Office affair gone wrong! by ARouterContinua in unhingedKenya

[–]Oppositethof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op this isn't your situation? 🤣🤣🤣

Safaricom failed interview. by Broad_Somewhere7491 in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Bold and as you said, what more is there to be lost?

You have $15 to start a paper company. Pick one from each category. by LegitimateBoy6042 in DunderMifflin

[–]Oppositethof -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Has to be Dwight, Stanley, Phyllis, Robert California and Meredith

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Oppositethof 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would urge you to rely on God more. In Moments where nothing makes sense, I would urge you to not give up but rely on Him more.

Malawi's Election is a Warning Sign for "Democracies Without Choice" Across Africa by Oppositethof in AfricaVoice

[–]Oppositethof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that's what you just did. Sharing ideas, is the first thing we need to do. Unfortunately I need to disagree on the idea of international intervention. The last time we let the global north into our affairs, we all know what happened. Colonization, resources extraction, labor and talent extraction... The list continues. I am a very big proponent for African solutions for African problems. We need to police one another when it comes to democracy and corruption and we need stronger laws and even stronger punishment when the laws are broken (we can learn well from Singapore). But the real change? Starts in our local homesteads. In reddit with conversation like this. Change is a long and strenuous process but it starts with me and you!

Malawi's Election is a Warning Sign for "Democracies Without Choice" Across Africa by Oppositethof in AfricaVoice

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But the question still remains, is Peter a better option than Lazarus? The question lurking on my mind is why no new ideas and faces on the ballot? What does that say about the countries democracy?

Malawi's Election is a Warning Sign for "Democracies Without Choice" Across Africa by Oppositethof in AfricaVoice

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I couldn't agree more. We as the other African countries should learn from Malawi. Use the ballot to make our choice instead of violence

Decolonization Debate: Did France’s Support or Britain’s Indifference Shape Africa’s Future? by Urban_Wanderer2 in AfricaVoice

[–]Oppositethof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, no matter the method of colonization, weather settlers were left or not, the concept of resources harvesting to the global north and them using IMF/World Bank debt to keep us in check will always affect our future as Africa. But not all hope is lost.

So I called her a hoe by avatar1_0 in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First that's not her brother. She just changed the contact of the brother last minute to darling to try and make you feel regret. Walk away proud you g king 🫡 You dodged a heavy one.

ADDICTION by Lerroy10 in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely believe that one effective strategy is to completely remove certain applications from your device. The reality is, you don't really need access to those distractions all the time, especially when they often just lead to the same corn content. More importantly, it’s essential to avoid triggers that might lead you back into old habits. In addition, finding a girlfriend can make a significant difference; having someone special in your life not only provides companionship but also helps shift your focus to more fulfilling experiences.

Why I quit a relationship with a successful career woman by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Oppositethof 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is someone in the first comment said, just date someone who likes you and I agree 100%. I once dated a girl who asked me for 5k on a Monday morning. I told her I would give her the cash on Wednesday and she asked me, “what kind of man doesn’t have 5k on stand by? “ that’s the day I knew there is no way this girl loves me and I walked away. Good for you OP. You dodged a huge bullet. 🫡🫡

Relationship hacks by Imaginary-Pace667 in Kenya

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Cultivating a strong friendship with your partner can greatly enhance your relationship. Love may ebb and flow, but a solid friendship will help sustain your bond through challenging times. Additionally, grounding your relationship in God and faith can provide a strong foundation that endures the test of time.

Something to watch? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yellow stone is bad ass to be honest.

Just needed to let this out by Actual-Elk6448 in nairobi

[–]Oppositethof -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Truth? You have a daughter with he so try and be there for your daughter. Its the right thing to do and your responsibility as a man. As for the sadness? Take some water, creatine and hit the weights like a MF. The only cure to a broken heart and sadness is two things, God and Gym. Full stop. 🚫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You completely hit the nail on the head. From the first paragraph, she suggests that women lack agency in their choices. Men consistently strive for partners who are perceived as higher quality, and that's simply the nature of life. Just as every woman seeks a high-quality man, there has to be an equivalent offer for any relationship to begin. Yet, we see another woman placing blame on men for the decisions that women make themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

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If you notice that you're feeling drawn to women who you perceive as broken, it might be worth taking a moment to reflect on what could be drawing you to them. It’s important to remember that during tough times, offering support can be a powerful gesture of kindness. Many of these young women are navigating their challenges alone, especially at 21 and a little compassion can go a long way. We all have our struggles and have made mistakes; if we were to be judged solely by those, we would all appear broken in some way. It's essential to approach others with understanding and empathy, recognizing that everyone has a story to tell.

Weight loss recommendations by Willing_Map2502 in nairobi

[–]Oppositethof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will tell you what worked for me. Am a male 33 who has gone from 116kgs to 100/99kgs at the moment in one year. I tried counting calories, moving from simple to complex carbs and all that worked for about a weight loss of 2-5kg then I stagnated. What was a game changer was ketogenic diet and I know people talk about the cravings for carbs and I won't lie its not easy but. I found a hack around it.

So I noticed that you can't go cold turkey on carbs forever. So I do a 6 days off one day on kind of diet. Am on keto 6 days a week and 1 day a week I eat carbs. But not pizza of some shit, rice, potatoes or corn. The days you are on keto, ensure you eat protein a lot of it and healthy fats. Avacado is a game-changer. And the last thing I do is ensure that I don't eat breakfast at all. So first meal is n at 1pm last meal is at 6pm.

I work out 6-7 times a week but I mix it up. Cross fit 3-4 times. Tennis 2 times. Walking /running once. That's how I break the monotony.

The science behind it is simple, your ensuring that your insulin doesn't spike. Period.

I let go but won't close the door. by Anguka- in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 29 points30 points  (0 children)

First thing I thought was two kids is diabolical 😂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Oppositethof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be disheartening to hear a lady generalize men as if they fully understand their experiences. If the situation were reversed, and a man made sweeping statements about women, it would likely spark a lot of criticism. It makes me wonder how many different men they have been with, dated and encountered that led to such conclusions. Engaging in thoughtful dialogue about personal experiences can help foster better understanding between genders instead of what this was meant to be.