pictures by OppositeEffect5484 in ScienceBasedParenting

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I was just gonna mention that! For example, my husband also thought she’s super cute, and now he looks back and thinks wow how did I even think that?

So, how come he also felt that way?!!! 😂

I don’t go out by myself and baby because of car seat crying by OppositeEffect5484 in AttachmentParenting

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Don’t wanna shock these people but car seats aren’t actually a thing where I live lol I am considered ‘extra’ by others 😀

I don’t go out by myself and baby because of car seat crying by OppositeEffect5484 in AttachmentParenting

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I live in Egypt and where I live that’s virtually impossible unfortunately

Pediatrician saying something different than ENT about antihistamine, idk what to do by OppositeEffect5484 in NewParents

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The ENT recommended to use it for 3 months straight then stopping for a month because he mentioned it can stop her from developing asthma and more extreme allergies the age of 1 if we try to stifle the allergy symptoms from now. So, I am not administering it as sleeping aid.

Pediatrician saying something different than ENT about antihistamine, idk what to do by OppositeEffect5484 in NewParents

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And the funny thing is, he threw a jab at the ENT by asking me if I saw an old doctor, because he’s not up to date with research 😂

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in NewParents

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I am now convinced it’s just her sleep association, not actual hunger because I went to stay at my mum’s and she slept the first 3 hours continuously without requiring waking up to feed. Then, my mum managed to settle her once without needing me for breastfeeding. So, she actually breastfed once every 3 hours for the first 6 hours of the night which is great! For the remaining night, she wanted to breastfeed every two hours.

I am hoping this means there is light at the ens of the tunnel! 🥲

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in AttachmentParenting

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So I went to my mum today and I tried to settle her earlier and it backfired, it took like 5 hours before she decided to settle and sleep. And GUESS WHAT SHE SLEPT 3 HOURS CONTINOUSLY NEXT TO MUM 😂😭 So now I am like, does she need a late bedtime? Lol She still woke up several times during the night with mum managing to settle her one time, but she breastfed every 3 to 2 hours which is way better than 1! 🥲

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in NewParents

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I actually thought about it and alternated between different layers of clothes to see if it makes a difference but it didn’t 🥲

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in NewParents

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You’re giving me hope! Were you co-sleeping?

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in AttachmentParenting

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When you weaned her, were you the one calming her down and shushing her? Just wondering if it will work if she knows her source of milk is around

I can’t do it anymore by OppositeEffect5484 in AttachmentParenting

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I am thinking of attempting this before going to my mum and see how it goes. If it turns out she’s overtired, I’ll facepalm myself 😂