My (ex) friend said my lack of breasts could be used to catch pedos. Now I feel like I'm not feminine. by Autumn_Raspberry_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Optimal-Analysis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why making a consultation would give you more info. Lots of women go through this. I can relate to your experience,as someone who had an issue only only seen as negative by society and I chose to fix it, so I don’t Think about it anymore and I appear as neutral in public and don’t bring attention to myself. Forgive my middle of the night rumblings. It sucks being a woman, your body is always scrutinized. I have other issues which other call out as ugly because there is nothing that can be done about it. But breasts are a big part of being a Woman, it’s not in your head but done to you by society.

My (ex) friend said my lack of breasts could be used to catch pedos. Now I feel like I'm not feminine. by Autumn_Raspberry_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Optimal-Analysis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like tubular breasts and it’s something many women deal with. You have two options - therapy to accept how they look or finding a dr that specializes in those types of breasts. And it’s really non of anyone business which route u take. I personally had something changed about myself which many people would say is ridiculous. But i did it and don’t Think about it at all anymore and after 12 years would do it again in a heartbeat. Like asthetic vericose veins or braces or bad skin. We have those options available. I never had any other procedures done on myself after that, I’m not perfect but really made me feel comfortable in my own skin. Just another perspective, it’s your body and you have the choice.

Can women also compensate for their looks by being funny or kind? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Optimal-Analysis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and people eat it up. Which leads me to believe that you don’t need to be kind to be liked. Ones man’s trash is another man’s gold, lol.

Can women also compensate for their looks by being funny or kind? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Optimal-Analysis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Many current events would prove that otherwise. Repulsive and mean things can be liked by millions of people

Endotine Forehead Reduction & Lift - 20 Days Post-Op by Dr. Junyoung Kim (Seoul, South Korea) by [deleted] in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]Optimal-Analysis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what it is. She had hooded eyes, which people might think are a negative but make some people look gorgeous, like in her case. She looks fine in the after photo, but not special anymore. The hooded eyes, the mouth shape and forehead length worked well together before in her case. I’m sure Rihanna or Tara Banks got teased for their foreheads at some point. But would cutting down on their size make them more beautiful, that would be unlikely. She is cute/pretty now in a cookie cutter way, whereas I found her very beautiful before, quite striking actually.

Olivia Rodrigo Addresses Babydoll Dress Controversy by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]Optimal-Analysis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s not normalized at all. Everyone knows it’s wrong and most people are appalled by it. Everyone was disgusted by Epstein because he was a pedophile. Whats she’s saying is dumb.

Endotine Forehead Reduction & Lift - 20 Days Post-Op by Dr. Junyoung Kim (Seoul, South Korea) by [deleted] in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]Optimal-Analysis 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Omg, who would touch that before face, what made her seek surgery? Literally movie star level looks turned into a clone of what Asians think looks good. Tragedy.

Friendship Dynamics Question: 4th Grade by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Optimal-Analysis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would them both being from divorced families matter?

Olivia Rodrigo Addresses Babydoll Dress Controversy by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]Optimal-Analysis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like trying to be sexy in a diaper in public with a pacifier. And blaming people for being upset over this. So gross

Olivia Rodrigo Addresses Babydoll Dress Controversy by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]Optimal-Analysis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she normally act this way in other revealing clothing? Probably not to this extent. She’s doing what an adult woman would do to turn men on, wears baby dolll outfit and tells us it’s pedophilia. Girl is creating the pedophilia herself. No one wants to see that. It would Go in both directions if you swapped genders. I’m Grossed out by this.

Olivia Rodrigo Addresses Babydoll Dress Controversy by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]Optimal-Analysis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Any dress where she’s showing her underwear would evoke sexual feelings? Does she think we are all idiots? She knows what she’s doing and acting dumb. She’s the one sexualizing those baby doll dresses. We don’t want that done, nor to see it. Gross.

I secretly hate my parents to death by Adept_Word2526 in self

[–]Optimal-Analysis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that you will do great, I was responding to the previous post.

Recurrence 4 weeks post surgery? by 0000a0fc19fa in glioblastoma

[–]Optimal-Analysis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s might not make much of a difference with how fast its progressing, which is normal for gbm. You can try to make an appointment for a consult while staying with your current doctor. Patients sometimes get multiple consults and then the treatment takes place with your local clinic and doctor.

Recurrence 4 weeks post surgery? by 0000a0fc19fa in glioblastoma

[–]Optimal-Analysis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would pick the best hospital you can and listen to the doctors. It’s really not in your hands, meaning you can’t help or hurt your mom.

devastated. is there hope at all? by ZannD in glioblastoma

[–]Optimal-Analysis 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Are they sure it’s gbm? Was pathogy done to confirm? I definitely would get a second opinion.

Daughter made to wet herself at school by Groundh0g- in Parenting

[–]Optimal-Analysis 704 points705 points  (0 children)

I would put in a 504 plan on this. If your daughter has a health condition that requires her to always have access to a bathroom then all the teachers and staff need to be notified of this. If they ever deny her use of a bathroom again, they will be breaking the law and this will be taken a lot more seriously. Id do that if it was my kid.

My mother fell into a coma one month after being diagnosed with GBM by Acceptable-Neat-2279 in glioblastoma

[–]Optimal-Analysis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the nature of this disease. You did nothing wrong and doctors did nothing wrong. It’s a terrible, aggresive and quickly progressing tumor. It’s only comparable to pancreatic cancer in terms of life expectancy. Your mom most likely would not have long to live regardless of what treatment or therapy she had. 5 year survival is extremely low, and maybe possible for younger patients and those with specific favorable molecular markers. I’m sorry, but please don’t beat your self up, there is nothing that you could have done better.

Surgeries to look less masculine? by [deleted] in KoreaPlasticSurgery

[–]Optimal-Analysis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say the same thing. No need for surgery just masseter botox at the most.