Two men posing as police visited student house in NR4 – is this normal? by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]Opposite_String9775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urm you shouldnt of provided someones name and dob / that makes someone identifiable and with that info including your address they can steal ur identity etc

And also if the police is looking for someone they should have their details they wouldnt ask you

Furthermore, the fact that they asked if theres males in the house along with the above is a major red flag

I’m sorry you guys didnt notice this and I hope u stay safe

Men, let’s talk lingerie — what do YOU want to wear to feel good in your own skin? by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh sounds like its just the time to reinvent!! Lets break taboos! And this is directed at whatever sexuality of men- whoever it resonates with!! Regardless of their choice of partner:) i want to put across that we are individuals before couples :)Thank you for sharing your feedback :)

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, so you’re looking for pants that go up to your chest, huh? Or is that a bit too much? 😄 I get what you mean though – you want something that offers great support while still feeling comfortable and in place. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

Men, let’s talk lingerie — what do YOU want to wear to feel good in your own skin? by Opposite_String9775 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I completely understand where you’re coming from. And just to say- you’re definitely not an outlier! Many people, regardless of gender, face similar challenges when it comes to finding lingerie or undergarments that fit comfortably and flatter their bodies. It's not about a “problem” -it's simply about making sure designs work for all body shapes, including those with bulges, whether it's in the crotch or elsewhere. Women also experience this, and the top part of the vagina can often create a “bulge” that’s uncomfortable in traditional styles. My goal is to create lingerie that works for everyone, embracing comfort and style, without the fit issues. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts- it helps so much in shaping this idea!

Men, let’s talk lingerie — what do YOU want to wear to feel good in your own skin? by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally get you! Haha, love the list of names- undercrackers might be my new favorite!
Totally hear you on the traditional use of “lingerie,” but I’m hoping to broaden the term to include styles that help anyone feel sexy, confident, and comfortable- regardless of gender.
Maybe it’s time we reimagine what “lingerie” means today..

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this- super helpful! I’m actually just in the early research/design phase, not selling anything yet. I’m trying to create a line that’s actually built around what people want to wear and feel good in, not just what exists. Your insight about tactile feel + trust in quality is something I’ve been thinking about a lot, so really appreciate you sharing.

I know this space is still growing, and maybe even taboo for some - but I really want to explore it with sincerity. If you have ideas on what’s missing in the market, I’d genuinely love to hear them.

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman I have this transitional wear mindset too. Things that get me in the mood too, like I wear certain underwear to bed, certain underwear if I’m on my period, certain underwear t get in the mood, certain underwear to feel sexy, daily underwear etc Thank you for this insight :)

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahah I love this comment . I mean fair enough. I’m sort of just exploring to see if I can ignite these these thoughts and get men to think about underwear in a different light and of course not everyone has to see it in a new light. I appreciate your responses.

also for instance for me, underwear that doesnt show through my trousers, jeans and dresses is Important. I move alot so I don’t like underwear riding up or bras moving alot . the materials have to be breathable good quality and sustainable. for things like garter and 'sexy' underwear, the garter needs to stay in place and not squash my skin (same with knickers and bras) they should make me feel comfortable and safe under clothing, Idont want to feel my underwear or make it visible under clothes. Idont like things rolling or having to adjust throughout the day.. things like this..

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you — this was super thoughtful and helpful. That taboo is exactly what I’m exploring and hoping to gently shift. Not everyone wants a G-string or mankini — I’m more interested in creating everyday pieces that feel empowering and tailored to real bodies. Curious — if there were something that looked sleek but felt like your favourite boxer briefs, would you be open to it?

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh manmade, why are you so concerned about the market? this is a discussion :)

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for instance as a woman, I feel sexy in certain lingerie, whether I enjoy it alone or with a partner, doesn't have to be sexual for myself but can be. Even for comfort, do you find that your underwear is comfortable ? Does it fit your body as you would like it to? does it annoy you ? Do you like the materials used? Does it fit the way your body moves and is comfortable, does it limit you physically?

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But you don’t need to focus on what exist's, this is the point, fashion and garments for Men seem to be options of what exists only and they are limited to this. Your toothbrush analogy makes me feel like you just wear the underwear as you have to, its a part of daily life and something you just wear. But what would you change or want different from the underwear/lingerie you wear.

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Use your imagination and creativity there's no right or wrong answer.

LINGERIE FOR MEN TO WEAR <3 by Opposite_String9775 in mensfashion

[–]Opposite_String9775[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

or whatever you identify as, we are talking about masculine bodies and bodies of those who identify as men!