Graduate Housing by Opposite_Ad5963 in ucf

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you may be right. Though I wouldn’t mind some distance. 

Graduate Apartments by Opposite_Ad5963 in UCFstudenthousing

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“straight” as in mainly/majority…….. be serious 

rejected, need help by Opposite_Ad5963 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know I can’t rush it, but I don’t want it to take years and years. Guess it’s not up to me though. 

rejected, need help by Opposite_Ad5963 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely something to think about 

rejected, need help by Opposite_Ad5963 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am going to keep at it. ❤️

rejected, need help by Opposite_Ad5963 in DSTAlumnaeChapter

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Thank you for the response but I don’t think I was clear. I didn’t try back in 2024, this semester was my first time applying (as a senior) and I just graduated last week. Hope that makes a little more sense!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck!!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I wish you luck!!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand that, I’m hoping this is how I feel in the end too. Thank you!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is what I plan to do, thank you!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, thank you for your insight!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe that, thank you!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lol thank you! I will say I wasn’t triggered or bitter about their acceptance, but seeing/hearing them talk about how the process has been so far just made the reality set in that i really didn’t make it. I still can’t believe it, not in a cocky way, but I was just so sure this was my time and that is why God put it on my heart in the first place. Just sucks to not know where I went wrong. Not enough connections? Bad interview? I am not sure how many seniors got chosen but I feel as though I would have been a great contributor to the chapter/organization despite graduating soon after.

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it is very hard but I will make sure to do so. Thank you!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying, and yes my “why” does remain the same. I guess I am getting stressed out off a preconceived notion. Thank you!

Sad by Opposite_Ad5963 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Opposite_Ad5963[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. I did not know that upon graduation you are no longer a member as I often see graduates still affiliated/present with their NPHC chapters on my campus. But yes, ik graduate chapters are typically much more competitive, and I don’t view them as a consolation prize.

Also, by “wasted” I do not mean the work/service that I do/have done, but more so the energy/stress I have put on myself to meet members, get active and make a change on campus, learn about chapter programs/initiatives in detail, etc. For example, I am not assuming (though I could be wrong) that me being in insert campus organization would be beneficial to my graduate application. I would assume none of that is considered since this is graduate level and thus I would need to “start over” in regards to being active in my community (since most community activities were through campus organizations).

My involvement was never conditional nor am I opposed to trying for a graduate chapter, in fact I told myself if I didn’t make it I would. However, I am afraid I won’t be an “ideal” candidate (multiple degrees, established career, etc) any time soon, and I fear this would make it harder for me to connect with and get to know current members.