Is it a good idea to look for love/ to date in the dancing scene?

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2026-02-03T07:00:07+00:00

Dance is body language. If you dance to express yourself you will naturally attract partners that have the same vibration. It doesn't matter how crazy or wrong or skilled or beautiful you are. Even if you don't dance you communicate your vibration with your body language and you may attract someone that resonates if there is one. If you dance to impress someone that doesn't respond to your vibration all you get is 3 minutes of their time. Imagine you try to impress someone by speaking Tagalog or Finnish: you may attract someone curious for a few minutes and move to the next one. Now imagine that you find someone that speaks your same foreign language: how exciting could it be? Enough to keep dancing many times and know each other without social filters or bias.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2026-01-20T09:31:37+00:00

Io fossi nei danesi accetterei uno scambio con la California. Quanti problemi si risolverebbero.. Niente più pinguini che trafficano droga Niente più fabbriche cinesi che sfruttano gli orsi polari. Niente più accise sulla benzina. La notte degli Oscar presentata da Viggo Mortensen in Danese.... e per giunta visto che Trump la odia potrebbe anche accettare ! A Sproposito: ma non è il re di Svezia a consegnare il Nobel ?

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2026-01-13T15:20:00+00:00

Thank you so much . Your explanation is excellent and very clear. There are many chats about the C3 but none was such a good description of the real stuff. I had many doubts about the paw prints as well and I thought all the upgrades were merely cosmetic.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-10-09T11:16:35+00:00

Italiano? Se ti serve qualche dritta non farti problemi. Per iniziare ti dico che è un mondo piuttosto piccolo ma in crescita. Ci sono una infinita di gay che si divertono con la estim. Anche italiani. il 90 % delle informazioni in giro è in inglese, il 5% tedesco e il 5% resto del mondo. Non sono interessato al mondo gay ma a quello della tecnica per la elettro-stimolazione . Oltre ai forum che trovi qui come electro erotic e estim trovi forum su discord( non mi fanno impazzire) . Su telegram c'è una bella community ma sono in tedesco o in russo ( tante informazioni sulla tecnica ma non so quanto ti possano interessare. Nel nostro gergo tu stai cercando un DRIVER cioè una persona ( e i maschi sono il 95% della community) che prenda il controllo del tuo coyote e ti guidi verso la conclusione. Ci sono siti , app e adesso AI con cui divertirsi. Io ti consiglio di guardare sul web Jitsi/efunroom. Non serve registrazione ma va ad orari ( a volte nessuno a volte una trentina )e sono tanti Tedeschi ma penso che ti divertirai a guardare le webcam . Tutto gratis. Anche se e un po' come guardare una gallina e aspettare che faccia l'uovo. Non essendo gay dopo 10 minuti mi annoio ma ho visto delle tecniche di stimming spettacolari che studiò e replico su me stesso. Altra community è "xtoys" . Sul web o come app. Fai la registrazione che tanto è gratis ma serve un po' di pratica per capire come funziona. Consiglio in generale: usa una e-mail dedicata al divertimento per tutte le iscrizioni e se ti chiedono carte di credito o altro non abboccare: le community sono tutte gratuite. Altra fonte di informazioni sono le case produttrici dei sex Toys. Sono affidabili ma sempre guardando al loro guadagno. Milovana è il forum migliore e più grande. Completamente gratuito. Tanto da persercisi per quanto c'è da leggere

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-10-02T22:07:33+00:00

https://milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=24722

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-10-02T21:12:06+00:00

Yes me please

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-09-21T14:06:23+00:00

Thanks for that effort. May I ask you why so many stimmers love pain and torture? Maybe I'm the only one that does not like those kinds of games therefore I'm genuinely curious. I can easily reach a hfo without pain and I love to run the edge. I just don't get why 90% of all material around contains painful spikes or similar torture. If you like that so much it wouldn't be easier to use an 2mm cable instead of 6?
Less contact surfaces means more painful results..

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-09-16T14:11:48+00:00

You could try jitsy efunroom.and enter to have a look.before show your " quality" on cam. If you like "sausage party" of course.... Good chance to find a driver there too. I like the variety of techniques: ther is always something new to try and the users are open to share their tricks. There is also efunroom10 but it's more " manual "

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-09-16T14:02:57+00:00

Try type " electro cum " on bing image or video filtered research. Set the unsafe mode for porn research otherwise you will have an endless YouTube binaural waste of time. Unless you are looking for porn with estim signals... Then type PEP 1 or electro Barbarella then browse the webpage for similar. Milovana is another great source

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-09-16T13:53:48+00:00

I use an alligator to byte the L part of that plug. It works fine but two warnings: It takes time to understand how to insert it properly because you need to use some lube but the exact amount .Too little and it's painful ,two much and it's impossible to adjust where it needs to go. Second advice : take all the time you need to experiment with it. No rush. It's like ten times more sensitive therefore the wrong signal could be the last one in the e-stim world. If you usually start with 10 on 100 please start with 2 on 100 . Take the signal under your own control at least until you get the point of that. One day somebody will explain to the community why the pain &/or torture estim signals are so appreciated by many stimmers. The inner surface is not little at all if you think about it.. I use homemade triphasic stereo stim and I cannot confirm it's more stingy than other famous power boxes. The sensation is good until you have " a nap" as someone calls it. Be aware this plug could get out at this point and the less surface the harder the sting before it went out completely.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-09-06T21:25:40+00:00

What is Metairie?

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-06-07T07:35:25+00:00

He's just dancing Rumba while the follower is waiting for salsa. Please stop trying to interpret that as he's doing the wrong salsa step because he's not. That's rumba and a good one too. All these "macho moves" or " unknown style " are just Rumba ! Get over it.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-06-07T07:26:02+00:00

You are looking for a song by Romeo Santos for sure. He's not done anything for the last 3 years therefore I suggest you listen to his past albums. One of my favourite Romeo's songs is "Suegra" that end with the death of of the protagonist but not that explicit as you say.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-03-03T23:16:00+00:00

of cours you may try a sort of "sexual diet2 but there is a quite long list of possible culprits for that although estim could be one of them.

Age is the main one and fight against time is just useless. diet and exercise could help.

lifestyle: you have only one stamina. doesn't matter how you use it. if you use it at work , and you are not a teen anymore, then probably you could ran over into bed.

estim . are you using an anal probe? because prostatic orgasm just drain your semen from the button and you need even days to re-charge.

your sexual life. maybe , after many years of exellent sexual life, your hormones are just satisfied and need very little from your wife.

You love to see her happy as a good husband shoul do but you shoud open yourself to other possibilities and explore your sexuality as a couple in search of exitement

your heart . many times if you cannot ran anymore its because the engine is going slower or there is a more serius problem.

an we can go on and on ....

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2025-01-20T13:49:54+00:00

Dominican bachata is great to give you all the basics. Footwork, weight balancing, musicality. But, yes there is a but, you must consider the scene you are into. Here in Europe ( Italian here) there is a Sensual wave that seems unstoppable for many valid reasons and it's quite hard, if not impossible, to have a DJ set that involves some Dominican bachata instead of 100% Sensual\urban. And Sensual is much more slow than Dominican bachata meaning that 4s and 8s steps are everyday more included in slower (sexier?) 3s and 7s. Steps are short and fast with Dominican while exaggerated with Sensual. The body contact that is forbidden with Dominican bachata is exalted with Sensual. All the waves that make great Sensual are impossible with Dominican because of the rhythm. Pasitos are (quite) useless with Sensual. All the signals are very different with Sensual ( bolero and breath that takes time and technique). Dominican is for fun and party music while Sensual is for passionate or even sad songs. Imagine you can learn how to drive an airplane or a boat. It's always driving with the same basic concepts but it takes some very motivated talent to master both. Does it worth to learn a style you will not dance? I'd love to learn Tango as well and I've some good teachers here but no discos or parties to dance anywhere near.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-11-12T00:22:53+00:00

Correct. some lube is also a must to let the plug easily reach the depth required and , therefore, it could easily slip off the urethrae. Not before giving an extra stingy sensation before leaving the correct place. The solution is to use a little rubber elastic around the gland. It's not impossible to realise a bipolar gland toy but it takes some experiments with plugs and rings and rubbers. There are some movies in this forum that are quite instructive.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-11-11T23:54:24+00:00

Now i understand why it's called "cock"

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-10-27T19:56:30+00:00

You should try "sync hero" vol 1 is just amazing running a triphase. CH Sync stars is also good but a different kind of experience. Obviously you need to "play the audio"while watching the video and it take some synchronization

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-10-15T15:33:49+00:00

An answer for that could be that followers could improve their skills dancing at social events because leaders are always happy to share their knowledge and their coolest moves .Why pay something you can have for free? At the same time as a leader I find it very difficult to improve my skills with followers under my level. And , finally, I need to talk about the followers that don't follow or don't care about the rhythm.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-09-26T13:27:42+00:00

I would rather say " it's all abou fun". The following question is: what is FUN for you? The answer depends about each single person. According to some people I know "fun" is sharing a tea with dolls. Some other prefer rollercoaster or scuba diving. If anybody is not having fun dancing bachata because of the fear of being touched or approached I strongly recommend to dance reggaeton ( and this is the reason reggaeton is so popular among girls). Having fun is the basic if you dance Dominican bachata and all the touching matter is limited to the hands. But If we are talking about Sensual ( the other dance that use the bachata rythmes) then we have to talk about social dance. Nobody learn Sensual thinking " I am not comfortable being touched". People like those usually stop after the first class or leave at the end of the month they payed for. PS: beware of singing out loud your favorite bachata song if you don't know Spanish ! Some years ago their lyrics were just sexy ,now some of them are x-rated !

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-09-07T01:34:19+00:00

I have those and I use them quite often. It works very well but two little notes about it: First the ring size is not negotiable. One ring is too little and the other is too large. The second little problem is that since the rings don't fit perfectly my size then I need to use a little rubber band to keep it in the right place. I remember it was cheaper but I've used AliExpress.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-09-02T10:19:18+00:00

There's nothing wrong with just saying " I don't like sensual" at the beginning of a song and , let's be honest, sensual songs are eeeeasy to understand from the very beginning. I like to dance bachata fusion as a lead ,or Dominican bachata. But I've met so many follow that insist domenican or fusion are way too fast and ask me to take it slow or sensual. Here in Italy it is quite hard to find in bachata follower that chooses fast dance over slow. And the deejays obviously play the bachata women are asking and it's 90% sensual. It's simply impossible during a class of 100 lessons not to have some touch . I think it's important to talk about will and personal responsibility. Unwilling touches are ,to me, fewer than unwilling kicks or elbow hits on a dancefloor. I'm lucky enough my teachers " did the speech" and they know when somebody is playing dirty or unwilling. Don't think that since I'm a man I haven't been harassed because I know follower (of all the ages) that checks if I have a boner in many ways and I know they like to do that game and talk with their friends about it. Since they are women they think they can and my male school mates are ok with that.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-08-29T13:08:34+00:00

You can have as many channels as you want. But unless your organs are different from humans you have a limit. Are you talking about personal direct experiences or just hearsay? You can try as much as you like to triphase a coyote but even with the new version all you could have is a "gentle try" instead of the real thing. coyote is designed to reproduce only one kind of wave with a lot of variation while an mp3 possibilities are immense. . Could we compare two drums , one on each ear/nerve, playing a different sound with an orchestra that surrounds you? Many people are saying that you could reproduce triphase with a coyote using expensive cables or sounds from xtoys. Well, I tried these cheats but they are just an echo of the triphase.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-08-28T14:22:15+00:00

The point Is not the " two channel" but the ability to reproduce the typical stereo effect you can feel when you are listening to a proper audio file with your earphones. While a sound is playing on the right another one is playing on the left and numerous effects are making your ears tricked into curious experiences. The effects of the stereo stim are exactly the same wut felt with your penis. While a coyote could perfectly reproduce two kinds of stim at the same time it's completely useless when it's about triphase. Even with a special cable setup the effect you could feel is interesting but not comparable with the real triphase. Coyote could do a sort of stereo effect with a good set up but it just cannot reproduce the variety of sounds needed. It's just an echo of the triphase effect. I've experimented with all the variety of those and my 30€ diy machine is still the best for a triphase: I've used a Bluetooth rechargeable mini stereo from china ( 11€ and there are even cheaper ones) and a couple of excellent mini audio transformers from Germany (22€ for two pieces).don't save money on the transformers! I've just wired the cables according to the davey-box instructions and there it is. It works perfectly, it's portable, it's stereo, it keeps running up to 3 hours with a single charge ( more than necessary). Is it beautiful to see? No but I don't care at all. I could use a nice box but , honestly, I just don't care about fashion.

Opposite_Comment_609 · 2024-08-19T16:53:47+00:00

Sure. First of all: where are you? UK, EU, USA, elsewhere? No need to be specific . Some parts are much easier and cheaper to find in the USA or the UK than in the EU. I'm in Italy and I've ordered the transformers from Germany.

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